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The three words Ready, Set, Go are familiar in many competitive sports such as track or swimming.  A swimmer needs to make the right dive at the start time or the momentum will be lost.  He must be prepared to leave the block at the very second of GO. 

Proper preparation does prevent poor performance.  I don't think that you can be over prepared but I do think you can spend too much time preparing.  I am sure you have run into theReady, Set, Go client does not want to buy or sell until all the conditions are perfect.

People can over analyze and tell themselves that they don’t want to take action until everything is perfect. A coach colleague of mine has coined this habit “Getting ready to go to work”. I cannot start until I get my brochures, business cards, website, 2 number 2 pencils—you get the idea! I have heard that 80% of people who say they want to run a business of their own don’t follow through. Why? One possible answer is the rewards aren’t sufficient enough to motivate them into action. Another probable answer is procrastination has derailed or stalled them. The inability to act can often be traced to fear, doubt, or the absence of a clear picture of the potential rewards and consequences.

Some of these fears could include:

Fear of criticism, rejection, or exposure: The need for social acceptance will result in going to great lengths to adopt a mode of dress or a certain type of behavior because of fear of criticism and rejection of others. Fear of having an idea rejected continues to lose billions of dollars for American business.

Fear of the unknown: The need for security and safety causes us to be fearful in those situations in which we’re not sure what is going to happen. Our fear of what might or might not happen can cause us to keep from doing those things we should do to bring us closer to our goals. One key to addressing fear of the unknown is examining the possibilities and then weighing them against doing nothing.

Fear of failure: Whether it’s the president who’s afraid to make a change in structure or the manager who is afraid to develop a more competent, self-directed team, or an individual considering a business of their own, fear can be a major deterrent to success. If you have a low risk tolerance then the entire goal setting process can be stifled. If mistakes are met with criticism and/or punishment, people will be inclined to do only what they know how to do. It will inhibit creativity and improvement. By not trying, people frequently ensure failure—the very thing that they’re trying to avoid. Fear of failure has blinded many people from seeing opportunities.

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It is important to remember that failure is important to success if it is viewed as an opportunity to learn. To change failure from a negative experience to a positive phenomenon, eliminate those conditions which contribute to fear of failure.

Take the first step forward. The second and third steps will not be as hard.  Read a similar post on our website titled THE HARDEST PART IS GETTING STARTED.

 

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Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Grant. Great job with your post. Preparation for success means working smarted not harder. Hopefully we all pay attention to your advice in 2015.

Make it a great week!

Dec 21, 2014 07:04 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Oh yes, this is so true.  And, it can apply to projects, too.  (e.g. some people won't launch their website until it is fully "perfect" and they don't get that it never is...the idea is to continually add to it and improve it, and the longer it ages the better it is for google.

Dec 21, 2014 08:09 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Joe - working smarter means taking the right action.

Conrad - yes just get it done.

Debbie - yep.  That is a great example.

Dec 21, 2014 08:45 PM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Hi Grant: The biggest enemy of an individual is his own fear.

Powerful words Grant.

Merry Christmas.

Dec 21, 2014 09:14 PM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Grant, great post! I agree with Roger D. Mucci you are right on the money.  Preparation is critical but spending too much time at it is procrastination.  

Dec 21, 2014 10:09 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

Grant, most people no longer use candles on their trees in Germany. We did back when the kids were little but both my son and friends have told me that most families have switched to electric lights for safety. I remember we would blow them out when we left the room and light them again when we returned. There was also always a bucket of water in the corner.......

Dec 22, 2014 01:09 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Fear can be paralyzingly and been there many times. I try to forge forward and it gets better every time. 

Dec 22, 2014 02:58 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Maria - yes fear of anything stops people.

Roger - prepare well and then execute.  Right on.

Joanna - then it become paralysis of analysis.

Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi & Corinna Birgit Cromartie I guess the last time I visited for Christmas was around 1992. 

Debbie - not moving makes it even more paralyzing.

 

Dec 22, 2014 08:14 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Working smarter not harder pays off! You always share the best information. Thank you Grant.

Dec 22, 2014 09:42 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Patricia - thanks.  Working smarter with smart goals and action steps.

Dec 22, 2014 11:54 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Grant, thank you for the inspirational post and for sharing the great tips. 

Dec 23, 2014 03:10 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I've been preaching "preparation" since I started my staging business.  I agree that too often people put things off, waiting for all to be perfect, when they should "just do it!" However, when it comes to listing your home for sale....I believe it's best to wait until the home is 100% ready to show!

Dec 23, 2014 04:05 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Gita - thanks glad you liked it.

Sharon - absolutely should but after it is done they should be ready Togo.

Dec 23, 2014 07:09 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Grant 

Failure is just stepping stone to greater success.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Dec 23, 2014 01:24 PM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Grant,

Another great post - Fear kills motivation...

Dec 23, 2014 01:24 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Grant Schneider that is why 80% of all agents entering into the business find a new career choice within two years.   

Dec 23, 2014 10:39 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Lou - yes that is right.

Lisa - Once people does what they fear they overcome it.

Dec 23, 2014 10:59 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Joan - also why the survivial rate over 5 years of businesses  is so high.

Dec 24, 2014 12:41 AM