Feng Shui Ascension: Manifest Authentic Relationships

Feng Shui Ascension: Manifest Authentic Relationships 

There tends to be this "invisible line" with men vs women and it seems to create a sub conscious division and a barrier of defensive thoughts in a relationship. Or even before allowing yourself to get into a healthy relationship. 

I wanted to share an analogy I heard the other day to help open ourselves up to healthy interactions either if you are dating or already married. For the analogy, I will use the words husband and wife. 

Husbands, treat your wife with how you want someone to treat your daughter. 

Wife's, treat your husband with how you want someone to treat your son. 

These two statements illustrate the deep roots to a potentially healthy relationship. By changing your  perception on what it means to be in a relationship or even how to possibly approach intimate connections, that alone can make a world of difference.  Some like to play games, while others will focus on surface features and maybe for a while that works. But if you are not happy and see it's becoming a drain on your life, you loose focus on what really matters and brings you joy, you feel depressed, it maybe time to make a change. Ultimately, it is safe, when in a healthy relationship you are engaging in a union with each others spirit. 

Here are some Relationship mindsets to be open To: 

• Listen to to one another with your eyes. Give each other your undivided attention. 

• Understand both of you coming together is a gift and an opportunity to expand on your inner growth as a couple and individually. 

• A healthy relationship takes work. At times you will sail along and at times you will hit some waves. That is why clear communication and learning when to be discerning is key. 

• Showing appreciation, gratitude and support is depositing strength into your relationship. This is powerful. 

• Our words are extremely powerful, so please try to be mindful of what you say and if for some reason words shared cut you quickly, practice forgiveness and address that situation sooner then later.