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12 Steps To Living Well- Step #11 Help Others

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Services for Real Estate Pros with ReMax Professional Group

We are winding down our list.  I hope you have been able to work some of these ideas into your lives, because we ALL want to live a more productive and fulfilled life.  Our next step is a good one, HELP OTHERS!  But before I get into it in more detail, let me share with you all 12 ideas for improving our lives.

1.  Define your purpose.

2.  Be honest with yourself.

3.  Define your short term goals.

4.  Stay positive and believe in yourself.

5.  Learn new information.

6.  Make different choices.

7.  Take action.

8.  Reprogram your negative self talk.

9.  Make new associations.

10. Refine - continually try to improve.

11. HELP OTHERS

12. Don't be afraid

On a list that is supposed to help me improve my life, why does it include helping others?  I'll put aside the real value of helping others for a moment and talk about how it ACTUALLY HELPS US TO HELP OTHERS.

In my business, I spend a lot of time trying to help Realtors improve their lives and their businesses.  And EVERY TIME I make a suggestion or pass on an idea, I get to hear it also.  If I write a blog that shares advice with the readers, I have to read it myself first.  I hear, read and think about ideas on how to improve our lives all day long.  IT EVENTUALLY RUBS OFF! 

All this information makes me a better person, it makes me more aware of what I'm doing.  It makes me question if I am taking my own advice.  It keeps me honest.  IT KEEPS ME PUSHING TO IMPROVE MY LIFE!

If you want to improve your real estate business, include in your arsenal helping others.  Reach out to other Realtors, offer advice, brainstorm, share information.  The more you do, the more you get to hear it, and eventually it will rub off on YOU TOO! 

Now for the other reason to help others.  The late entertainer Danny Thomas said, "Success in life is in what you do for others."  I couldn't agree more.  Until you turn your talents and knowledge to helping others, you are not truly successful.  It doesn't matter how much money you have or how many people know your name, there is no higher form of living than helping others!

Most extremely successful people in this world eventually understand this.  Look at Oprah's example.  Bill and Melinda Gates, Warren Buffett, Angelina and Brad.  All of them are doing amazing work to help others.  It is the FINEST  MEASURE OF A PERSON!

So in our world, we should be helping others.  Share your knowledge and gifts.  Lend a helping hand or a sympathetic ear.  REMEMBER, SUCCESS IN LIFE IS IN WHAT YOU DO FOR OTHERS!

All the best until next time

Kevin Bungert

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Maria Mastrolonardo, IL Probate Specialist
RE/MAX of Naperville & RE/MAX Enterprises - Naperville, IL
Illinois Probate Realtor
Kevin - So true, it should be our purpose to help others :)
Apr 17, 2008 02:58 PM
Kevin Bungert
ReMax Professional Group - East Northport, NY
Maria-  It makes for a better life!
Apr 17, 2008 03:05 PM
Mara Hawks
First Realty Auburn - Auburn, AL
Inactive-2012 REALTOR - Homes for Sale Auburn Real Estate, AL
I was helping so many others last year (with no compensation) that I nearly lost my home. I had the worst financial year. Now I'm paying more attention to my business and have been extrememly successful this year. I'm grateful I can keep my home that the others don't mhelp me pay the mortgage on. 
Apr 17, 2008 03:19 PM
Tony Fantis
Fantis Group Real Estate - Salt Lake City, UT
Realtor,Principal Broker - Salt Lake City
Great post!  I've found when I get caught up in my own business I can forget about helping others.  Whenever I help others, business improves, too.  It just happens!
Apr 17, 2008 03:24 PM
Jason Todd
Compelling Media + Design - Halifax, NS

This has been a great series Kevin, and you'll be able to reference this content for years to come.

"SUCCESS IN LIFE IS IN WHAT YOU DO FOR OTHERS!"  -- very true!

Apr 17, 2008 09:51 PM
Kevin Bungert
ReMax Professional Group - East Northport, NY

Mara- I'm very sorry you had such trouble last year.  When you get even more settled, don't forget the people who don't even have homes!  Good luck this year!

Tony- Absolutely!  It makes for a nice and balanced life.  Have a great weekend!

Jason- Thank you!  That's the plan!  All the best!

Apr 18, 2008 12:22 AM