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7 Mistakes Real Estate Agents Make With The Law Of Attraction

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Mortgage and Lending with TampaBayLoanOfficer NMLS#241583

The Law of Attraction is potentially one of the most powerful tools you'll ever have as a Real Estate Agent. Why? Because it helps you to train your mind into a successful and prosperous mindset. In other words, if you practice the Law of Attraction you're always looking at the opportunities for growing your business rather than the obstacles.

If you're not getting the results you want with the Law of Attraction, it's possible that you might be making these common mistakes:

1. Failure to switch focus

It may be that when you start looking at what you don't like about your business, i.e. the difficult clients, the "fallen transactions," and the continual need to prospect, you may be focusing on what you "don't want," instead of what you do want. The Law of Attraction states that you get what you focus on. Focus on the difficult clients long enough, and that's what you will bring more of.

2. Failure to identify what you "do want"

You may be spending so much time and energy trying to eliminate what you don't want, like unqualified clients; you may not be getting clear on what you do want. If you don't want unqualified clients, then what are the characteristics that you really want in prospective clients?

If you're like most people, you want prospective clients to be qualified, committed, and motivated. Then focus on that. Whenever your mind wanders, keep coming back to what you want to create.

3. Focusing on current circumstances

According to the Law of Attraction, current circumstances do not have to define you. They are based on your old decisions and your old beliefs. Now that you are learning the Law of Attraction, you have a chance to start fresh.

Never mind your current conditions, instead ask yourself, "What do I want to create?" Set your intention and don't waver.

4. You get worried about the "how to"

According to the Law of Attraction, "how to" is the domain of the universe. You don't have to know the details. You just have to know what you want, and why you want it. Let the Universe figure out the "how".

5. You take "frantic action," rather than "inspired action"

Frantic action is fear-based. You are being reactive rather than proactive. Inspired action" means that you're listening to your intuition, rather than on your linear mind. Intuition will come to you in the form of "Ah Ha" and gut instincts. Inspired action will feel good and it will feel right.

6. You may be forgetting to "visualize"

In the Law of Attraction, there is the saying, "whatever you visualize, you will materialize." It may be that in your business, you haven't taken some quiet time to visualize your desired outcome, for example, earning $500,000 a year on a steady basis (or whatever your ideal income is).

When you take time to visualize yourself having the prosperity you desire, then you can create the feelings of having it now. Since like energies attract like energies, whatever you radiate comes back to you multiplied. It pays to visualize.

7. The biggest mistake people make

The biggest mistake that people make with the Law of Attraction is that they fail to do it consistently and effectively.

For example, after watching "The Secret," you may be inspired for a while to wake up focusing on gratitude. Then when the inspiration of the movie wears off, you may get busy and forget to be grateful for what you have. This is an example of an inconsistent use of the Law of Attraction.

Another and more serious mistake people make in implementing the Law of Attraction is that they "wing it." They have no systematic, step-by-step procedure to follow.

To effectively and successfully use the Law of Attraction, use a solid 5 step process:

  • Identify what you don't want,

     

  • Identify what you do want,

     

  • Find a feeling place of having what you want,

     

  • Clear your opposing beliefs,

     

  • Take inspired action.

If you follow these 5 steps, perhaps with the help of a mentor or a coach, you will maximize the effectiveness of the Law of Attraction. No longer will the Law of attraction seem like a mystery to you!

Practice these 5 steps consistently, and you will be building a solid foundation for the Law of Attraction to work for you.

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BLR Guy
BLRGUY(Beach & Luxury Realty Inc) - Saint Pete Beach, FL
LOL Will...realtors make mistakes?And seven of them to boot?You are making friends here...LOL
Apr 16, 2008 11:11 PM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!
This sounds reasonable to me.  I believe I can do whatever I set my mind for.  It is in the knowing what you want to do. Thanks!
Apr 16, 2008 11:24 PM
Doug Fritchie
DOUG FRITCHIE-Silver Legacy Properties,Inc. - Portland, OR
Hey Will~ That is some good information on staying focused and in the right frame of mind.
Apr 17, 2008 03:30 AM
Will Merritt
TampaBayLoanOfficer - Pinellas Park, FL
Tampa Bay's Most Trusted Lender
Doug that is why I am doing this kind of blogging. I want to help chenge the mind set of America. I am crusading to help change the debt problems with the American households TODAY! I am helping individuals and families to own their house faster. Everyday that goes by I see more and more families that were put into subprime loans for no reason and now the adjustment are starting to eat into the equity of their homes that they have worked hard for. So when you know of a family that needs this help set up an appointment for the both of us and I will get them in a better position. i need everyones help to help your friends and family. Lets help create a shift to create true wealth for America again. Feel free to call me anytime at 727.421.7517
Apr 17, 2008 03:43 AM
Jennifer Kladny
Premier Servicing Company, LLC - Kittanning, PA
I've read The Secret and listened to the CDs.  You are correct when you say the biggest mistake is lack of consistancy.  I am totally guitly of it.  I printed out the 5 step process and hung it on the corkboard right in front of my face - as a reminder!  Thanks for the regained inspiration.
Apr 18, 2008 03:13 AM