Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

An incredibly tough decision to make.  May your hearts be at peace knowing you made it together and in love.  Mark

Sep 13, 2015 12:17 AM
Anonymous
Meg A. Watt

Hi Tai,I have known you for the majority of my life and if asked to describe you, I'd say you were extremely intelligent, driven and from a very large family. The last point is not about you per se, but I'm sure it shapes much of who you are as a person.Family.People in living families don't turn their back on family members. They love them, they support them, and sometimes they make the difficult decisions their loved one cannot.You and Amira are wonderful parents - I doubt this surprises anyone. You were raised to know the value of having your family in your corner, and right now you're in Creed's.Know that many of us, from the shadows, are in yours and Amira's through prayer, love and light.When the time comes, that love will envelop you.Thank you for loving your son, unconditionally. I would expect nothing less.

Sep 13, 2015 01:30 AM
#2
Gloria Commiso
Keller Williams - Hermosa Beach, CA
Hermosa Beach

Beautiful post and thank you for sharing such a personal story with grace and love. Creed is loved and that experience can never be diminished. May the memories you have now of his heart beat, kicking and movements bring more comfort than anguish. God bless you for making the hard choice and inspite of your anguish you protect others when they congratulate you on the pending birth instead of telling them he will be short lived. Blessing to you and your famiy. May God hold him and embrace the family with love and mercy. 

Sep 13, 2015 03:30 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Gloria.  May God Bless you and your family too.  Best wishes, Tai

Sep 13, 2015 09:41 AM
Anonymous
Amy Becker

I do not know you, or your wife, but I've been touched by your story. My first pregnancy I was 18, and excited and scared to take on this new role in life. I got up the day of my first ultrasound, excited to see my baby for the first time. My (now) husband and I got ready, and went to the appointment together.As I laid on the table, and watched the technician find my baby, I had tears in my eyes. And then I saw him.In that moment I knew I was on this earth the be that little baby's mom. And nothing was going to stop me from that.Fast forward 15 minutes, and the technician told us something was wrong with our baby. Our perfect miracle was somehow imperfect in her eyes. I remember staring at her in disbelief.. Was she looking at the some images I was seeing?She refused to get a doctor, but instead told me and my husband, that this baby has a very serious heart defect, one so significant that I may not carry to term. She also informed us that our child had a "halo" around his head, and that meant, without a doubt, that not only did this baby have a heart defect, but if I managed to carry him to full term he would be born with Down's syndrome.At 18 and 20, the last thing you want to hear is your child is going to be a "burden" to you, and you are better off terminating the pregnancy now, instead of having a "broken" baby, or one that may not even live.We instantly made the decision to keep this child, and we prayed. We prayed for miracles, answers, and most of all we prayed for strength.Nicholas is now getting ready to celebrate his 11th birthday, and is 100% perfectly healthy. I know that this may not be the outcome for your Creed, but I wanted to share my story with you. Creed is already a lucky boy, and you and your wife are blessed to be his parents. Your strength, and courage should be admired. May God bless you both, and baby Creed.

Sep 13, 2015 04:20 AM
#4
Anonymous
Dana

I love your perspective! Especially the part about being gracious to others who congratulate you & your wife. My husband had a brother that was born with anencephaly. The doctors told his parents that he would die right away, but he lived for 10 months. He had only 1 kidney & some other health issues. It's amazing what God does & what he allows sometimes! I am praying for you & your wife during this difficult journey.

Sep 13, 2015 05:10 AM
#5
Anonymous
Elizabeth Arrigali

God Bless your family. The Lord God and Creed have chosen you.....Continued strength and prayers....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlDUkp1Ts8A

Sep 13, 2015 05:50 AM
#6
Anonymous
A friend

I am incredibly touched by your story. The strength of your love and your faith is inspiring. I will pray for you and for Amira, and, of course, little Creed. There is no doubt in my mind that if God deems it necessary to call Creed to Him that Jesus will carry him into His Father's arms.

