A friend of mine purchased a house. He has a girlfriend but they never married. He thought he would leave the house to his children when he passed because he put a lot of work into it and thought they would want it. He has needed help doing work around this AMAZING home but his children (who are all adults over 20yrs) put him off. They do not seem interested in cleaning gutters, paving a driveway, etc... They mostly drop by for food and conversation when they 'are not too busy'. Because he has a girlfriend living with him he placed her as the beneficiary to his life insurance. Now he is thinking of reversing the whole thing- leave her the house and the money to the kin. However, he has no retirement plan in place so who knows... Perhaps he will be looking at a reverse mortgage in the leaner years. She doesn't have a retirement plan either so if she got the house it may be a good option for her when the time comes.
You are in the perfect position to help people with issues. I am just spit-balling ideas for conversation with prospects. My point is- The brats do not deserve the house! He already paid for their college so I think he has done enough.

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