Feeling Overwhelmed, Overcommitted and Overblued?

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with 3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. #9001154

This past week, in one of my early morning Devotion time, this blog about Over-committing and Overwhelmed spoke loudly to me. It is from Proverbs 31 - Valorie Burton - My Addiction to Overcommiting

A few highlights hit me right on the money.

  • Fear showed up in my tendency to be over-responsible and over-compensate. At times, even when the problem is not mine to resolve.
  • Rather than accepting God's grace and my own human limitations, I get caught in the fear that I'm not good enough and therefore, I need to prove my self-worth.
  • The feeling of missing out on "THE OPPORTUNITY". 
  • There are lots of FEAR and REJECTION as the root cause of MY need to propel and strive of over-excellence.

I’m often overwhelmed because I overloaded my schedule.

I tend to do 10 things all at the same time. For that, I must change. I’m going to say “No” – and at one point in the past, I did really good. I created “3 buckets”: God, Family and Work. If it didn’t fit the 3 buckets, I didn’t do it.

Over time, I slowly forget and let my buckets slide. And I was headed into the Danger zone because I was over-committing again.

I’m planning to take a slow step back and really evaluate each and every task and see if it fits my buckets.

I'm realizing that whether or not I get to accomplished what I set my heart to do isn't because of me anyways. It was the breadth and His strength that He gave me anyways. 

I hope you will read from the Devotion and let God speak to you!

 

Scripture of the Week:

My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness. I'm glad to boast about my weakness so that the power of Christ can work through me.
2 Corinthians 12:9

 

 

Comments (7)

Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Loreena.... we all want to be successful with every task we accept to complete....more is not better!!  one at a time is how I work and it works well.... I can focus FULLY on one task at a time, and when it's complete, I immediately start the next....we have a full day to work and we should be able to finishb many, many tasks in a full day, if we really are working.... no distractions.... no diversions...focus and finish....one task at a time for quality.

Nov 22, 2014 07:12 PM
Anita Clark
Coldwell Banker Access Realty ~ 478.960.8055 - Warner Robins, GA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in Warner Robins GA

Loreena: I was over-commiting and finally had a shutdown moment earlier this week. It took taking some time off and refocusing my spiritual compass on the things that are important to get me back on track.

Nov 22, 2014 07:56 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Too many yeses, not enough no's in your life causes you to on occasion drop ALL the balls. I will get Dave Ramsey to add the Gary specialty module called How Easy It Is To Say NO.

Nov 22, 2014 09:59 PM
Digital Digital
Alachua, FL
full service

Hi Loreena,

This is a task that I'm working on constantly.2014 is my best year in real estate so far. The irony is that I've said more no's than yes and it's impacting my business. 2015 will be the year of saying more no's......

Nov 22, 2014 10:27 PM
Larry Riggs
Century 21 Redwood - Frederick, MD
GRI, SRS Your Frederick County Specialist

Loreena,

      I've followed your blogs and FB posts for a long time and it's clear to me that you are a very tender hearted person. That's a great trait but it does make it easier to say yes too often. I like your idea of the buckets. There's actually a book that talks about how to be productive in that manner. I can't say I agree with the author on everything but there are some excellent points. The book is called "The One Thing". The basic message is for you to ask yourself the question what is the one thing, if I do this week, that will make all other things either easier or unnecessary? Unfortunately when you get that focused there will be those who accuse you of being cold and uncaring. Actually just the opposite is true. You've just learned to focus on what's really important. I pray that you won't be guilted into being unproductive but rather that you will be happily productive in all three of your buckets.

Nov 22, 2014 10:55 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216,www.JeremiahNewman.com - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Loreena, I miss reading your Sunday Devotionals, and truly understand about your desire to stay within your 3 Buckets, God, Family, and Work. We all have limitations, and it's okay to say NO.

Nov 23, 2014 06:14 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Loreena, I feel God called me to your posts tonight to be a voice of encouragement. He sent you to this mission field but He longs to be first.

Nov 24, 2014 02:13 PM

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