Sep 13, 2015 06:38 AM
#7
Anonymous
Trisha Miller Manarin

You are a living testament of our loving God. Grace and peace to your family as you journey forward. - Trisha, an Allentown native living in metro DC

Sep 13, 2015 07:16 AM
#8
Anonymous
Kathy

May God's blessings be upon you. You will be greatly enriched for your respect for your child. Peace 💚

Sep 13, 2015 11:12 AM
#9
Anonymous
Crystal

Your story is very close to my heart. Our second daughter, Holland Grace, was diagnosed with a fatal heart defect in utero. My husband and I decided to carry full term knowing that Holland wouldn't live long after birth. She was with us for 2.5 days.Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep is an organization that connects families with volunteer photographers who donate the gift of infant remembrance photography. Because of this organization we have many photographs of our precious Holland. I hope you are able to find a photographer in your area. I send my prayers up for Creed, you and your family. https://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/

Sep 13, 2015 12:20 PM
#10
Anonymous
Myra Casiano

Your story has me crying here. I know it is a hard decision. I pray that baby Creed can be around just a lil while longer then expected so he could feel the love of his parents. May God Bless you all.

Sep 13, 2015 11:54 PM
#11
Anonymous
Jenn

Thank you for sharing your story. I too can relate as 5 years ago we were told that our son Noah had Trisomy 13 and wouldn't live. He proved the Drs wrong in so many ways and that God is bigger than any Dr. While he now lives in Heaven, his legacy continues on. I started my blog because of my son at http://www.treasuringlifesblessings.com/p/noahs-story.html . If your wife would want to talk to someone who has walked this journey, please have her get in touch with me (I have a contact button on my blog). Praying for your family and little Creed in the coming months and that God would hold you all close! Blessings!

Sep 14, 2015 01:06 AM
#12
M.C. Dwyer
Century 21 Showcase REALTORs - Felton, CA
MC Dwyer-Santa Cruz Mountains Property Specialist

Tai, your story is utterly heart wrenching, and yet you told it so eloquently.    My heart goes out to you, your wife, and baby Creed.

Sep 14, 2015 01:28 AM
Anonymous
Candace

Think about organ donation. Your loss could be a miracle for multiple people and your baby would live thru others... :) think about it..I am an organ donor and would do it again!

Sep 14, 2015 04:28 AM
#14
Anonymous
Lorie Lehman

Oh Tai and Amira! My heart aches for you and tears are in my eyes. I feel your pain and anguish. I feel the hurt and unfairness. You are two strong, loving individuals who will learn and grow from this unimaginable experience.

I became an advocate for standard ultrasound screening in the ob/gyn circle shortly after my 1st full term pregnancy ended as yours will. This technology was relatively new in the 70's; had I undergone this routine examination, we would have known our destiny and could have made choices and plans accordingly as you are. We weren’t given a choice; we had no advance notice of what was to come; we came home after delivery to all the new baby gadgets; crib and changing table set up in the freshly painted nursery along with all the neatly folded infant outfits.
The most shocking and dreadful arrangement thrown at us was the funeral. We were young; we had no experience burying the old, let alone an innocent child with whom we had different plans!
I tell you this, only so you can embrace and arrange your survival for the next months ahead. You appear to have command of what you want and where you’re going. Your approach to this saddest of days is admirable and inspirational. Lean on your family, friends and each other.
Time will heal most of your sorrow. God bless you and your family.

Sep 14, 2015 10:23 AM
#15
Amira DeSa
Keller Williams - Allentown, PA
Transforming Lives Through Real Estate in the LV

Thank you for your words Tai. You have expressed my heart so beautifully.  I know it took a lot of courage to share our story.  You make me so proud to be your wife.  

Sep 15, 2015 11:38 PM
Fred Cope

Amira, God has wonderous things in store for you.  Keeping you in my prayers, and may we join in praying for those who freet about little things: let us pray that they never face what you have, but should they be confronted thus, may they find their answers in a Loving God.

Sep 26, 2015 07:42 AM
Anonymous
Magalie D'Malcraise

Tai and Amira, I have to admit that when I first heard the story about your baby, my initial thought was, "why don't they just terminate the pregnancy and move on?" But now that I've read your story, I completely get it. I understand why you would want to continue the pregnancy and give birth to your son; how you would want to be able to hold him and love him for whatever time you have. That is very commendable. You are two very special people.
I'm not a particularly religious person, but I admire those who believe. I hope your faith will sustain you both in the trying time ahead.

Sep 17, 2015 01:56 PM
#17
Brian Segel
Keller Williams Real Estate - Allentown, PA

Tai & Amira are 2 of the most amazing people I know!

Sep 17, 2015 09:36 PM
Anonymous
Michele Sandon

I'm so very sorry to hear of your son's condition. Sometime in the future, you might find the book, "Safe In the Arms of God," by John MacArther helpful. Praying for you and your son.

