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The Plague Called Worry Warts

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington 0788174

These warts are not the ugly and round blister-looking protrusions on the subcutaneous layers of the skin. They are not even visible to the eyes because they litter the cavernous sections of your brain. They just lie there quietly until you start pinching them relentlessly like that itching temptation to scratch and squeeze the red and bumpy pimple on your nose.

 

Worry warts are annoying clumps in the brain crannies. So once you invoke the worry warts, they will start the pesterings. They will keep you listless and restless.

 

When you wake up in the morning, you will have to put extra effort to pull yourself away from the bed to begin the day's regimen because your worry warts are no longer slumbering. You drag your sluggish body to fetch yourself a cup of coffee for that much-needed dose of caffeine.

 

While sipping your hot beverage, you see a cobweb dangling at the corner wall. You start feeling guilty. It is time to do some deep cleaning. After that thought, you put your cup in the sink and gaze at the black stains around the garbage disposal opening. You whisper to yourself, "I need to scrub this today."

 

So far, there are already two things bogging  down your mind from the time you wake up till you finish your cup of coffee.

 

While straddling between the staircases, you can't stop noticing dogs's hair on the carpet. At this point, your head spins as you try to replay the 3 things you want done today.

 

Your feet land on the second floor and head towards the office. On the desk lie one pile of paper bills and another bunch of folders waiting to be organized. You start biting at your nails as you walk back and forth the bedrooms aisle.

 

Then you decide to sit down and go over the folders. Before you can open one of the folders, you look away from them and stare at the bills. You pull the pile of bills at the center of the desk and flip the pages. Your mind is now revolting due to the tension sparked by the cobweb, the stain on the sink, the dogs' hair on the stairs carpet, the unorganized folders and the bills to pay.

 

Your phone rings while you rub your hand against your eyebrow. The caller is one of your clients who wants to see a vacant house today.  Your day suddenly goes disarray. You are worried that you can't accomplish all the tasks you assigned yourself.  Because you let your worrying take over, the worry warts' are in revelry. They are resuscitated from their once vegetative-like stage. 

 

Consequently, their rejuvenated state reduces your productivity and efficiency level. You allow the worry warts to control your mental faculties which render you almost completely useless. The worry warts consume your entire being. What a quandary!

 

Even life's little worries can ruin your whole day. If you let them rule, you will sulk in misery. If you seize the moment (carpe diem) ---and learn to live life instead of merely existing, happiness will be hovering.  Take it one day at a time.

 

I have had worry warts. But I learn how to freeze them before they freeze me.

 

 

 

 

 

Posted by

        Maria Gilda Racelis 

      "I Always Strive to Make a Difference."

         Serving Hartford, Tolland and Middlesex Counties

Phone: 860-995-9473

Email: mariagracelis@gmail.com

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Comments(58)

Ray Wright
Keller Williams Realty - Riverside, CA
SoCal Realtor - A.L.C. - Company Trainer & Coach

"Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?"  I keep having to remind myself the answer is NO!

Apr 03, 2015 10:24 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

Worry warts don't really help anyone.  Congrts on your feature!

Apr 03, 2015 01:29 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Maria Gilda Racelis - you have a very good point. And it's been said, what you focus on, expands! The easiest solution is - get it done! 

As it was in Lion King - Hakuna Matata....It means no worry...

 

Apr 03, 2015 01:56 PM
Andrea HoffDomin
Florida Dream Homes Realty - Fort Lauderdale, FL
- in Real Estate always on your side!

You are so right they worries can be very disturbing and will slow you down. When I have such days to turn to songs like "don't worry, be happy" and then I roll up my sleeves.

Sunny greetings from Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

Apr 03, 2015 11:47 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

You are indeed correct that being a worry wart can be bad for your health. Slow down and smell the roses.

Apr 04, 2015 03:35 AM
Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Thankfully I've never been one to worry much. I don't know if it's my personality or how I was raised but worry and anxiety have never really plagued me. 

Apr 04, 2015 03:37 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

I learned a long time ago that 95% of stuff people worry about doesn't occur. So stop worrying and start planning for your successes and take action to resolve challenges when they arise, quickly and effectively. 

Apr 04, 2015 04:59 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Excellent read for the day since I seem to have them of late.  A dose of the gym usually helps.

Apr 04, 2015 06:15 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Maria,

Congratulations on the well deserved Featured post! Worry and anxiety can be killers if you allow them to invade your physic!

Apr 05, 2015 10:11 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Have a very special Monday and an outstanding week.

Apr 05, 2015 10:37 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

If you have faith, patience and are a believer like Peter Pan, you can skip the worry part. No warts, wringing your hands and easy peasy makes everything normal, at ease and fun can enter the room. For everyone around you surrounding you as well!

Apr 06, 2015 12:13 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Most of the things we worry about will take care of themselves or there is nothing we can do about it.  The trick is to know which ones you should be taking care of.

Apr 06, 2015 07:59 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Maria - that can happen.  I felt some this weekend when I reLized things I had to get done.  I decided to take them off my mind in put the reminders in my calendar.  Those warts can take over if you don't deal with them.

Apr 06, 2015 09:15 AM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

We all have it Maria but it is when it comes with the typhoon that makes me cringe in this business!!

Apr 06, 2015 09:16 AM
Nancy Robinson Ranked #6 in MI
Century 21 Town and Country - Royal Oak, MI
#11 Century21 Realtor in the US, #16 in the World

When anxiety takes over life it  just feels yucky, If this is a recurrence for you or someone in your life,,, and it goes into many areas of that persons life, It may be time to talk to a professional.  Persistent Anxiety or worry is important to get checked out.

Apr 07, 2015 10:05 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Needless worry is not good for our health or our attitude.

Have a wonderful day.

Apr 07, 2015 10:41 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Maria, worrying can cause so many problems, no matter what it is, I acknowledge it only to let it go..

Apr 09, 2015 02:11 AM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

Funny Active Rain community article, Maria Gilda Racelis at (860) 432-0885.

Apr 09, 2015 06:28 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Maria -- nicely written and very clever post on an ailment that can have a devasting impact on our lives.   A well-deserved gold star!

Apr 11, 2015 01:38 AM
Winston Heverly
Coldwell Banker Access Realty - South Macon, GA
GRI, ABR, SFR, CDPE, CIAS, PA

A super post I came across among the many archieves and frequent bloggers. Thanks for being apart of Active Rain.-

Apr 12, 2015 01:30 PM