When you die, your Facebook lives on

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Real Estate Agent with California Lifestyle Realty DRE# 1780607

When you die, your Facebook lives on

By now, it has probably happened to you.  You are scrolling through Facebook and you see a birthday notification for a friend or family member who has died.  Or you see them on a "friends you may know" suggesting that you should connect with them.  It can be disconcerting.  Or is it comforting?

Facebook has become the largest site of virtual memorials.  There are over 1 Billion Facebook profiles worldwide, and 30 Million of them are deceased.  Many people find it comforting to be able to revisit a deceased friend or family members pages to leave a message, or reconnect with others, especially on birthdays or anniversaries.  

If you want to control what happens to your online identity when you pass- leave a list of your profiles and passwords with your next of kin.  Let them know your wishes.

Facebook gives you a couple of options if you want to memorialize an account- access is restricted to current friends and eliminates birthday reminders, but friends can still leave messages in remembrance.  Unfortunately, hackers have figured out how to find "deceased accounts".  The other day my deceased uncle's profile popped up selling Nike sunglasses. Someone was posting spam on his profile, and that's not good.

 The other option is to delete the account completely.  

When you die, your Facebook lives on.

 

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Kathy Schowe   760.333.8886  California LifestyleRealty  California Lifestyle RealtySchowe Properties                                           

        

                  
                                   

Comments (8)

Tim Lorenz
TIM LORENZ - Elite Home Sales Team - Mission Viejo, CA
949 874-2247

Yes getting a notification of a dead friend or relative is disconcerting for sure.

Oct 26, 2014 06:44 AM
Kathy Schowe
California Lifestyle Realty - La Quinta, CA
La Quinta, California 760-333-8886

It's a byproduct of the digital world we live in... 

Oct 26, 2014 06:46 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Interesting topic to be sure Kathy. I'm just wondering what happens when Facebook dies? 

Oct 26, 2014 07:06 AM
Fred Griffin Tallahassee Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

Hi, Kathy. 

     I have a list of passwords in a safe; with instructions for my Personal Representative of my Estate regarding my email accounts, social media, etc..         

     I have not updated that list in a long time.  Thanks for the reminder!

Oct 26, 2014 07:51 AM
Kathy Schowe
California Lifestyle Realty - La Quinta, CA
La Quinta, California 760-333-8886

Carla Muss-Jacobs, Principal Broker/Owner ... I have a feeling I'll die before Facebook, but you never know.

Fred Griffin - your welcome!  Have a geat weekend!

Oct 26, 2014 08:00 AM
Kathleen Luiten
Resort and Second-Home Specialist - Princeville, HI
Kauai Luxury Ocean Home Sales

Thanks for this post, Kathy. I keep getting prompted by FB about a friend who died over 2 years ago.

Oct 26, 2014 09:12 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Kathy, I want my profiles to go away. I hope my family will respect that and not leave them up.

Oct 26, 2014 01:09 PM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

I think I am going to leave my daughter all my passwords so that she can go in and close my accounts. 

I know several people who have passed away and their FB lives on!

Nov 01, 2014 02:11 AM

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