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E.F.G.

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Education & Training with Ember Seminars and Keller Williams Southeast Region

You may have heard the term A.B.C. at some point. Most people hear A.B.C. and they start to sing the alphabet song. To those in sales A.B.C. means something very different. Salespeople most likely hear the voice of Alec Baldwin as Blake in the movie Glengarry Glen Ross reminding the other salesmen in the room to Always BClosing. Today it is finally time to move farther down in the alphabet and instead of always thinking closing, closing, closing, how about we focus on E.F.G. and how you Execute Future Goals.

aimhighMany people miss the opportunity to set goals because they feel they will be disappointed if they set them and don't reach them. The disappointment comes from never attempting to achieve a goal, not in the missing the mark.

If you don't set a goal how do you know where you are going?
How do you know what to reach for?
How do you know when to celebrate that you achieved what you were after?

Goals can be set at any time of the year. That can mean the 4th quarter so you are building momentum into the start of the calendar year. It can mean as the summer approaches so you can use the energy of the warmth as a way to power you to a quick start on the path to your goal. Basically, you can set goals whenever it makes sense to you and whenever you start a new objective.

Once you have a target, you can begin to Execute Future Goals.

Goal setting has no limits and can cover any area of your life. Your goals could include:

  • A business related sales goal.
  • A personal exercise goal such as to run a certain distance, or to lose a number of pounds,  or even to just exercise daily.
  • A relationship goal like spending more time with the kids, or having a date night with your spouse.
  • A goal can cover anything from writing a book, to opening a new company to hiking the Appalachian trail.

Before we help you E.F.G. we must make sure we set our goal. To work on setting a goal, ask yourself these questions:

  • What level did I reach this year?
  • Did I get to that level by accident or on purpose? There are times when we achieve targets without even focusing on them due to natural ability.
  • How much farther can I go or do I want to go?
  • What is the next logical level to reach?
  • When do I want to reach that next level?

Now that you have answer to these simple questions you will have an idea of where you have been, where you want to go and just how fast you can get there.

We believe that you should set your goal higher than you originally plan. We understand that you just felt that lump in your throat and we know how hard it can be. Push yourself! You might just be amazed at what you can do and will do!

"Aim for the moon, even if you miss you'll land amongst the stars."

One of the challenges that comes with setting a goal so far away is that to some, it is discouraging if they don't achieve the level they were aiming to reach.  Here is the trick we use. Set your goal at the moon level. This is a far reaching goal and if everything goes perfectly it is something you will achieve. You should then set a challenge that is your atmosphere level. This would be a goal that is larger than what you have already been able to do and your minimum goal for next year. Now, celebrate when you break through the atmosphere level and keep going for the moon goal. You at least know you are now amongst the stars.

Setting your goal will be the easy part. If you really want to Execute Future Goals this next part will be the fuel you need for continued motivation.

  • Why am I wanting that goal?

This is a stand alone question. One that you MUST answer. Knowing why you are doing something will push you, pull you, motivate you and give you something to get you going even on days you want to hide in bed. Your why will be the cornerstone that brings everything together and holds it in place.

 If it doesn't make you cry, it isn't a big enough why!

You should hurt inside if you disappoint your why. You should feel that you have let your why down. If your why is truly big enough to make you feel that way, it will be the fuel to your goals.

Your why can change. It might be something that is a lifelong goal, or it might be something that pushes you though a month. Whether it is long term or short term isn't important, it just must be powerful enough to make you take action.

Now you have your big goal (the moon) and you have your on-the-way goal (the atmosphere) and you have your why (the power for your voyage) now find someone that has made that trip before you and follow their path.

Skip right over A.B.C. as you have now found a way to focus on E.F.G. and with a simple list of questions you will then be able to Execute Future Goals and celebrate heights you had once only dreamed about.Executer Future Goals

 

Chadalyst - Sit down and figure out WHY you want to hit any goal you are setting. That will make a goal easier to accomplish.

