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How much is my house worth? aka here comes the kiss of death

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties Licensed in Connecticut

real estate kiss of death new milford ctSouthern Litchfield County Real Estate. 

Connecticut real estate has not yet caught up with the rest of the country despite what the national news says. I am sure there are some markets around the country that are doing well, and there are many that are like we are here in Connecticut. And yet there are some places in Connecticut that I hear are doing better than we are here in Southern Litchfield County. 

The bottom line is, real estate is hyper local. Because of that, our local market might not be living up to the national news. Your house may not be worth what you hope it is, what you would like to get for it, or what you need to get for it.

I always take a deep breath before getting to the bottom line. It can be a very painful subject, I get that. I don't particularly like delivering what others consider to be bad news. But I feel that telling a potential seller the truth about the price of their home and the realtiy of our local real estate market is the only way to go.

The kiss of death! We just loved all your marketing, we really felt good about you, but not your price... so we listed with someone else. 

It happens, and I get it. I may not like it but I do get it. Deciding who to list with based on the price can be a real recipe for disaster. A while back I was called out to to a market analysis on a home. The sellers were moving out of state so they needed to sell, no matter what. They hated my price. And they really disliked my answers when I justified my price. 

But what about this house the other agent showed us as a comp? It sold over a year ago. Why are you so sure that the fact we don't have central air is a reason to reduce? This is a large, newer home. People expect central air. And because you have baseboard heat it will cost a buyer $10,000 plus to add central air. There was more, I saw where we were going. And the location is one that can be a really tough sell. With winter coming on I knew it was going to be even tougher.

Andrea, tell us the truth, what's our house worth?

When I am asked to get to the bottom line by a prospective seller, I often flash the scene in the movie "A Few Good Men" where Jack Nicholson yells "You can't handle the truth!" It sounds harsh I know, but the truth up front is far less painful to your wallet and sanity than being led down the primrose lane.

Next real estate agent please!

So they went with the higher price. It was $30,000 over my price. At over 200 days on the market and two agents later, the house sold at $5,000 less than my expected price. I was not surprised, but I bet they were. 

It doesn't make me happy, of course I wanted the listing. But what I truly feel bad about is that they needed to sell quickly and didn't. 

There are many factors to consider when pricing a home for sale, but these are the three most important. 

  • The local real estate market.
  • The condition of the home.
  • The location of the home.

I look at what is currently the competition and what has recently sold that is similar. Similar in condition, in size, similar amenities, similar neighborhoods.

The sale price of other similar homes will tell me what a bank will most likely lend on your home and what a buyer will most likely offer on your home.

If you don't like the price I give, I do apologize. I'm in the business of selling homes, not holding onto a bunch of listings that won't sell. And I don't enjoy getting a seller ready for the next agent either!

But can't we just price it higher because the buyers are going to offer far less anyway?

No, not a good idea. They won't find your house in their search. Buyers search a bit higher than what they can afford but putting your house in the wrong price range means buyers won't be finding it. Buyers have a keen sense of what they will pay for a house, of where the value is. And there is no law that says you  have to accept an unacceptable offer! The word to remember is "negotiation"!

It might take both patience, luck and skill.

Lastly, there are some price ranges that just aren't moving here. If your house falls into one of those ranges, you are in for a wait. Hunker down and make sure your house is shown in the best light possible with the correct price, with great curb appeal and with fantastic marketing to attract those few and far between buyers. 

If you want to know what your home is really worth in today's Southern Litchfield County real estate market give me a call at 203.460.1775. 

 

Posted by

Andrea Swiedler, Realtor, Southern Litchfield County Real Estate

2017 President, Greater New Milford Board of Realtors

2017 Connecticut Magazine 5 Star Realtor

 

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Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Andrea, it is a tough time for us and the rest of the country with their reports of a seller's market is echoed when I make a presentation.  We just have to grin and bear it and thank them for the opportunity, as we walk away mumbling

Feb 26, 2015 01:29 AM
Chandler Real Estate Liz Harris, MBA
Liz Harris Realty - Chandler, AZ
#ChandlerRealEstateAgent

Finding out what your house is worth can be one of two things. Either a disappointment, or a blessing. Best of luck to you!

Feb 26, 2015 04:10 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Kim Boekholder Utah Real Estate , I have been asked why didn't I use certain comps... because they don't apply, that's why! Perhaps they do know, maybe they get led down some primrose path. But I can't be that way!

Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert HA! Yes, I hate getting them groomed for the next agent too!

Anna Banana Kruchten I have told some it is not the time to sell. I don't know when it will be here, I hope soon! I remember you going through the pain.

Ed Silva Ed, Ed, Ed I'm a grinnin' and a bearin'... perhaps not so well. 

Chandler Real Estate Liz Harris, MBA , thank you. Yes it can be either one, a blessing is so much easier to take!

Feb 26, 2015 04:41 AM
Brian Rugg
Rugg Realty LLC Sun City Texas 512-818-6700 - Georgetown, TX
Sun City TX Real Estate - Georgetown, TX Real Est

Andrea Swiedler

We all go through this.  My current frame of mind is I make recommendations and the seller decides.  If their price isn't crazy, we go for it.  Rugg Realty just set the high water mark on a price per square foot basis on a home sold in Sun City Texas.  No comp like like but it worked.