Sep 20, 2015 02:14 PM
#19
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

This is so touching and yet inspiring in so many different ways.  It sounds like you have made the right decision for you.  I admire your approach with others.

Sep 25, 2015 04:30 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Debbie, for your kind words.  Best wishes, Tai.

Sep 25, 2015 04:57 AM
Margaret Goss
Baird & Warner Real Estate - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

You have chosen a noble, but difficult path.  I pray for you, your wife, and little Creed.  

Sep 25, 2015 04:36 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

This blog brought tears to my eyes.  Thank you for sharing your love for your unborn son and your faith in Jesus Christ!  May God bless you!

Sep 25, 2015 04:46 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I recently attended the visitation with parents (a young couple I know and love- I taught the young man's sister in Sunday School 25 years ago) who lost their beautiful daughter on the day she was born. She was held, she was loved, she was lost and she will be remembered. They have just one photo of the three of them, framed, cherished.  I pray for your miracle, but I also pray for your strength and comfort. I pray for your faith and I take joy in your faith, because you will see your baby again some day.

Sep 25, 2015 05:23 AM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
A moving experience!

According to Merriam Webster's dictionary, Creed is a statement of the basic beliefs of a religion, not solely specific to the Christian Faith, similar to a tenet, or doctrine.

And, of course, Daniel, of the lion's den. Judged by God and found to be worthy.

My heart aches as I read your story, and your faith and bravery.  Isn't it nice that you live in a country where you have choices, and your choice is a testament to your faith and fortititude and I'm impressed with the two of you in the face of this blessing and adversity.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, your wife and Creed.

Sep 25, 2015 05:25 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Property Manager

What a wonderful and touching post.  Your perspective is inspiring, Tai DeSa .  It sure helps put a lot of other challenges in life in perspective.   My prayers are with you, your wife, and precious little Creed.  He is so blessed to have you as parents, so you can all be together as an eternal family again someday.

Sep 25, 2015 05:38 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Carol, for your kind words.  We appreciate your prayers.

Oct 03, 2015 08:57 AM
Mike Tizzano
Amerifirst Financial, Inc Equal Housing Oppurtinity Lender AZ BK0013635 NMLS 145368 LO:1015837 - Mesa, AZ
Protect Your Transaction Certified Lender

God bless, somehow you'll be able to use this story and honor little Creed

Sep 25, 2015 05:59 AM
Rose Mary Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - Dandridge, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

Very touching story indeed.  Bless you both for the choice you have made. Do not underestimate the power of God.  Miracles do happen.  I was told my grandson had not developed properly.  He had no legs.  My daughter had toxemia and was very ill.  While giving her medicine she needed, his heart would stop.  He was taken early after they had given steroids to help him develop.  He came out beautiful, with all his limbs. God performed a miracle for me and he can do it for you as well.  The best to you both always.

Sep 25, 2015 06:26 AM
Tai DeSa

Rose Mary, thank you for your kind words.  Indeed, a miracle happened with your grandson!

Oct 03, 2015 08:58 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

I admire you for your strength to go through with Creed's birth. I, however, will pray for that miracle. It's the only thing I know to do in these circumstances and that God will bless you beyond imagine.

Sep 25, 2015 06:33 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

What an amazing couple you are. Creed is loved and other people have no business and no right to criticize you for your decision. 

Sep 25, 2015 06:40 AM
Dan Tabit
Keller Williams Bellevue - Sammamish, WA

25 years ago our son was born with a much milder, but potentially fatal condition.  Had we known about it prior to birth, our days would have been different, but the outcome the same. We were blessed that a nurse caught it a few hours after birth and surgery was able to repair it. We didn't know until we left the hospital with him later whether we'd get to keep him or not.  

Our prayers are for you, your wife & family. That through whatever may happen you will know joy, in spite of pain, love, in spite of greif and fellowship in spite of loss.  Trust God, regardless of the outcome, even when it hurts and makes no sense. Thank you for opening up with us all.  

Sep 25, 2015 06:49 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Dan, for reaching out to us.  It's wonderful that everything worked out for your son.  We appreciate your prayers.  Tai

Oct 03, 2015 08:59 AM
Mark Piscitelli & Theresa Ziebro
Remax Trinity - Brecksville, OH

Prayers for your family.  God has given little Creed wonderful parents.

