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Boo Hoo - Poor Little Rich Girl!!!

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Don't you love it when they call you - tell you all about the house that they are moving to (and you know where it is) - ask you about your services and tell you you're too expensive?  Boo Hoo - Poor Little Rich Girl!

I had such an experience, just today.  A lovely Realtor, who often refers her clients to me for interior design work, sent me another one!   The woman called me and told me that she is moving from a smaller house in Chappaqua to a larger one.  She named the street and I know the neighborhood - charming and gracious colonials and capes.  She told me that she was moving to another neighborhood - I know it well, filled with McMansions of enormous proportions.  After all, they belong to the country club right next store so living in this new development is going to be uber convenient for her husband's golf game.

She asked about my design philosophy and of course about my services.  I told her a little bit about myself and then told her that I work on retainer - a minimum of 10 hours and of course, quoted the price.  I also mentioned that I pass my designer discounts on furniture and furnishings along to my clients and that my fee is for my eye, my taste and my experience!  "OH MY, that is really very expensive" she said and told me she must consult her husband and she'll get back to me!

Too expensive? And what about all of the expensive mistakes she is going to make? And what about all the money I'm going to SAVE her because she is going to do it right, the first time?  When someone says something like this I don't know about you, but I absolutely cringe! Nails on a blackboard!

Saying this to a designer is kinda like saying to an artist that his or her painting is too expensive.  Who can place a price on talent?  A better way to phrase it might be "Gee, I'm sure you are worth every penny but I am not sure that we can afford you". 

But the Poor Little Rich Girl couldn't say that because I know she can afford it - she told where she is going to live.  What would you do if she actually called back?

 

Comments(45)

Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Yes, I so agree with you.  But, most people are so self centered and never like to take blame.  They need to learn how to look at things more objectively.

Aug 22, 2015 01:17 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Joanna- that is so frustrating.  Perhaps she never had the opportunity to use the services of a professional designer, though, so after she thinks about it, she may realize that her investment in your expertise will more than pay off.  Consumers find it hard to pay for or invest in something intangible, like your experience, expertise and knowledge. 

Aug 22, 2015 02:07 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I think what Poor Little Rich Girl was trying to say was, "I don't know if WANT to afford you."

Aug 22, 2015 08:31 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

I think I would look her straight in the eye without blinking and say, I usually only work with more upscale people. I was being generous and offering you a discount to save you money because I thought you needed it. If you change your mind and I can pencil you into my schedule, please let me know. Thank you very much. 

Aug 22, 2015 10:04 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

If she calls back, I'd assume she had decided you weren't too experience after all!

Aug 22, 2015 11:52 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Let me know when you decide so I can get you on my waiting list. Hope you are not in a hurry.

Aug 22, 2015 02:47 PM
Janis Borgueta
Newburgh, NY
Retired RE Salesperson

Joanna, I believe that many people are very uninformed when it comes to designers pricing, varied abilities and what to expect. It may have just been something she wasn't expecting. In the end if she can afford you then she will be back. She wouldn't want to miss out on a good thing to show off her new home to her friends!

Aug 22, 2015 09:12 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Joanna - well you could alway say...Too expensive?  Damn, right and worth it.  

On a more serious note, it actually may be a case of education and sharing that what you bring to the table makes a difference.  

 

Aug 23, 2015 12:39 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Bubbeleh, I'm not sure how I missed this post, but I think I would have to tell her that you will need to give it some thought as to whether you want to work in her neighborhood or not, usually you work in more upscale areas and more high end clients, you have a reputation to uphold.

Aug 26, 2015 03:30 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

So sorry everyone to get back to you so late - we were away for a few days!!!

Yes Debbie Reynolds , that is exactly what she meant!  I know that phrase-heard it before!

You are right Sheila Anderson - I have no intention of answering it.

Hi there Chris and Dick Dovorany - I like the way you think!!! And of course, my Tateleh Roger D. Mucci understands perfectly well-I will tell her most of my clients live in Greenwich!!

Yes sadly Debbie Gartner - entitlement and self centeredness are rampant in these woods!

Aug 26, 2015 11:49 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Yes probably true Chris Ann Cleland - if they don't value what I do, then clearly they don't WANT to understand my fee structure.  And perfect response Patricia Feager, MBA, GRI, Cert Negotiations Expert, Military Relo Prof you and Roger D. Mucci think alike!

If she calls back Myrl Jeffcoat - I would imagine she went shopping and learned a little about pricing.

Aug 26, 2015 11:51 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

As a matter of fact Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland - there IS a waiting list.  I am booked and busy and could not start another client until October 27  at this point!  I have Marcus' wedding and then, off to the west coast.

Both Janis Borgueta and Michael Jacobs are right.  I think educating a prospect is a good idea and if she calls back I am sure we will discuss it.  So far, she is doing her research and I have not heard a thing.

Aug 26, 2015 11:53 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Joanna,

What is too expensive is hiring someone who does not know what they are doing and is willing to work cheap...Because the results are going to be dreadful and cost a lot to have them undone.  You are tops in my book, so have her call me...LOL  A

Aug 26, 2015 02:34 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

I would say (with my inside voice) she has COME TO HER SENSES! And be the gracious person that you are and give her the "uber" treatment" that you exemplify and then let her tell OTHERS about you. 

Just my 2cents' worth without seeing what everyone else said. 

Aug 27, 2015 04:29 AM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

I agree with Gayle.  I would accept the challenge of working with this woman. If she is smart, she will realize what a deal she is getting, as you are not charging her cost plus on her discounted purchases.

Aug 28, 2015 04:28 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Oh my, this is quite the tale. Loved Alexandra's comment - I second that, call me. ;)  She must understand value. And, I'm sure the expertise and experience ( plus talent) you bring to a project is worth its weight in gold. So there, poor little rich girl. 

Aug 31, 2015 12:55 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Girlfriend Ron and Alexandra Seigel - it's the mutual admiration society but thank you for the vote of confidence!

Your 2 cents are worth a million Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Realtor (503)755-2905 so thank you for the support.

Thanks Sharon Parisi - I like the way you think.

I will have her call Debb Janes and Alexandra if she calls back-which she has not yet-and have you gals tie her to a chair and do some voodoo!

Aug 31, 2015 10:09 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Joanna, you get what you pay for. I hope she does call, otherwise her mistake is going to cost her dearly..that would be really expensive. 

Sep 01, 2015 10:38 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

She has no idea who she is dealing with.....the poor thing.  Hopefully she doesn't make a very serious mistake and let you slip through her fingers!

Sep 02, 2015 12:00 PM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Hi there Beth Atalay and Sharon Tara - you gals are too kind.  She has not called back yet but I did see her Realtor today who said that she is away until after Labor Day so we shall see.  If it is meant to be...

Sep 03, 2015 07:22 AM