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THE FOUR AGREEMENTS by Don Miguel Ruiz

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Urban Knight Enterprises, Inc.

This reading was presented to me upon my first day of opening my business 7years ago....

THE FOUR AGREEMENTS

by Don Miguel Ruiz

 Be impeccable with your word.....

Speak with integrity.  Say only what you mean.  Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others.  Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Don't take anything personally.....

Nothing others do is because of you.  What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.  When you are immune to the opinions and the actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

Don't make assumptions......

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want.  Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama.  With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

Always do your best!

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick.  Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse, and regret.

I hang this proudly on my office wall...it's a part of my business creed...it was presented to me as a gift and I wanted to share this gift with you.  To have a business is a wonderful accomplishment, respect and value it.  We must be true to ourselves and to the customers that we service.  I wish all of you much success in your endeavors.

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Lisa Kimmel
Central Wisconsin Notary - Stevens Point, WI
Mobile Loan Closer - Notary

Very nice Pam!  All of these are words to live by.  Thank you for sharing it here. 

My favorite, Dont Make Assumptions.  Yes, communicate and communicate some more.  Very important if not my priority, in the business.  Communicating and asking questions when not in the know eliminates a lot of mistakes that can happen. 

Apr 03, 2008 12:24 AM
Pamela Knight
Urban Knight Enterprises, Inc. - Phoenixville, PA

Hi Lisa,

It was my pleasure to share ...much success to you!

Apr 03, 2008 01:49 PM
Laura Underwood
Above the Line Signing - Knob Noster, MO
Missouri Certified Notary Signing Agent
Thank you, Pam, for sharing this.  I love it!  May your business continue to thrive.
Apr 14, 2008 04:50 AM
Pamela Knight
Urban Knight Enterprises, Inc. - Phoenixville, PA

Hi Laura,

Thank you for the well wishes and I too wish for your business to thrive.  I love it too...

Apr 15, 2008 02:19 AM
Mary Ellen Elmore
Nunnelly, TN

I just gifted this book to a dear friend.

It is a life changing work.

Apr 24, 2008 08:56 AM
Pamela Knight
Urban Knight Enterprises, Inc. - Phoenixville, PA

Hi Mary Ellen,

I agree, it is a life changing work....How are you?  I hope you are all better now.   Take care and thanks for your comments....

Apr 26, 2008 07:34 AM
Find a Notary Public needAnotary
QEC Internet Services - Long Beach, CA

This is great advice!  If just 30% of the the al people used the insight in this post, the world would be a much better place.

May 23, 2008 05:20 PM
Pamela Knight
Urban Knight Enterprises, Inc. - Phoenixville, PA

Thank you, I too find that to be true as well....much continued success to you. 

May 24, 2008 02:23 AM