Sep 25, 2015 06:59 AM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

It's important we maintain freedom of choices in life and in death. I chose not to know in spite of my doctor's recommendation because of the dangers of pregnancy at my age; it didn't matter to me what a test result was. I was going to have my baby no matter what (he's in college now). I wish you both and your baby, Creed, the best. 

Sep 25, 2015 07:03 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

Tai - I can't even imagine going through what you and your wife did.  It seems heartwrenching.  But, the nature of humans is that we individually have certain things which are taken from experiences that may differ from others.  That's what makes us who we are.   I also agree with the comment left by Pamela Seley - "It'simportant we maintain freedom of choices in life and in death."

Sep 25, 2015 07:31 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Tai ~ what you are going through is something most of us can't imagine and none of us really know how we'd respond in the same situation. You are both so brave. I can't remember having so many tears running down my face in reading a post on AR, as when I read yours. You are all in my thoughts and my prayers.

Sep 25, 2015 07:53 AM
Tai DeSa

Nina, thank you for your kind words.  We appreciate your prayers.  Best wishes to you.

Oct 03, 2015 09:00 AM
Tracy Lee Parker
RE/MAX Dallas Suburbs/PLATINUM PROPERTIES & MANAGEMENT - Royse City, TX
Buy*Sell*Lease

This truly brought tears to my eyes. I love the way you are taking him to all the places.  I am praying for a miracle! God bless you both! 

Sep 25, 2015 08:06 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Tracy!  We appreciate your prayers.

Oct 03, 2015 09:00 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

What a brave and noble decision you and Amira have made Tai. No one has the right to criticize your choice.....Creed will be in your hearts forever even though he will only be on this earth for a brief time.

Sep 25, 2015 08:08 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Roger.  We appreciate your kind words.

Oct 03, 2015 09:01 AM
Deb Espinoza
Stage Presence Homes, San Diego Real Estate - Ramona, CA
GRI, Broker, SRS,ABR ePro, SFR, CNE

what a beautiful and heart breaking testimony of faith. I pray for you all and know for sure that the Lord has a plan that is bigger and better than anything we can ever comprehend. I know He holds us all in the palm of His hand and I always hope and pray for miracles to be shown for His glory- whether it be that some are brought to Him from your testimony of faith and true love and trust in God's reason for your journey, or by what could be a miracle of a healed birth of your sweet son; either way others will be touched deep in their souls and God's plan will be carried out by your faithfulness and trust in Him. God Bless you !

Sep 25, 2015 08:21 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you Deb.  We appreciate your thoughts and prayers.

Oct 03, 2015 09:02 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH Real Estate - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Tai, it's impossible to read this without tearing up.  I think a lot of your readers have lost a child at or before birth, and I think it's the worst thing that can happen.  Creed is so lucky to have parents who made the choice you did.  And I'm glad that you will get the chance that many don't of holding your baby, even if it's for a very short time.  I'm sending hugs and prayers.

Sep 25, 2015 09:14 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you for your hugs and prayers, Patricia.  Best wishes to you!

Oct 03, 2015 09:02 AM
Elsie Scalia
Keller Williams Real Estate - Clinton, NJ

Tai, I was recently one of those people who was joyously asking about the birth of your child without any idea of your reality. I admire your strength. I was so touched by your post. Not being able to have children myself, I know it is a blessing to be able to have one even if only for one day. You are an inspiration to all. God bless!

Sep 25, 2015 09:48 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Elsie, for your kind words.  Best wishes to you!

Oct 03, 2015 09:03 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate - St. George, UT
So Utah Residential, Referral & Relocation REALTOR

Prayers for you and your family as you continue to move forward with your lives. You and Amira have made an admirable decision for little Creed's sake Tai!

Sep 25, 2015 10:50 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Wanda, for your prayers.  

Oct 03, 2015 09:03 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Tonight I read this blog to my boyfriend.  We will be praying for you to have strength to deal with the birth and death of Creed.  We will also pray for God to comfort you and that will have wonderful memories of being able to hold your son.  We will have our church family pray for you as well.

Sep 25, 2015 10:59 AM
Tai DeSa

Sybil, thank you for sharing this article with loved ones and with your church family.  We appreciate your prayers.  We appreciate what you've said.

Oct 03, 2015 09:07 AM
Vera Gonzalez
RE/MAX Suburban, Inc. - Sterling Heights, MI
Gonzo For Real Estate

Tai DeSa I wish you and your wife peace. Big thoughts your way no one can ever know what a hard decision this is for you and your wife. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. 