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Originally posted on www.EmberSeminars.com

Chris Phillips
The Forney Group - Indianapolis, IN

Great post Chad, goal setting is one of the most important things we can do for our careers and lives. I was fortunate enough to have an experienced agent teach that to me early on. I noticed a piece of your blog talks about setting goals as opposed to executing them so perhaps you can expand your acronym to D.E.F.G. - Determine and Execute Future Goals.

Nov 03, 2014 11:12 PM
Chad Hyams
Ember Seminars and Keller Williams Southeast Region - Johns Creek, GA

Love it Chris Phillips D.E.F.G. it is!

Nov 03, 2014 11:18 PM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

I have some pretty hefty goals for the upcoming year. I'd rather aim for the moon than just sit here and watch the world pass me by.

Nov 04, 2014 12:27 AM
Scott Gleason, CRS
Coldwell Banker Realty - Westfield, NJ
Westfield NJ New Homes Specialist

With 2014 nearing a close and we start gearing up for 2015, your post offers great information for us to follow.

Nov 04, 2014 02:01 AM
Chad Hyams
Ember Seminars and Keller Williams Southeast Region - Johns Creek, GA

Tammie White I sure hope you aim for the moon!

Nov 04, 2014 04:32 AM
Kevin Mackessy
Blue Olive Properties, LLC - Highlands Ranch, CO
Dedicated. Qualified. Local.

Big acronym to take mind of in these winter months.  Even though it is the "slow" season we should not start slowing down, preparing for next year and finishing out this year with a bang. 

Nov 04, 2014 04:55 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Perfect topic for the end of the year. Easy term to remember too, well done/ 

Nov 04, 2014 05:51 AM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Chad:

I think of January of each year as the time to set my goals.  But it makes sense to set goals any time not just the beginning of each year.  Thanks for a great idea.

Nov 04, 2014 11:29 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

If one does not set goals, they don't have a roadmap to success.

Nov 04, 2014 11:54 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

A most excellent time of year for looking back and planning for the end of the year and beyond.  Great post!

Nov 04, 2014 12:32 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Chad Hyams - surprisingly, only 3% of population has written goals! (And that is true of Real Estate agents, too!)

Nov 04, 2014 02:10 PM
Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

I have another 3 word analogy for A.B.C. = Always be Changing

If we don't write down our goals and continue moving forward we are either doing nothing or going backwards.

Thank you for your most timely post.  A great reminder to all of us.

Nov 04, 2014 03:33 PM
Chad Hyams
Ember Seminars and Keller Williams Southeast Region - Johns Creek, GA

Evelyn Kennedy if you wait until January you are already 1 month behind. We all know in the world of real estate it is 90 days AFTER you do something that the results show up. Start now!

Praful Thakkar you are right and I hope you are in the 3%!

Nov 04, 2014 08:47 PM
Dinah Stallworth-Lewis
Priority Real Estate LLC - 318.332.8281 - Natchitoches, LA
NATCHITOCHES, LA HOMES FOR SALE

Chad,

This blog is just what I needed this morning.  It is inspirational and I agree with you, there is no better time than the present to set goals and strive to achieve them.  Thanks for sharing.  Have a great day!

Nov 04, 2014 09:06 PM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Great points and I have never seen Glen Gary Ross, but I have been told about it and want to.

Nov 05, 2014 01:08 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

Timely and informative.

Nov 06, 2014 07:13 PM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello Chad ... great post and congrats on the feature

Nov 07, 2014 06:23 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Excellent post Chad, goals are so important for keeping us on the right track.

 

Nov 19, 2014 11:32 AM
Winston Heverly
Coldwell Banker Access Realty - South Macon, GA
GRI, ABR, SFR, CDPE, CIAS, PA

I really enjoyed coming across your blog among the many archieves. Thanks for being apart of Active Rain.

Apr 08, 2015 01:42 PM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

Chad - This is excellent information, and a great post. Thanks for sharing.

Jul 18, 2015 02:12 PM