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What can I Trust? A Treatise. Not too Deep...with humor attempted.

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax



Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman

 

 

I trust that my dogs will sit when I tell them. Except in close proximity to a squirrel. Unless I have a TREAT.

I trust that my cat will not sit when I tell it. Even if I have a treat. I do not have a cat. You cannot trust them.

 

 

 

  

 


Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman

I trust that my wife likes me. She has since she was 20. I like her too. Since I was 20. She is my first and last wife. This I trust.

I generally want to be liked more than loved. Like is a positive, friendly, warm emotional response.

Love is a commitment. Loyalty in the face of adversity, helpfulness in time of need, courtesy when none should be given, self sacrifice on behalf of the one loved...whether you "liked" that person at the moment...or not.

True friends love you, your acquaintances do not.

Forget it. I will take being loved over being liked. Although I do want to be liked by those I love and those that love me.

These things I trust.

 

 



 

Assateague Island Steve BachmanI love my children. I do not always like them. They feel the same way about me. This I trust.

I trust that if I purchase a used car, the results will be excellent. Experience bears this out.

If I recommend a particular used car to my mother-in-law, it will be the worst LEMON ever to wear four wheels. Experience bears this out.

This I trust.

 

 

 

  

Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman

 I trust America's founding principles. I know that we as a nation will not always honor those principles or do the right thing.

Yet we have proved over time that we will provide shelter to the oppressed and disadvantaged when the self proclaimed, more enlightened countries have closed their doors.

We are a country that over time corrects her mistakes. May we continue.

I am hopeful.

 

 

 

 

 



Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman

I trust that if I buy a deluxe snow-blower based on recent humongous storms, that no significant snow accumulation will occur for the next 7 years. That is a worthwhile investment.


I trust that my Sears lawn mower will start as it has for the last 21 years despite neglect and abuse.

If my Sears lawn mower does not start. I will buy another Sears lawn mower. Trust me.

 

  


Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman
I've discovered that some of the darkest, saddest moments of  life contain the most useful, long lasting, even beautiful revelations of underlying truth.

The hurt will linger and often just be hiding. I trust that this will continue to be my experience.

Time does heal. Pain you never thought would relent can diminish. I hope time continues to offer this balm.

God never guaranteed me an easy life, filled with non-stop fun and happiness.

He does offer contentment and comfort in time of sadness in this life and an amazing experience in the next, if I trust His promises and ask for His forgiveness. I trust God.

 

  

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Comments(19)

Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

A reflection of life and sharing of the journey here...thank you and best Steve

Apr 17, 2015 11:26 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Thanks Ritchie.

Apr 17, 2015 11:35 PM
Alan Gross
PrimeLending, A PlainsCapital Company, Equal Housing Lender - Bethesda, MD
Loan Consultant

I trust that you will have a great weekend and enjoy the warm weather. Loved the post.

Apr 17, 2015 11:43 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

I may head to the bay tonight Alan.!!!

Apr 18, 2015 12:27 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Steve- a well thought out and well-received treatise on trust. I read each line carefully because so much rings true to my ears.  Have a great weekend. 

Apr 18, 2015 05:20 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

You put TRUST in terms many more can understand.  Yes, we have to earn trust at times and other times it is just there.

Apr 18, 2015 05:52 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

What I learned

Apr 18, 2015 10:16 AM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Kathy, thank you for the kind words and mention. You have done a terrific job encouraging and supporting the members of Active Rain over the years. We apppreciate it!

Apr 18, 2015 09:47 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Thanks Bill! When we scrape away all the stuff that fills our minds, it is easier to see where we stand eh?

 

Apr 18, 2015 09:49 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Steve. This is funny and moving and poignant too. Well done.

Apr 18, 2015 11:36 PM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Good Morning Steve: First of all, thank you Kathy Streib for featuring this.

Steve and Jan Bachman. You had me at the first paragraph. I am huge dog lover and I can relate. And I can relate as well with the second paragraph:)

The rest is a naked truth about a human's crude emotions and sojourn on the face of the earth--for as long as we live. Our own frailties, beliefs, hopes and beyond what we can fathom but we still hold on to due to our faith.

I enjoyed it immensely.

Apr 19, 2015 12:44 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I am glad I didn't miss this post thanks to Kathy and her weekly wrap up! Thanks for sharing!

Apr 19, 2015 12:54 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

So well written!  I'm so glad Kathy shared this and I was fortunate to read it!

Apr 19, 2015 06:08 AM
Rene Fabre
ARFCO Media - Renton, WA
Practicing Philosophical Eclectic of the Arts

Thanks for sharing this Steve and Jan Bachman ! These "I trust" point to the heart, which is wise, when one listens to it. You certainly do! A wonderful post!

Apr 19, 2015 08:08 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Thank you Kathy for highlighting this beautiful post. And BTW, I like you and Jan!

Apr 20, 2015 12:17 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Maria, thank you. It was one of those days where I was feeling both sad, appreciative, and happy all at once.

Hey Kristin, thanks I am glad you liked it.

Apr 21, 2015 10:57 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Sharon, thank you. I am glad it was meaningful to you. Now if I could turn it into a song.

Rene, I get better as I get older.

Apr 21, 2015 10:59 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Margaret Rome, I have always liked you. You have a clear mind...which is rare.

Apr 21, 2015 11:00 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

What a beautiful post, Steve and Jan. I think the best I've seen for a long time.

 

Oct 05, 2015 04:56 PM