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So You Want to Be a REALTOR®?

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Real Estate Agent with McGraw Realtors

So You want to be a REALTOR®?

 

It seems like lots of folks are jumping back into Real Estate now that the big housing crisis is mostly behind us.  

 

But is Real Estate the career for you?

 

How do you know?

 

Answer the following three questions, and you'll have a pretty good idea if Real Estate is for you or not:

 

1.  Am I a Self Starter?

 

The great thing abGood Morning!out real estate is that you don't have to answer to that mean old boss or manager who texts/calls you and tells you to come into work or to stay home because they cut you from the schedule that day.

 

You work for yourself.

 

And the reality of that last sentence is that if you can’t get your rear end out of bed in the morning and get after it, you won’t make a dime in real estate.

 

See, money doesn’t fall out of the sky in this business.  You have to go get it.  You gotta work for it.  And sometimes you have to put in long hours and make sacrifices.

 

But when you do, the payoff can be pretty cool!

 

Not only can you make good money in real estate, but you’ll meet some of the coolest people you never would have met.  And many of them will become your life long friends.

 

But not if you aren’t willing to get up everyday and make yourself go to work.

 

2)  Am I Self Motivated?

 

So let’s say you’re aThe Early Bird Gets the Worm! morning person.  Getting up early is how you are wired.  That’s great!  Now, are you willing to do what you must do in Real Estate to become successful?

 

For example, are you comfortable making cold phone calls to strangers to ask them if they’ll talk to you about selling their house?  And doing it over and over and over again?

 

How about talking to people whom you’ve just met at open houses?  Can you easily relate to strangers?  Are you friendly?  Are you willing to work open houses every weekend if needed to get your business up and going?

 

And speaking of working, I often hear people who are considering a career in Real Estate say things like, “Wow!  You seem to make so much money!  I can’t wait to be rich!”  But then, when you ask them about going with you to show a buyer houses on Thursday night, they have other plans.  Remember this, if you want to build a successful career in Real Estate, it has to come first at first.  After you’ve put your time in building your career you can then get a little picky about if you’ll show on Thursday night or do the open house or if you’ll bless one of your team members with that opportunity.

 

But you gotta do the time first.

You gotta be self motivated for the long haul.

 

3)  Do I have Thick Skin?

You're Gonna Need Some Thick Skin!Being a self starter is big.

 

Being self motivated is important.

 

But this is the one that can sneak up and take you out.

 

In Real Estate you’re going to take some blows.

 

Expect it.

 

Your family and friends are going to ask you to work for free or at a deep discount.  And so will everyone else.  And those loyal friends you think you’ve got…yeah, they’ll go buy a house or sell their house with someone else and you’ll find out about it when you see it on Facebook or in the MLS.  

 

Ouch!

Yeah, that hurts.  Especially the first time.

 

And then there are the other people who sell Real Estate.  You’ll become good friends with many of them, but remember this too.  Jealousy is a big old green eyed monster in our business.  If you start doing good, someone won’t like it cause now you’re taking business away from them.

 

And then there are those agents who are just difficult to deal with.  You come across them in transactions sometimes and you literally are just pulling your hair out in frustration because it doesn’t have to be so…frustrating.  And yet it is!  These are times when you have to stand your ground for your clients and their interests.  And that can be difficult.  It doesn’t sound like it just reading this, but when you’re in the middle of a crap storm with another agent and the heat is ramping up, you’d better be real thick skinned, cause you might get burned!

 

There’s lots of other situations in Real Estate that require thick skin, but I won’t go into those right now.  

 

So is Real Estate worth it?

 

If you can answer yes to these three questions, absolutely!

 

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Michael A. Caruso
Surterre Properties - Laguna Niguel, CA

Great Post, Bob! So true about friends and family...and they all think it's easy work and that you're just making tons of money. Haha... In reality, Real Estate is a complicated business and not for everyone. 

Jul 29, 2015 01:47 AM
Bob Haywood
McGraw Realtors - Owasso, OK
BobHaywood.com

Michael A. Caruso it is a complicated business and about to get more so with the new rules coming our way!  Thank you for the comment!

Jul 29, 2015 01:49 AM
Anonymous
Cary Misenhimer

Thanks for sharing!

Jul 29, 2015 06:10 AM
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Jeanne Gregory
RE/MAX Southwest - Sugar Land, TX
The most important home I sell is YOURS!

The attitude about our business is helped along with shows like House Hunters.  Don't get me started....  Yes, you need thick skin, a fat bank account and motivation like no other in this business! 

Jul 29, 2015 07:28 AM
Alan Kirkpatrick
Austin Texas Homes - Round Rock, TX
Alan in Austin

Bob Haywood 

 

Really good post and so true. Hope you have a wonderful week. 

Jul 29, 2015 07:34 AM
Bob Haywood
McGraw Realtors - Owasso, OK
BobHaywood.com

 Jeanne Gregory Real Estate ain't cheap to do no more is it???

 Alan Kirkpatrick Thanks for stopping by my blog!

 

Jul 29, 2015 07:39 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

Welcome back Bob, you left for awhile. Also, handle failure as a motivator and don't let it stop you.

Jul 29, 2015 07:44 AM
Dori Thurmond
RE/MAX Advantage - Portage, MI

I'm good and good except for cold calling. I don't know if I can muster up the guts to cold call or door knock. I just hate being on the recieving end so I don't know how successful I'd be dishing it out. 

Jul 29, 2015 08:01 AM
Kristen Correa, Broker
Kristen Correa Real Estate & Reedy Creek Realty Services - Keller, TX
I love coffee & real estate. I am out of coffee!

"You’ll meet some of the coolest people you never would have met.  And many of them will become your life long friends." #1 Upside, besides the living you make.

Maybe I am oblivious, maybe I am removed (not in a big office) but this doesn't happen: "Jealousy is a big old green eyed monster in our business.  If you start doing good, someone won’t like it cause now you’re taking business away from them."

And, last... "And those loyal friends you think you’ve got…yeah, they’ll go buy a house or sell their house with someone else and you’ll find out about it when you see it on Facebook or in the MLS." True! But... Keep smiling. Keep learning. Keep being BOSS. Guess how many come back to you vs. go back to that other guy? Greater than 50% at last count.

Jul 29, 2015 08:08 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

There are always the expection to the rule and we hear about the agent that just started out with 10 deals under the belt in the first year.  So here's one:  discernment!  

Jul 29, 2015 08:27 AM
Lori Cain
Own Tulsa - Tulsa, OK
Midtown Tulsa Real Estate Top Producer

Happy to see you blogging again Bob Haywood - maybe you will motivate me!

Yes, I remember that first one I saw on Facebook - a Buyer who I fed and clothed during bad times, showed her homes off/on for years - and she purchased through another Realtor.  THAT took me a while to get past.

I love real estate - but it is not for the faint of heart!

Jul 30, 2015 05:36 AM
Bob Haywood
McGraw Realtors - Owasso, OK
BobHaywood.com

 Lori Cain good to be back.  I've missed this place!  And good to see you too.  It does sting when that happens, doesn't it.  And it for sure is not for the faint of heart!

Jul 30, 2015 05:39 AM
Kevin Flores

Keep up the good motivation!

Kevin Flores- Oklahoma City Home Inspector 

Jul 30, 2015 09:36 AM
Bob Haywood
McGraw Realtors - Owasso, OK
BobHaywood.com

 Kevin Flores Thank you for stopping by my blog.  Always nice to hear from someone in the Heartland!

Jul 30, 2015 09:42 AM