Lessons I learned from my mother

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Real Estate Agent 0225218019

Since she passed away three years ago today I thought it would be nice to share some lessons I learned from my mother:

 

1) Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today.

I'm still working on this one!

 

2) Reuse and repurpose whenever possible.  I can't tell you how many pillows or window treatments I have redone or remade using the skills my mom taught me with sewing.

 

3)  Why use a recipe when you can be creative.  My mother taught me how to cook using a dash of this or a pinch of that.

 

4) When you make a commitment, stick to it.  This still rings in my ear when I want to give up on something.

 

5)  Laugh when you feel like crying. I look for humor in the midst of difficult circumstances and often end up laughing which always makes life easier.

 

Even though she was with me for over 60 years, I still miss her!

 

Posted by

Sybil Campbell, REALTOR®, ABR, SFR, SRES

Long and Foster, REALTORS®

(757) 876-0140

WHATEVER THE DIRECTION SYBIL CAN HELP YOU LOCATE THE HOME OF YOUR DREAMS

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Comments (34)

Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Laughter is such a good medicine. We all need to learn to laugh more and find joy in more situations. You had a very wise mother.

Aug 19, 2015 01:12 PM
Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

Your Mother was a very smart woman Sybil. Thanks for sharing the memories.

Aug 19, 2015 02:17 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Sybil, Thank you for sharing your memories. I am sorry for your loss.

Aug 19, 2015 08:50 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Sybil.  Great lessons from your Mom.  She left you way too early.

Aug 19, 2015 09:24 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

Our parents teach so much if only we take the time to listen and learn from them.

Aug 20, 2015 06:04 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

June Piper-Brandon,  My mother was brought up during the depression so she knew how to stretch a dollar.

Aug 20, 2015 01:51 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Tammy Lankford,  That really is a blessing, cherish them while they are alive!

Aug 20, 2015 01:51 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Debbie Reynolds,  Yes she was wise, she did not have a lot of "book knowledge" but she had a ton of common sense.

Aug 20, 2015 01:52 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Noah Seidenberg,  She was a smart woman but she was somewhat insecure about her lack of a formal education.

Aug 20, 2015 01:53 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Gita Bantwal,  I have lots of fond memories that bring me comfort.

Aug 20, 2015 01:54 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Conrad Allen,  I don't think we are ever ready to lose those who are so close to us.

Aug 20, 2015 01:55 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional,  I learned a lot from her although I didn't realize some of the lessons while I was learning them.

Aug 20, 2015 01:55 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I remember my mom getting teary eyed when I made and canned some homemade jelly and put up veggies from the garden in the freezer.  She thought I'd never appreciate she taught me how as a girl.  But eventually I did.

Aug 20, 2015 02:35 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Sybil #4 & #5 are right up my alley on a side note to me a Recipe is just a guide:), Endre

Aug 20, 2015 02:59 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Tammy Lankford,  Those are very special memories of your mom.

Aug 20, 2015 10:23 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Endre Barath, Jr.,  Of course I like all of these memories but # 4 and 5 are favorites.

Aug 20, 2015 10:25 PM
Alan Kirkpatrick
Austin Texas Homes - Round Rock, TX
Alan in Austin

Sybil Campbell 

Really great advice from your mom. Have a great weekend and stay away from Spam. 

Aug 20, 2015 11:36 PM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

This is good advice to share.

Have a great day and an outstanding weekend.

Aug 21, 2015 03:34 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Alan Kirkpatrick, Thank you for the comment and the warning.  I took my MAC which is my primary laptop to the local apple/MAC store.  They removed the Mal ware and installed software that I can run every few weeks to clean up and prevent any more malware.

Aug 22, 2015 01:03 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Roy Kelley,  Thank you, I plan to enjoy my weekend and it will be really nice if I get this offer under contract!

Aug 22, 2015 01:04 AM

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