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Love People, Don't Judge

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

Water Buffalo BikeSo often, especially on social media commenting, Facebook, blogging, Twitter, news articles, people are ATTACKING others with hiding behind their keyboards for people being different from them. To me it is the height of being immature. Different is just what people tend to be. I would encourage you to

Love People, Don't Judge.

It is a more kind based approach. We have different life and spiritual journeys. Different cultures, different experiences. SURE, call out something evil if you see THAT, but most things are not on that scale. People are entitled to different values and beliefs. Chill. Just LOVE and let the judging be left up to a higher power.

Paul McFadden
Responsive Pest Control - Seattle, WA
Pest Control, Seattle, WA.

Perfect. Thank you! I've never understood why people do what they do in some instances. Perhaps they're just having a bad day!

May 08, 2015 03:28 AM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home is where the hearth is.

Holy cow on parsley!?

May 08, 2015 03:43 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Gary - you are right on with this post. I couldn't agree more. This is not the place to make that type of commentary. Engage and build relationships instead.

May 08, 2015 04:23 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

It is not our place to judge. but that is the natural thing to do

May 08, 2015 05:11 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Those cowards that lurk and can't wait to spread their hatred are so upsetting. It really bothers me when I see this behavior.

May 08, 2015 05:36 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Well said. I really love your comment about leaving the judgement to a higher power. 

May 08, 2015 06:05 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Gary, Even the higher power, I believe, does not judge.  We are all connected and of the same source. If we beat a different drum ... so be it. When we truly love our self, then we can truly love others.  That is an amazing photo. 

May 08, 2015 09:38 AM
Steve Higgins
RE/MAX Kelowna - Kelowna, BC

Hi Gary,

Great post! I couldn't agree with you more. Who are we to judge?!

May 08, 2015 12:15 PM
James (Jim) Lawson, DBA
DomainRealty.com LLC - Bonita Springs, FL
Broker Associate, RSPS, BPOR, HI & PE

Totally agree with the love don't judge theme. I tend to think that folks with poor coping mechanisms might be more prone to lash out at others. Ironically, they are most likely hurting themselves too as such behaviors can lead to making bad choices and experiencing the pain inherent in those bad choices. It's just a working hypothesis. Don't have any proof though. Thanks for the thought-provoking post Gary.  

May 08, 2015 04:19 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I see a lot of snarkiness on social media from people who wouldn't ever say those things in person. I also see people who say something, and then when called on it, say, "Oh, that's not what I meant" and make up something that isn't even in the same ballpark as what they originally said. Lately I've been a bit tired of the social media thing - too bad it's a necessary tool now.

May 08, 2015 09:02 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Except for politicians.

May 08, 2015 10:10 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

I wont deny what I see and hear. Putting a sentence on it is another matter

May 09, 2015 12:10 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Gary, I love the picture and your message. Congrats on the feature.

May 09, 2015 01:52 AM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Gary Woltal - the biggest mistake of our life is making judgment about people! Love them, care for them...

May 09, 2015 03:34 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Thank you for the inspirational post and advice. I know some people who love to find faults in others and you just can not please them.

May 09, 2015 11:17 PM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

The worst kind of people is those who brag how good they are. Often they find out the ones(realtors and brokers) they look down and they do not brag are Ivy league phds, and attorneys. In my area most professionals carry several licenses. Loan, broker, contractor, as well as professional engineers.  People who are judgemental are often not well liked.....

 

May 10, 2015 02:37 AM
Kathy Smiley
Rodeo Realty ~ Fine Estates Westlake Village - Newbury Park, CA
"Real Estate results that make YOU smile!"

Judge not, lest ye be judged. Or something like that!

May 11, 2015 04:38 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is a great message to share. It would be nice to see more kindness on the internet.

May 12, 2015 01:41 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Gary

There power in being nice to people.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

May 13, 2015 01:04 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

This combination of a lovely photo with a heartfelt message can't be beat.

Simple.

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Can't be beat!

May 14, 2015 04:21 AM