Paying It Forward...It's a Lifestyle, Not an Event

By
Real Estate Agent with Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com TN License #326261

When I think of "Paying it Forward" over the holidays I get excited because so many choose to focus on this as a giving season. Our hearts are filled with gratitude for the many blessings we have and it spills over into sharing with others. I love this time of year.

For most of us, however, it's a little uncomfortable to write about the things we've done for others. We prefer to do it in secret so that credit is not received for doing something that seems as natural as breathing. I do feel that way.

In truth, everyday is an opportunity to pay it forward. 

I was standing in line at the local library to check out a book. The person next to me didn't have the money to pay a fine he owed on some books he was returning. I smiled, paid his fine and walked out of the library. No big deal. It's just what you do!

Paying It Forward..It's a Lifestyle, Not an EventA friend of mine lives alone in a shack (literally) down the road from our house. He's 88 years old, but in fairly good health. Whenever I see him outside his house puttering about, I stop the car and talk to him for about 15 or 20 minutes. I know he looks forward to our conversations, as I do. He's got a great sense of humor and tells me stories of how he farmed many of the acres near where he now resides. He also explains in great detail his latest medical condition! That's OK. I love our frequent talks. It's just what you do!

This year our Sunday School group took on providing Christmas for a family in our church who was in a difficult financial position. We all bought gifts and one person anonymously delivered them. Pretty cool, actually. It's just what you do.

The holiday season is wonderful in that it focuses attention on something that people love to do--share. But by now you get what I'm saying.

Paying it forward is an everyday lifestyle, not an event. Knock your socks off, sharing with others!

An entry into "Paying It Forward ActiveRain Challenge"

 

 

 

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TW Realty Group
 
Tom White, REALTOR®
Franklin Homes Realty LLC
(615) 870-8169
 

 

 
 
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Comments (35)

Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Hi Tom, that is very true.  The people that pay it forward tend to do it as a habit of life.  Nice post.

Dec 31, 2014 05:46 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

It's just what you do!  Nothing more needs to be said!  Well done Tom.

Dec 31, 2014 07:41 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate

Tom, I could not have said it better myself.  It’s why I’ve struggled with posting an entry to the challenge. It’s an every-day event. I wish it were a challenge that awarded only points for entry … not being judged for the biggest heart.  There is something about that … it just turns me right off.  I think I will post an entry and exclude it from the judging. 

Dec 31, 2014 09:07 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

It is good to pay it forward each and every week.. It is not just about the holidays.

Dec 31, 2014 12:21 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

No walkathon or marathon can match life itself and what it gives to us. Love and light!

Dec 31, 2014 03:47 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I think that I might like to reblog this post if it's okay with you. Happy new year, by the way!

Dec 31, 2014 03:49 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

 Good morning Tom. I really feel in my heart of hearts that we should do something to pay it forward every day. After all, I really feel that this is the purpose we are here on this Earth.

Want to take this opportunity to wish both you and Tammie a wonderfully prosperous and healthy new year.

Dec 31, 2014 06:40 PM
Rob D. Shepherd
Windermere/lane county - Florence, OR
Principal Broker GRI, SRES

Conversation with loners is more valuable than you would ever know.

Dec 31, 2014 08:43 PM
Jenna Dixon
Momentum Real Estate Group LLC - Marietta, GA
55 & Over | New Constructions | Horse Farms

I agree, every day is an opportunity to share a blessing with someone else.  There is no thought given to it, it's the way that you chose to live your life.  Happy New Year!

Dec 31, 2014 09:59 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

When one lives according to the dictates of their own heart...harmony takes place...Goodwill and peace on earth should be our common daily share pot.

Dec 31, 2014 10:44 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Tom. You make sure a difference in his life and he in yours. Thank you for sharing about your friend with all of us.

Let's make 2015 the best year ever!

Dec 31, 2014 11:13 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Andover, MA
Andover, MA: Andover Luxury Homes For Sale

Tom White very well said! It's not an event. When I wrote my post, I was wondering which one should I write? It's just a habit, lifestyle, ongoing thing and a second nature for many of us.

Jan 01, 2015 02:24 PM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks for sharing these stories. You are setting a good example for all of us.

Jan 01, 2015 10:45 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

That is a wonderful thing to do and so rewarding in the paying it forward. It made an impact.

Jan 02, 2015 11:45 AM
Claude Labbe
Real Living | At Home - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

On the radio today, some study was speaking about how people get lonely when they get older'; that being especially true for men, who tend to be less social.

I don't think that will be true for me; if you're out there talking for the sake of talking, it likely won't be true for you either; and kudos for keeping you neighbor mentally alive and just a bit less lonely.

Jan 02, 2015 02:16 PM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

I so agree with you Tom, the giving should be a year round effort. Our giving doesn't stop or start with a season. Especially, good for you giving your aging gentleman - neighbor some much needed companionship. Giving time is a huge deal - it's often easier to give money, or another resource, than our valuable and precious time. 

Jan 03, 2015 01:27 AM
Shannon Milligan, Richmond VA Real Estate Agent/Associate Broker
RVA Home Team - Richmond, VA
RVA Home Team - Winning with Integrity.

I LOVE that you take the time to just make some small talk with your neighbor. That is simply something money can not buy. 

My word for 2015 is: generosity. I have always made giving back a focus in my business, but I need to add it more to my personal life. Yes, I give the homeless money or will buy someone food off of the street, but it is the giving of TIME that is so precious to me.

Good for you and keep up your efforts. I know you and Tammie do a lot of the community. 

Jan 04, 2015 02:45 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-755-2905

Tom, I love you for this, "it's just what you do". AMEN! Every single little gesture of goodness gets rewarded, we are all connected, every living creature, what we do for one, we do for ALL. 

And I LOVE this fella's face!

(Oh, and a feature to boot!)

Jan 09, 2015 07:32 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Hi Tom! We joined Rotary several years ago because serving others is what we do and we wanted a way to do it EVERY day, not just around the holidays!

Mar 03, 2015 01:13 AM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

Donna Foerster , I was in Rotary for over thirty years until we hit the road and landed in Nashville. A great organization! BTW, welcome back!!

Mar 03, 2015 08:44 AM

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