Sep 25, 2015 11:46 AM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Tai- in all my years of reading posts here yours is the one that has brought the most tears to my eyes  I am so sorry for the difficult decision that you both have had to make and  I feel honored that you shared your story with us.  I pray that your strength and faith will remain with you both.  Creed is being given all of the love any of us could wish upon a child. 

Sep 25, 2015 11:55 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Kathy, for your kind words.  We appreciate your prayers.

Oct 03, 2015 09:08 AM
Martin Kalisker
Greater Boston Association of REALTORS - Boston, MA
Professional Standards & Legal Assistant

A rabbi once explained to me that the level of emotional pain and dispair one feels from a loss is a testament to how strong of a person you are. You are a courageous person for sharing your story and I hope no one tries to judge you or your situation. May your faith provide you and your family the comfort that you need during this very personal time.

Sep 25, 2015 12:13 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Martin, for your kind words.  The rabbi you mention sounds like a wise man!  Best wishes to you.

Oct 03, 2015 09:08 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

My heart both weeps and shares your joy at the same time. I remember being pregnant and to enjoy the miracle movement inside of me.  God Bless you richly and know that Creed will be back with God soon. The Bible says that God knew you before you were in your Mother's Womb.  God gave him up, temporarily to YOU.  You are Blessed by God.

Sep 25, 2015 12:43 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Evelyn.  We appreciate your kind words.

Oct 03, 2015 09:09 AM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Andover, MA
Andover, MA: Andover Luxury Homes For Sale

Tai DeSa this is a brave decision. Our prayers are with you.

I believe miracles do happen - even now. What matters most is, your belief. Medical science is good and helpful -- but it's just Science - not God!

Sep 25, 2015 01:47 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Praful, for your kind words.  We appreciate your prayers.

Oct 03, 2015 09:09 AM
Paula McDonald, Ph.D.
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

My heart is so heavy for you as I read this touching post.  Thank you for sharing this.  I know how to pray for you dear brother in Christ.  May God wrap His loving arms around you all.  

Sep 25, 2015 02:11 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Paula, for your prayers.  We appreciate it.

Oct 03, 2015 09:10 AM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

May God Bless and Keep you all....

Sep 25, 2015 03:43 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

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Sep 25, 2015 04:03 PM
John Mosier
Realty ONE Group Mountain Desert - Prescott, AZ
Prescott's Patriot Agent 928 533-8142

Tai DeSa - Your leadership shows throughout your story. I am a Christian also and your story is truly a testimony to your faith. I have heard a quote that is significant -- do not remember who said it. "Leadership is learning to LIVE." You and your wife are truly examples to us all. Thank you for sharing your story. I am now following you. May God bless you as your life goes on.

Sep 25, 2015 04:27 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, John, for your kind words.  Amira and I appreciate you!

Oct 03, 2015 08:39 AM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

What a touching story; thank you for sharing. Creed has two wonderful parents.

Sep 25, 2015 10:15 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Kat!  Tai

Oct 03, 2015 08:39 AM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

I am so proud to know you, if only through your blog posting. I will keep you, your wife, and your precious baby in my prayers. Creed is so blessed to have you both for parents because, as you said, so many children in America are denied the right to live when they have birth defects - and even when they're perfectly healthy. God bless you all.

Sep 25, 2015 10:36 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Margaret, for your prayers for us and our baby.  Amira and I appreciate your kindness and prayer.

Oct 03, 2015 08:40 AM
Brigita McKelvie, Associate Broker
Cindy Stys Equestrian and Country Properties, Ltd. - Lehigh Valley, PA
The Broker with horse sense and no horsing around

Tai,

You are both so brave for doing this.  God has a plan and we are to follow it, whatever it may be.  He always has a reason although we may not see it right away.  I volunteer at a therapeutic riding center and see many with various handicaps.  All of them have such wonderful personalities that make up for their handicaps.  I do hope you have a miracle baby, but whatever God has decided, we must abide by.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  Enjoy Creed every moment you have with him.  God Bless.

Brigita

Sep 25, 2015 11:16 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Brigita.  Amira and I appreciate your prayers.  I hope all is well with you!

Oct 03, 2015 08:41 AM
Anonymous
Fran & Kathy O'Neal

Tai,

Please know there are many others holding you and your family up in prayer. We honor you and Amira for your character and courage and trust in God. We know God will watch over you.

