Are You Moving a Parent into Your Home? Some Suggestions.

Reblogger Don Sabinske
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Don Sabinske, Sabinske & Associates Inc. 539MN
https://activerain.com/droplet/4zGW

This was a post written by my associate, Suzanne McLaughlin, a while ago.  And, it has some specific suggestions and great comments by others who have had to make decisions about moving a parent into one's home.

This can be used if you face a simialr situation.  And, I hope that if you are in this position, you can take some comfort and advice from not only Suzanne's original post, but from the others who added their experince, too. 

Original content by Suzanne McLaughlin

Are you moving a parent into your home? 

 

There are many issues to discuss with the parent and possibly others living in your home.

 

The parent may have some physical and/or mental condition, a chronic illness or flare-ups. 

 

Even if the parent is still relatively healthy and independent, you will want to consider things like living wills, health care directives and wills.  You want to make sure that they are ready to consider end-of-life decisions now while they are still cognizant of the implications.

 

And, if there are siblings and spouses involved, have the parent explain (possibly with your assistance or an attorney’s) what and why the decisions were made. 

 

Your parent is now in new surroundings and may be unused to more distractions and noise.  This is understandable, and you may want to set up an area other than the bedroom where they have some of the things that were in their previous home such as books, mementos and other things that can serve to calm nerves. 

 

However, if the parent is in a health crisis, or has suffered a setback in care, you will need to consult with a physician about how to best integrate the care of the parent both for you and your family and the parent. 

 

You must be aware of all implications of any ailments and what to expect in three months, six months and a year, where possible. 

 

Be alert to changes.  And, as with any change in your family status, you need to try to make everyone comfortable and knowledgeable about what their responsibilites are.

 

 

Best wishes to you for taking the responsibility on.  And, think about the rewards of time with someone who loved and cared for you when you were a child.  Take a deep breath, and sail on!!!!

 

 

 

The information contained in this blog is believed to be true and correct and while every effort is made to ensure that the information is as accurate as possible, the author of this blog, and its comments disclaim any implied warranty or representation about its accuracy for any particular purpose. All information is copy written and the property of Suzanne McLaughlin.. 

For more information about real estate values in your area, give me a call or email me at 763-497-1870 or mclaughlinhomes@gmail.com  

Suzanne McLaughlin

Sabinske & Associates, Inc.    

When you need to buy or sell in St. Michael or Albertville Minnesota, or anywhere in Wright County, Sherburne County or Anoka County or Hennepin County, give me a call! 

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Evelyn Johnston
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What a wonderful post to reblog. My husband and I have considered how we will move his Aunt into our home if she needs it and how it will impact us.

Mar 12, 2015 11:39 AM #1
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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Several years ago, it was parents facing issues of "Boomerang Kids" who returned home after flying alone for awhile.  But, increasingly we are hearing of parents, who are now moving in with the kids.  This blog alerts to issues to be concerned with!

Mar 12, 2015 12:26 PM #2
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great reblog that I'd missed, glad I saw it so I can go over and leave her a comment.

Mar 12, 2015 12:45 PM #3
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Larry Johnston
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Good evening Don Sabinske ,  We are going through some of those thoughts, now as my 87 year old aunt is heading in that direction.

Mar 12, 2015 12:51 PM #4
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Hannah Williams
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Don Sabinske  very intelligent post with great suggestions a powerful re blog . My daughter is always after my to get a living will she does not want the responsibility of making that decision 

Mar 12, 2015 02:08 PM #5
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Bob Crane
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Thanks for sharing this Don, it is a topic that had been considered here often, so far mom is not ready to move, but you never know when or if she will be.

Mar 12, 2015 03:34 PM #6
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Don - There are absolutely a lot of things to consider when moving a parent into your home.

Mar 12, 2015 03:59 PM #7
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Michael Jacobs
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Hi Don -- a good post when Suzanne McLaughlin first wrote it and remains so today.   

Mar 12, 2015 06:02 PM #8
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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
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Do...so much of this happening nationwide. We have a new build community and one of the big requests is first floor bedrooms for the parents!

Mar 13, 2015 07:20 AM #9
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Happy Easter I hope that everything is going well for you and yours Don!

Bob

Apr 05, 2015 03:08 PM #10
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Dinah Stallworth-Lewis
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Don,

This is a good choice for a reblog.  I am a Louisiana Notary Public and Paralegal, so, I totally agree with you.  It is best to discuss  the will, living will, and power of attorney with parents and loved ones before it becomes and issue. You should know how they feel about these issues.  And when in doubt,  seek legal advice from an estate planning or family law attorney.  Preparation is key.

Apr 11, 2015 06:11 PM #11
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Dana Hollish Hill
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Such a great list. I think when in the middle of this type of emothional move, it is hard to remember all the things to consider. 

Nov 03, 2015 12:05 AM #12
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Roy Kelley
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I was looking for your current blogs. I hope all is going well for you.

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