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Go ahead and Take a Stand – Monday Morning Coffee!

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Pareto Realty TN #251071

For many, it’s easy to fall into the abyss of feeling powerless!

We all have moments of doubt, anger, frustration . . . and a burning desire for “things to be different.”

We might stew in our wonderment as to how we have gotten ourselves into this uncomfortable spot coupled by a fear of “facing the music” through standing up for CHANGE!

Only the “Vital Few” of our population will muster the courage to take action.

Whether it be from a feeling of last resort desperation or sheer heroism, these gallant folks choose FIGHT over flight (or oppression).

There are myriad reasons NOT to take a stand.

“They” might label you as a “rabble rouser” or “activist” or “trouble maker” . . . or (GASP!) a “NONCONFORMIST”

We all have this choice/option to take ACTION and effect CHANGE . . . or we can swelter in our discomfort along with the “Mass of men” as Henry D. Thoreau so poignantly captures:

“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. From the desperate city you go into the desperate country, and have to console yourself with the bravery of minks and muskrats. A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind. There is no play in them, for this comes after work. But it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things.”

Seth Godin’s post this morning inspired me . . . Shouting into the wind . . . in which he says:

“The most devastating thing we can learn about our power is how much of it we have. How much change we could make if we would only speak up first, not last.”

I end this with a challenge for you to designate yourself to be one of these “Vital Few” folks who stands up and makes a difference . . . because it IS that simple . . . you can designate yourself as such simply by choosing to take appropriate action.

You already have the power and don’t need permission to wield it.

I offer you this set of “Training Wheels” from the “Law of 2 Feet” – Open Space Technology

“If at any time you find yourself in a place where you are neither contributing nor receiving anything of value, than it is YOUR responsibility to use your 2 feet to take yourself to a place where you CAN contributing or receive value – be useful!”

5 years ago today September 14, 2010, I “Birthed” Pareto Realty from my pure passion around the notion that there’s a better way to run a Real Estate Sales Firm.

I pledged always to keep it simple . . . and always to focus on the 20% (Vital Few – Pareto Principle).

There have been many “tests” along the way of my resolve.

At any point in the past 5 years, I could have compromised my commitment of simplicity and Vital Few and would likely have grown the company larger faster, but then it wouldn’t be the firm we now have NOW.

I am SO proud of  the firm we have built . . . and SO excited for the coming years as celebrate our Birthday today and take possession of a new office space in Green Hills.

All because I overcame my reluctance to stand up and claim my personal power in the face of a veritable gauntlet (Depressed Real Estate Market and economy).

So . . .

What’s burning inside YOU NOW?

I hereby grant you permission (not that you need it) to go ahead and stand up and TAKE ACTION!

You’re gonna SOAR . . . I just KNOW it!

b

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Residential Real Estate Principal Broker and Founder of Pareto Realty, LLC. Creating the quintessential real estate firm with emphasis on "Live, Work, & Play" balance . . . and a true Performance Oriented environment for Real Estate Professionals. Serving the Real estate needs of Home Buyers and Sellers in Middle Tennessee.

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Barry Owen

Founder
Principal Broker
Pareto Realty
Nashville, TN

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Nicole Doty - Gilbert Real Estate Expert
Zion Realty - Gilbert, AZ
Broker/Owner of Zion Realty ZionRealtyAZ.com

Very inspiring post Barry! I started my Brokerage firm almost three years ago and I've wanted to quit probably a dozen times in that time even though I've been an agent for 17 years. You just have to keep going and stick to the principles that you were founded on!

Sep 14, 2015 02:10 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Barry-another well written, and very motivating post.  I love the "Law of 2 feet."  It is up to us to seize the power we have and make it happen. 

Sep 14, 2015 11:09 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

 

                        Barry Owen Thank you for my Ah-ha moment. 

Sep 19, 2015 10:11 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

I am glad that Kathy Streib featured this - What a wonderful name for your brokerage! 

Sep 19, 2015 09:32 PM
Barry Owen
Pareto Realty - Nashville, TN

Thank you Lise. I'm a true believer in 80 20 and "Pareto" reminds us to stay in our 20 :-)

Sep 19, 2015 09:47 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Barry. On the whole I agree with you. Pushing beyond a comfort or complacency level is important.

Sep 19, 2015 09:53 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Wonderful post.....I'm sure you are quite proud of Pareto Realty  and I hope you celebrate the 5th birthday.  Such an inspirational post, we all need to empower ourselves and push forward.

Sep 19, 2015 11:23 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Great post..many folks are just whiners and complainers and dont take action!

Sep 20, 2015 12:09 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Barry - outstanding and I am glad that Kathy highlighted this.  You can't be wishy washy or try.  Yes, take a stand and do it!

Sep 20, 2015 12:12 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Barry Owen ,

Wow!! So glad I saw this on Kathy Streib 's post this morning of her "Ah-ha" moments for the week! Totally inspiring!!

Sep 20, 2015 12:22 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Nothing changes without action. We can't move forward without action. Scary at times, but necessary

Sep 20, 2015 02:30 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Barry, congratulations on your success with Pareto Realty!  You developed a vision and stayed true to it.

Sep 20, 2015 09:40 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I've been called a troublemaker most of my adult life.  I always stand up for what I believe.  

Sep 20, 2015 10:09 AM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Barry Owen very inspiring post!

Desire - burning desire and the BIG why - if that leads to action, no looking back!

Sep 20, 2015 02:41 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Barry, what a powerful post, sooo glad Kathy Streib featured it! I am on fire now..

Sep 21, 2015 03:24 AM
Janice Zaltman
United Realty Group - Boca Raton, FL
Energy Efficient And Eco-Friendly Homes in Florida

Hi Barry, Just had this conversation today. Many times it is better to work in unison to effect change. The first steps begins with us and how we think. 

Sep 21, 2015 10:11 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

LIke Kathy Streib I love the law of 2 feet, too! Good for you for taking a stand, deviating from the norm, not being a sheep. 

I have never been one to follow the crowd or be a lemming. And Thoreau is one of my all-time favorite people, living or dead! 

Sep 22, 2015 01:45 PM