Kathy and Fran O'Neal

Sep 26, 2015 02:57 AM
#54
Fred Cope
Reliant Realty in Nashville, TN - Nashville, TN
Looking For Homes With A Smile

Tai and Amira, condolences for your loss.  My neice gave birth to twins about fifteen or so years ago after learning that one of the twins had a heart condition that would not be compatible with life.  They chose to carry Joey to full term.  His twin, Alex is an excellent athlete, and is one of three living siblings.  Like the two of you, these parents followed their faith.  You honored your love for Creed Daniel DeSa, your faith in God, and you each embraced the other's love for a child that Dale Evans Rogers would have called an Angel Unaware.  She and Roy brought a child named Robyn into this world who had Downs Syndrome.  Robyn's time on earth was short, but she helped two Hollywood stars bind their love for one another, their other children and children around the world.  Do a sweet thing for Amira and yourself: order Angel Unaware and read it to one another.  God has great things in store for you.

My youngest daugher is a gift from God: she is ever my reminder that GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS. She was two months premature, had two related medical complications that kept her hospitalized for three weeks.  Doctors gave her less than a 50% chance of surviving.  I prayed "LORD, if you take her, I will understand; and LORD if you let her live, I will raise her to your glory.  Any day now, she will be my partner in real estate.  She has given me three grandsons, and I have made a new commitment to God, that I accept His will in my life, and for whatever years he grants me in my senior years, I will devote myself to preparing these three and my other six grandkids for lives of service in His kingdom.  May He bless the two of you to long healthy, blessed and productive lives as parents and grandparents in His cause.  As for those who do not understand your decision, may HE grant them opportunity to understand.  Our God is THE MARVELLOUS CREATOR, REDEEMER, and the KEEPER OF HIS PROMISES.  With Faith as small as a mustard seed, the might Oaks of Service shall grow as shelter for our Hope and Love.

Sep 26, 2015 07:37 AM
Tai DeSa

Fred, thank you for sharing your story and directing me to Angel Unaware.  I looked it up and it seems like it has touched millions of readers' lives.  What you wrote about your youngest daughter is beautiful.  What a challenging time for you when doctors gave her less than a 50% chance of surviving.  It must be so gratifying to have her become your partner in your real estate business.  Thank you for your words.  Amira and I appreciate you.

Oct 03, 2015 08:47 AM
Fred Griffin Tallahassee Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker
Your baby is a gift from God. But you already know that. There will come a Day when you, and your wife, and your Creed Daniel will be together, in a place called Heaven, that has been described to us in God's Holy Word. That will be a glorious Day, and a glorious Eternity. Keep the faith, Tai. Best to you and to your wife... and to Creed Daniel.
Sep 26, 2015 11:17 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Fred, for your kind words.  I look forward to that Day.  Best wishes to you.  Tai

Oct 03, 2015 08:47 AM
Rhonda Burgess
Southern Living Realty Partners - Smyrna, TN
Moving to Nashville TN Real Estate Specialist

You and your wife are very strong and God will continue to fortify you.  Do not grow weary and faint.  Prayers for you two and Creed. 

Sep 26, 2015 02:27 PM
Tai DeSa

Rhonda, thank you for your prayers.  We appreciate it.  Tai

Oct 03, 2015 08:48 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
H E R Realty, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Don't forget, doctors are not God! God has an ultimate say in it!!! Praying for your family and Creed!!! Miracles do happen everyday!!!

Sep 26, 2015 08:59 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Sham, for your prayers. 

Oct 03, 2015 08:48 AM
Chris Lima
Atlantic Shores Realty Expertise - Port St Lucie, FL
Local or Global-Allow me to open doors for you.

Tai, thank you for sharing your story.  I will keep your family in my prayers and may God bless you with continued strength.

Sep 26, 2015 10:24 PM
Tai DeSa

Chris, thank you for your prayers.

Oct 03, 2015 08:48 AM
Frank Castaldini
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in San Francisco

Sorry to hear about your situation.  We are all faced with challenges in life.  They test us, They shap us, they impact us.  Who we become along the way is the gift to ourselves and those around us.

Sep 27, 2015 12:37 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you for your kind words, Frank.  Best wishes, Tai.

