Liberated from being defined by what you drive

I know it's just a car - ie. material "stuff" and that life is so much more than that. BUT, like anything else, especially in a society and a community like Frisco Texas - a northern Dallas suburns, one of the fastest cities in the country, it's hard not to see the glam glam around you. And the wish you had them too.

Recently I had yet another God-teaching experience. Far more than the last 2 years.

Back when I became a full time realtor, and found my place on AR (in 2007), I learned a "Million Dollar" lesson. I was not mentally and physically ready when my first lead called. A $700,000 buyer for Starwood. I knew I needed to make the connection right away but I was already out for the day - in a sweater and running shoes because I will be helping my friend move. That lady was sweet and respectful and I ended up promising her that I will be doing a little preview for her before we met. A few days later, as I was in one of the properties previewing, I saw her with an agent in a white Mercedes and a suit!

Instantly I was convicted of what I did wrong. I hadn't played the part. And as much as I want to think I was awesome with my honed Frisco real estate knowledge, I didn't get the first impression right.

It might sound superficial but I did end up buying a few nicer suits and a luxury SUV I paid cash for. So I drove that car for 7 years, and traded it in for a newer version - yet I hated the look of that car, never cared for it.

But I couldnt do anything else. It wouldnt be right if I went from "luxury" to "normal" - how would people view me and my business?

Just a few weeks ago, as God prepares my heart, I felt I could move on, trade in my car for one I think that would suit my family's needs better - this season of my life.

The burden to please lifted off my shoulder. I have no one to please or to prove to anymore! 

I'm a person of Faith and in my quiet moments today, God convicted me of Romans 12:

"Do not conform to this world. Instead, be transformed into a new person by changing the way you think. Dont think you are better than you really are. Be honest in the evaluation of yourself. Just as our body has many parts, each has a special function, so is the Body of Christ. We each have our own function (so no condemnation for those whom I dont agree with). If your gift is to serve others, serve others well. If God has given you leadership, take that responsibility seriously. Do not pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong but hold tight to what is good. Love one another with genuine affection. Never be lazy. Work hard to serve the Lord enthusiastically. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!"

#convicted and need I say no more....