Feb 26, 2015 04:56 AM
Janis Borgueta
Newburgh, NY
Retired RE Salesperson

This article is how my days have been going lately with listing appointments. I am not a magician and I can't change the actual sales prices. I have lost more listings than I have gained lately because of it. I won't list for more than I can sell as I don't have time to list and Not sell. Sad but true, my market has not rebounded like the national statistics either. I only wish!!

Feb 26, 2015 06:06 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Andrea, bottom line is a home is worth what a buyer is willing to pay! Barring a financed purchase it also has to appraise.  Typically an over priced home will languish on the market costing the seller even more in lost time and $$$. Over all your scenario of over priced homes selling is atypical.

Feb 26, 2015 06:36 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Andrea those who prefer to have their ears tickled in stead of hearing the truth will go with the Agent who tells them what they want to hear.  What they will not want to hear most is the answer they get once they list with the other Agent as to why they have not gotten any offers on their house.

Feb 26, 2015 07:23 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Many times once they find out they are wrong they are to embarrassed to call you and have you take over.

Feb 26, 2015 08:31 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

I like your approach.  I do much the same thing as you describe.  

Feb 26, 2015 12:24 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Andrea Swiedler sounds too familiar..and very rightly described as Kiss of Death! 

"We just loved all your marketing, we really felt good about you, but not your price... so we listed with someone else. "

Feb 26, 2015 02:09 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Andrea  - Sometimes the sellers are not prepared to hear the truth.  Still, it's our job to provide them with our knowledge and expertise.

Feb 26, 2015 02:22 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Yes, some sellers just have their mind or heart set on a certain price and they don't really want to hear what the data says.

Feb 26, 2015 08:06 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Delicate stuff this pricing and back and forth nibbling on whatever the tag says. You have to let buyer's know there is not automatically, always wiggle room. That the price is the price and with a bank, you are not going to pay more than the property is worth. When a seller gets mad and hollers "I am NOT going to give it away" explain don't kill the messenger. But the anger deep down is knowing this, this and that improvement hurt your bottom line, and get over thinking you get what all the receipts add up to.

Feb 26, 2015 09:34 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Dean, Dean.....I forgot what I was going to say, it's just good to see you!  

Feb 26, 2015 09:35 PM
Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Andrea, as long as there are agents out there who will buy overpriced listings at whatever price the buyer wants, this will continue to happen. Looking at the bright side, if the sellers won't negotiate the list price what else will they not negotiate. Maybe you didn't want the listing in the first place.

Feb 26, 2015 10:30 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Andrea Swiedler 

It's a tough messsage sometimes but I think we really are obligated to tell the truth as we believe it. Indeed. isn't there something in the COE about not mis-representing the value of a home? Sellers who make the decision to list based on price can often be disappointed.

Jeff

Feb 27, 2015 01:32 AM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

A well deserved feature, such a great topic. How often this has happened and so foolish on the part of a seller. The seller would have been a lot smarter to list with you, right from the start.

Feb 27, 2015 02:24 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Brian Rugg I can understand that. It is not the easiest thing to walk away, but sometimes you just have to. And sometimes you don't even get the chance to walk because they give you the heave-ho!

Janis Borgueta I hope our markets catch up to those that are making the news... and making our sellers think it is here! I'm feeling your pain.

Well, my little @your name thingy has stopped working... so... back to the old style, LOL.

Nick, yes, I suppose it is atypical for many markets. I do explain the whole appraisal thing, but you can see the eyes glaze over.

George, oh no... they certainly don't want to hear that. Tickle their ears, LOL.

William, I agree they must be embarrassed. Sometimes I even think they are mad at me, like I put a jinx on them. 

Joan, thank you. I am hoping you have better luck than I do though, LOL.

Praful, guessing you have been kissed too, LOL.

Christine, it is our job to be honest. And because we rely on sales actually happen, to get paid for the work we do, well.... it stands to reason we want to sell a house when we list it!

Kat, I agree. And I am amazed when they won't share that price with me! It's like... let's play guess the right answer. Oh... there is a post for me!

Andy, you hit a nerve with me. "I'm not giving it away". That just really gets to me. You are also right about informing buyers that well priced homes often have no wiggle room. And we do know if a house is well priced or not!

Roger, Roger, it is good to see you, even if you forgot what you were going to say!

Michael, you have a very, very good point. It would be like me negotiating a lower commission right up front to get the listing. Let me cave in right away and show you how weak and whimpy I am!

Jeff, I do believe it is covered in the COE. There must be some loop hole out there some people are using. (Did I say that outloud?)

Joe, why thank you! And I am sure you have seen it on your end when the appraisal comes in MUCH lower than the offer price. You probably just shake your head and wonder where the agents head was.... 

Feb 27, 2015 09:30 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello Andrea ... great post my friend with some great comments ;o)

Mar 03, 2015 12:54 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Hey Robert (Vegas Bob) Swetz thank you! And thanks for stopping by!

Mar 03, 2015 08:17 PM