Oct 03, 2015 08:48 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Tai & Amira, this is one of the most touching posts I have read here. I am humbled by your decision to carry Creed full term and truly inspired by your decision to enjoy Creed now, as he is. I do not know what I would have done if faced with your situation. 

I cannot judge your decision to take Creed to full term, nor can I judge those who do not make that decision. It is personal, and it is something I work on daily, to take people as they are, where they are at the moment. 

My thoughts are with the three of you. Thank you for sharing this most personal and touching moment in your lives. 

Sep 27, 2015 01:01 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Andrea, for your kind words.  Best wishes to you.  Tai

Oct 03, 2015 08:49 AM
Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

Tai - what a truly gut-wrenching situation... Sounds like you are doing all that you can under the circumstances and very bravely. You are fortunate that you have modern science to give you this horrific warning, so you can prepare for the outcome and you have your faith, which lets you cope with your fate.

Sep 27, 2015 06:41 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Olga, for your kind words.

Oct 03, 2015 08:50 AM
Dan Nguyen
Keller Williams Realty Phoenix - Tempe, AZ
Sales & Marketing of Residential Real Estate in AZ

Tai DeSa First, you're an incredible husband, father and person. I couldn't imagine going through what you have in the past few months, trying times some of us will never face in a lifetime. I wish I was back in Bath, PA, to meet you. Truly. No matter what, we can't be prepared for this. Creed, such a blessing. I believe everything happens for a reason and though we are blind to it now, it shall pass and be revealed. Nothing anyone can say will do justice, but praying is powerful Tai. Bravery and courage are only two of many words that describe you and your wife. 

Sep 27, 2015 01:35 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Dan, for your kind words.  We live in Bethlehem, not far from your old stomping grounds in Bath.  Best wishes to you in Arizona.

Oct 03, 2015 08:51 AM
Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

I am at a loss for words.  I am so sorry for what will happen, but yet happy that you are able to share so many great experiences with him while he is still in the womb.  They say that the unborn child can actually hear and process while in the womb.  Creed will stay with you and be alive in your hearts and be able to share in your lifetime of experiences that way too.

Sep 27, 2015 03:31 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Ryan, for your kind words.  We appreciate it.

Oct 03, 2015 08:51 AM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Tai DeSa - Heart-broken and amazed  by your story, your faith, your love and what you are doing for Creed.  

Sep 27, 2015 03:38 PM
Tai DeSa

Thank you for your kind words, Christine.  Best wishes, Tai.

Oct 03, 2015 08:51 AM
Warren Schutt
Warren Schutt Real Estate - Danbury, CT
Helping People with Their Moves for over 40 Years

Tai and Amira,

Thank you for sharing. Hearing of your pain and courage caused me to remind myself of my blessings. Life, even with its uncertainties, is a blessed experience. Wishing you continued strength, support and peace as you travel your difficult journey.

Sep 27, 2015 11:57 PM
Tai DeSa

Warren, thank you for your kind words.  

Oct 03, 2015 08:53 AM
Keji Ogunleye
Fairfax Realty, Inc - Greenbelt, MD
GRI, SFR, KejiYour Realtor

Thanks for sharing. God of peace will grant both of you peace and comfort you on both sides... 

Sep 28, 2015 09:38 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Keji. 

Oct 03, 2015 08:53 AM
Anonymous
Christina Green

A baby in Florida is celebrating his 1st birthday after similar findings. I pray that all goes better than doctor predicted. Blessings to you, your wife, and loved ones.

Sep 29, 2015 10:54 AM
#69
Anonymous
Hope

http://wtkr.com/2015/09/29/baby-born-with-part-of-skull-missing-defies-the-odds-celebrates-first-birthday/

Sep 29, 2015 11:00 AM
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Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Hi Tai DeSa, I haven't seen a blog from you lately so I wanted to check in with you and see how you and the family are doing.  I have been praying for you and your family and have asked several others to do so as well.

Oct 22, 2015 02:57 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you Sybil for your continued prayers.  Amira is 7 months pregnant.  Our baby Creed kicks and moves around a lot in her womb.  The latest ultrasound shows that he has nothing above where his eyebrows would be.  We appreciate your taking the time to pray and stay in touch with us.

Nov 01, 2015 10:13 AM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

I read your story through Sybil Campbell 's reblog and wanted to just reach out to you by sending prayers of strength and comfort for your family.  You and your wife are a wonderful testament of faith and you have touched many with your decision.  May God continue to bless and keep you safe.  

