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Choose the People you Associate With . . . . Carefully

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Choose the People you Associate With . . . . Carefully

“Be careful the environment you choose for it will

shape you; be careful the friends you choose for

you will become like them.”

W. Clement Stone 1902 – 2002, Businessman, Self-Help Author

 

As I see it . . . . . . .

Choose the people you associate with . . . . carefully

 

Perception is reality . . . . and people will judge you by the people that you associate with.

 

Your associations can become a springboard to greater recognition . . . . and opportunity . . . . or guilt by association.

 

It may not be fair . . . . but people will judge you by the people that you are seen with. From that observation they will make a decision . . . . If they will associate . . . . or do business with you.

 

Choose your associates . . . . carefully . . . . for they will impact your personal life . . . . and your business success.

 

Choose people that you will be proud to be seen with . . . . and introduce to your sphere of influence

 

Over time you will take on the mannerisms . . . . of the people that you have chosen to associate with.

 

Choose the people you associate with . . . . carefully. Choose people that reflect your values . . . . and that you would most like to be like.

 

 

©2015 Lou Ludwig Motivational Power Quote, Sales and Management Consultant, Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author

Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Lou,  Sometimes it is hard to figure out friends, they seen to want to be friends but all they really want is to take.

Aug 20, 2015 10:56 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Lou, although I hear people say they do not care about the perceptions of others...we need to consider how our actions change are bottom line $$$$

Aug 20, 2015 11:34 PM
Dan Hopper
Dan Hopper - Gold Way RE - Westminster, CO
Colorado Broker / Referral Services

A great reminder for those seeking how to reach success, Lou!  Surround yourself with those that have created success, meet with them, ask them the right questions, and it may mean to change you personal friends to hang with.  If not, then you end up settling for what they have.

Aug 21, 2015 12:08 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

For sure Lou. There are takers and there are givers. Make the right choice!

Aug 21, 2015 12:59 AM
Bill Roberts
Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate - Oceanside, CA
"Baby Boomer" Retirement Planner

Well Lou Ludwig You scratched an itch this time. Tell me who your friends are.

Bill Roberts

Aug 21, 2015 01:09 AM
Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert
Richmond, TX

Lou,

 As they say, birds of feather flock together....oh so true I once worked with a group that as I looked around the room, I said OMG these are my collegues I am too embarrased for people to know I work with them so I found a new job!

Aug 21, 2015 05:02 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Lou, One always has to be careful who thay associated with or as they say these days hang out with. Guilt by association happens all the time. 

Aug 21, 2015 05:03 AM
Ron Buck
The Ron Buck Group - Laguna Niguel, CA
Associate RE Broker at Keller Williams Realty

So true. Not to mention their bad habits may rub off on you.

Aug 21, 2015 05:52 AM
Richard Bazinet /MBA, CRS, ABR
West USA Realty - Scottsdale, AZ
Phoenix Scottsdale. Sellers, Buyers & Relocations

Good advice Lou. You are who you associate with. Many expressions shared in the comments here have never been truer.

Lou Ludwig 

Aug 21, 2015 07:29 AM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

I've been told to surround myself with persons of high ideals. It's impossible to have integrity if one works or are friends with those who do not have integrity. 

Aug 21, 2015 08:11 AM
Stefan Winter
Real Estate in IL & NV | Owner of Real Estate Web Tech | Daily Vlogger - Las Vegas, NV
Owner - Winter Group & Real Estate Web Tech

I've had to cut a lot of friends to get the success I wanted, you really do become who you hang out with. So choose carefully. 

Aug 21, 2015 08:33 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Running with the wrong crowd will only get us in trouble, so it's important for us to choose the right associates!

Aug 21, 2015 09:15 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Lou- as much as we'd like to think that we won't be influenced by the company we keep, we are.  

Aug 21, 2015 11:59 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

I wish I had become aware of this much earlier in my life.  It is best to surround yourself with postitive supportive people.

Aug 21, 2015 12:05 PM
Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

Lou - the wrong people can certainly  bring you down. It's good to associate with positive, forward-looking people.

Aug 21, 2015 12:45 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Just this past weekend, I had that conversation with a family member.  It is very true that we are often judged by those we associate with!

Aug 21, 2015 12:49 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Lou,

This is wise advice that we should follow throughout our lives

thanks

bob

Aug 21, 2015 02:31 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Lou Ludwig funny I just shared with my group - that if you are the best in your group, change the group and go 'up'!

(If you tell me who your friends are, I can tell you what's your worth!)

Aug 21, 2015 03:08 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

 Good Saturday morning Lou.  It is quite ironic that I was just listening to this yesterday during my windshield time.

Aug 21, 2015 07:33 PM
John F Muscarella
RIVER FARM PROPERTIES, LLC - Venice, FL
Broker/Owner, Venice, FL, Florida's Suncoast

A great comment Lou.  One that often is overlooked.

Aug 21, 2015 09:25 PM