Cultivate an Attitude of Abundance

By
Education & Training with Referral Maker Real Estate CRM

 

Many people have a scarcity mentality; that is, they feel that there’s not enough to go around for everyone. As a result, they’re stingy with sharing their contacts, grumble when they have to share recognition and let’s not even talk about money. People with a scarcity mentality are so protective over what is theirs (or what they perceive as theirs) that they’re unable to see the benefits of abundance.  Conversely, people with an abundance mentality are willing to share their contacts and resources with others. They’re the lovecats who are the first ones to connect people with others who can help them reach their dreams. As a result, people gravitate toward them and are eager to work with them. Here’s how to develop a mindset of abundance:

 

 

 

Rethink your mindset. If you’re a scarcity thinker, it’s possible to change your mindset. While it may take practice, with a little help you’ll be able to change your thoughts for the better.

 

  • Feed your brain the positive stuff. What you put in your brain impacts your outlook, so be sure to feed it the good stuff. Avoid gossip and other negativity and seek out positive books, articles, websites and people.

  • Find a mantra. It may sound cheesy, but mantras are a great way to reinforce positive thoughts. Find a good one and repeat it every day, especially when you’re feeling a bit negative.

 

 

 

Express gratitude. People with abundance mentalities are quick to express appreciation to those who have helped them. After all, everyone wants to feel appreciated. Whether someone has helped you or has contributed to your success, write a note of thanks.  To maintain an attitude of abundance, keep a gratitude journal and write down three things you’re thankful for each and every day. Not only will it help you cultivate an attitude of abundance, it’ll also make you happier.

 

 

 

Surround yourself with positive people. You’re a reflection of the people who you spend your time with, so be sure to spend more time with positive people.

 

 

 

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Comments (24)

Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Andover, MA
Andover, MA: Andover Luxury Homes For Sale

Laura Foreman - these are the things that makes all the difference in life and helps you comeback if you are lost ever.

Mar 19, 2015 02:04 PM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

Laura -- Having an attitude of abundance is certainly one of the keys to success.

Mar 19, 2015 02:07 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Laura - Gratitude and abundance are just an easier and better way to live.

Mar 19, 2015 04:44 PM
Emily Medvec
eXp Realty LLC - Santa Fe, NM
Realtor | Serving Santa Fe & Northern NM

When you come from contribution and gratitude, you life and business changes for the better. It is truly simple and is all about mindset. Good post!

Mar 19, 2015 08:38 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

It really is what you "put out into the universe." And if you think from abundance and positivity, that's what you will get.

Mar 19, 2015 10:21 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

One of the biggest pitfalls that makes the rounds is humans "sinking in their thinking"....in the minds little world, scarcity lives on. Come out of there and into the Universe where abundance cannot be measured but is found without end

Mar 20, 2015 12:01 AM
Laura Foreman
Referral Maker Real Estate CRM - Carlsbad, CA
Copywriter, Buffini & Company

Thanks for commenting, everyone!

 

Sharon Alters My husband and I are the same way! haha!

Richie Alan Naggar author PEARLS FOR THE SOUL .com books I love what you wrote!

Mar 20, 2015 01:24 AM
Cat Zwicker, CRS
Desert Sky Real Estate, LLC - Redmond, OR
Down to Earth Service; Out of this World Results!

Laura, 

 Living with a mind open to opportunity and abundance is fundamental to success in my mind.  Sharing and giving become second nature when you adopt this.  Great post! 

 

Mar 20, 2015 02:56 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

The more abundant you feel the more abundant you become. The more you feel gratitude for what you have, the more you have to be grateful for. 

It's a rule.

Mar 20, 2015 05:27 AM
Marilyn O'Donoghue
Long & Foster Avalon - Avalon, NJ

I will always remember something I was told years ago that is similar to your advice.  The speaker said you can't fit through the gates of Heaven with full saddlebags.  This applies to attitude as well as material possessions.

Mar 20, 2015 08:58 AM
Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear Laura,

Good point.

Mar 20, 2015 01:15 PM
Kimo Jarrett
WikiWiki Realty - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

I discovered that providing unlimited information and resources isn't productive but destructive. You're a copywriter, so your abundance isn't full or complete in most projects or campaigns but just enough to get someone to take action and purchase a product or service, isn't that true?

My point is that knowledge is powerful if it is used effectively, so if you're disclosing all your knowledge, information and resources before getting compensated, how will that provide an abundant lifestyle? 

Mar 20, 2015 07:39 PM
Donna & Larry Johnson
Keller Williams Real Estate - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County

Attitude is everything and always be thankful for what you have and you will go a long way in life. We are so blessed to have the opportunity's that we are given!

Mar 20, 2015 11:36 PM
Chris Lima
Atlantic Shores Realty Expertise - Port St Lucie, FL
Local or Global-Allow me to open doors for you.

Awesome post! The law of attraction. I am a work in progress but I am grateful every day!

Mar 22, 2015 09:04 AM
Laura Foreman
Referral Maker Real Estate CRM - Carlsbad, CA
Copywriter, Buffini & Company

Good question Kimo Jarrett . It's unfortunate that you've been burned by sharing your knowledge. However, sharing your knowledge with others helps you build relationships with peer and clients alike--relationships that are vital if you're working by referral. Check out the book Love is the Killer App: How to Win Business & Influence Friends by Tim Sanders--he delves into this concept and may be able to change your mind.

Mar 22, 2015 11:38 PM
Liane Thomas, Top Listing Agent
Professional Realty Services® - Corona, CA
Bringing you Home!

My 12 year old daughter and I set "goals" every day...you and I call them affirmations, she calls them goals.

Some days her goal is to "Be as happy as a bird with a french fry", or "Be positive in everything I do".

My favorite is "Do well on my test because my brain knows all the answers".

Mar 23, 2015 02:52 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, EXP - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Thanks Laura, An attitude of abundance can make a huge difference in the way we approach situations and in our success!

Mar 23, 2015 08:18 AM
Tammy Adams ~ Realtor / Podcaster
Maricopa Real Estate Co - Maricopa, AZ
A Maricopa Agent who Works, Lives & Loves Maricopa

I've been asked by many through the years why I am so willing to share my "secrets". The way I look at it, there i plenty to go around.   :-)

Mar 23, 2015 02:29 PM
Andrea HoffDomin
Florida Dream Homes Realty - Fort Lauderdale, FL
- in Real Estate always on your side!

Thank you for this great motivation. It help always to stay on track when you focus on the good and positive things in live.

Sunny greetings from Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

Mar 25, 2015 12:15 AM
Winston Heverly
Winston Realty, Inc. - Atlantis, FL
GRI, ABR, SFR, CDPE, CIAS, PA

A super post I came across among the many archieves and frequent bloggers. Thanks for being apart of Active Rain.

Apr 13, 2015 01:10 PM

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