Oct 22, 2015 04:27 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello Tai ... I was brought to your post by a reblog by Sybil, other wise I would of missed this heartfelt post.

The courage that it must have taken for you to post this is incredible and thanks for the read.

And would you mind if I posted your blog within the world wide web?

And by the way, congrats on the GOLD STAR ... well deserved 

Oct 24, 2015 05:25 AM
Tai DeSa

Thanks Alaska Bob.  I appreciate your kind words.  Sure, you are welcome to post the blog.  Best wishes to you.

Oct 24, 2015 06:06 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz

Thank you Tai and I will drum up some serious numbers of prayers for Creed ... 

Oct 24, 2015 06:10 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello again Tai ... I have reblogged your post and have featured your post about "Creed" to 4 of my groups at the Activerain network.

I hope you don't mind???

 

LATE NIGHT - EARLY MORNING AT ACTIVERAIN

 

FRIENDS AT ACTIVERAIN

 

Activerain and Member (Plugs)

 

EXPRESS WITH PHOTOGRAPHS AT ACTIVERAIN

Oct 24, 2015 06:07 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Robert.  We are flattered you took the time to reblog the post.  Best wishes to you and your family.

Nov 01, 2015 10:11 AM
Les & Sarah Oswald
Realty One Group - Eastvale, CA
Broker, Realtor and Investor

Tai and Amira - Your strength and faith are a testament of your love to our God. I will pray you continue to pour all your cares and worries on Him. Let Him lead you and guide you during this difficult time. Allow His Grace to be all sufficient to you both. 

 

Oct 24, 2015 07:12 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you Les and Sarah.  We appreciate your prayers.

Nov 01, 2015 10:11 AM
Gary Coles (International Referrals)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Tai DeSa I will be adding my prayers to the others from friends here in the Rain.

Oct 24, 2015 07:48 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Gary.  We appreciate your prayers.

Nov 01, 2015 10:10 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Tai & Amira, please know that many people are praying for you, your sweet Creed Daniel, and praying for strength, wisdom, love, faith and God's blessings.

Oct 26, 2015 11:04 AM
Tai DeSa

Thank you, Pat.  We appreciate your prayers.

Nov 01, 2015 10:10 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • Green • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

You are both very brave. I can not even imagine the pain of of your broken hearts. Blessings and prayers to your family. 

Nov 09, 2015 03:04 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

I wish I had some words of comfort, but know that everyone who hears or reads of your story will be praying with you. I admire your strength to be able to carry to term. I doubt I could make that decision. Bless you and your wife, and sweet little boy. 

Nov 15, 2015 08:46 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster REALTORS®, Gainesville, VA - Bristow, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Your faith is so strong.  I am inspired reading of your choice, and courage to face the loss you know is coming.  You choose to look at the beauty of being a parent for a day, and that is so amazing.  My prayers are with you.

Nov 22, 2015 04:00 AM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

It is very sad some lives born without giving the chance to stay. 

You will be blessed. Wish you and family the best,

Sam Shueh

 

Nov 22, 2015 11:49 PM
Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert
Richmond, TX

Sybil,

 Congrats on the feature a sad story for sure. I would not make the same choice and glad it is not mine to make!

Feb 01, 2016 08:55 AM
Philip Kresge
Finance of America Mortgage - Alburtis, PA

Tai,

  My prayers with you.  It is so difficult to choose joy in the face of adversity and circumstance.  That is what we are called to do.  Your post is the most touching example of that I've ever seen.

Yahweh Shalom (The Lord is Peace)

-Phil

Jun 23, 2016 04:01 AM
Tai DeSa
Harb DeSa Realty - Knoxville, TN
Husband and wife team. #diapersandrealestate

Update:  Five years ago today, on December 19, 2015, Creed Daniel DeSa passed away hours before birth.  Today I am saddened and privileged to announce the release of my book Living with a Baby Who Is Going to Die at Birth .  It is designed to help people find joy even in the painful seasons of their lives.  It shows that even an unborn child can live with purpose and encourage others to become closer to Jesus.  Thank you all for the comments and support you gave my wife Amira and I in our tough season five years ago.  

Dec 19, 2020 05:33 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

I am so touched by your story, Tai. I cannot fathom what you went through and I'm so thankful that you shared your story in a book. Your faith carried you through this incredibly difficult time and guided you to share your story so that you may help others. 

Dec 22, 2020 06:47 AM