Yesterday marked the two-year anniversary of the Sandy Hook Elementary tragedy. Even though I didn't know anyone personally, it affected me, especially as a mother. I was angry. I was upset. I cried at the sight of the victims on the news. I couldn't imagine the pain the parents were experiencing. I couldn't wrap my head around the evilness of it all.
Rather than trying to figure out answers to all the "Whys", I decided to go in search of all that was precious and good. In a world where there is so much anger and hatred, I know there is also a lot of kindness and compassion....I just had to look for it, or make it happen myself! So I went in search of
"Random Acts of Kindness"...Either witnessing others in the act, or doing something myself. I shared these things on my Facebook page, and the response was heartwarming. So I decided to re-post over the next 26 days, some of the same, but some that are new, the acts of kindness I observe in honor and memory of each life that was lost on the day 2 years ago.
When I did this for the first time in 2012, I gained so much peace and motivation from the experience. As I am usually cranky and exhausted the week after Christmas, I felt energized and excited to start the New Year. I was ready to focus on others and what I could do for them----Not what they could do for me. I tried to put myself in other peoples shoes, and be more patient and sympathetic.
As the year winds down, I reflect and realize how blessed I am. Although my husband's job required us to relocate to a new state, and having to start my real estate business in a new market where I knew no one, we were blessed that we were sent to an amazing community, Charleston, SC. A community that is bustling with activity and a strong, healthy economy and housing market.
I realize I am blessed that our middle-school aged son adjusted beautifully and has lots of wonderful new friends. (And a whole new baseball team full of buddies that will be friends for life!)
I realize that I am blessed that two of our three children have graduated from college---One that just walked the stage two days ago! I am blessed that they have bright, exciting futures ahead of them.
I realize I am blessed to have found a remarkable new brokerage to hang my license. I have a wonderful broker, amazing colleagues, fabulous admin staff, an award-winning marketing department, educational and training opportunities that are priceless.....I am quite simply....Blessed!
So take a look around you, and count your blessings. Then go and be a blessing to someome else! Do it in memory of those precious babies and teachers that lost their lives two years ago. I can guarantee: The more kindness you share, the more blessed you will be!
Lovin' Life in the Lowcountry,
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