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Lessons in love and sales from eHarmony

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Real Living

I'll admit it. I'm a big fan of eHarmony.com - http://www.eharmony.com/ - and I'm married and the mom of four. The reason I'm a fan is the marketing genius and lessons we all can learn from the site and its approach. Launched in 2000, the site is the #1 trusted relationship destination on the website, and has kept that position even in the face of a lot of competition. Why?

•1.       A real person as founder.  You are the spokesperson for your brand. In fact, you are your brand. Are you communicating genuinely? Authentically? Are you being real? 

•2.       True differentiation. Back in an era where horoscopes were the best the lovelorn could turn to for guidance, eHarmony introduced its patented Compatibility Matching System. Brilliant. How are you differentiating yourself and your services to your target audience? Are you a specialist in an area, in a type of property? Do you know your target audience? You need to know who they are before you start a differentiated relationship with brand you.

•3.       Social networking, before it was a buzzword. By pushing only those candidates with high compatibility based on 29 relationship dimensions and giving the customer the choice of how frequently to communicate with their love prospects, they put the power in the hands of customers long before most brands. How are you doing on this point?

•4.       Consumer control of the experience. See above.

•5.       Raving fans and product extensions. The eHarmony spots feature the happy couples born from the site - 90 members on average are married every single day - and now the company offers the eHarmony Marriage wellness program to help married couples. What are you doing to make sure your happy customers feel the love today and tomorrow?

•6.       Tapping into consumer trends. Women control or influence more than 85 percent of all home purchases. Are you ok with that? Do you understand how to apply this to your business?  

Hopefully, you can appreciate the brilliance of eHarmony. I know I do.  Let me know what you think!

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Steve Hirschler
Keller Williams Big Bear - Big Bear Lake, CA
Big Bear Real Estate

Kaira,

Looks like this is your first post. Welcome to AR. I am a father of 4 beautiful daughters. 15,17,19,21

Steve

Mar 31, 2008 10:55 AM
Stephanie Moen (Lazcano)
Champions Real Estate Group - Houston, TX
Commercial Property Manager and Leasing Agent

Kaira,

Great Blog, it's important to know your competition and stay ahead of the game and being sincere.  You have to put yourself in the eyes of the consumers.  I was just thinking of how many people stick with the standard old marketing techniques, which will work but when you are competing with others, what makes the consumer want to choose you over the competition.  Thanks for sharing

Mar 31, 2008 10:58 AM
Jeffery Griffin
Jeff Griffin LLC - Wailuku, HI
Broker Owner

wow

>Tapping into consumer trends. Women control or influence more than 85 percent of all home purchases. Are you ok with that? Do you understand how to apply this to your business? < 

 

When mom's happy everyone is happy. 

Mar 31, 2008 11:00 AM
Kaira Sturdivant Rouda
Real Living - Malibu, CA

Steve: wow! four girls...I have three boys and one girl...aren't they fabulous! Thanks for your comment and I'm glad the post resonated!

Leo and Stephanie: Clearly, you know what I'm talking about, with imbedded video on your site and more! Kudos!

And yes, Jeffey, when mom is happy everyone is happy!

 

Mar 31, 2008 01:17 PM