Only Get Upset When It Can Help
Truer words cannot be spoken! Most of the time it does more harm to be upset that to just approach and handle the situation in a calm state of mind.
This seems to be a common issue that I think we can ALL relate when things get heated and have the potential to turn into a name calling, finger pointing name game. Great example. In these situations you can blow working relationships with clients, customers, lenders, title workers and attorneys and fellow agents/colleagues. Trust me, colleage relationships matter and NO ONE WANTS TO WORK WITH THAT AGENT. (and this is going to be a future post of mine).
Thanks. This is very accurate and GOOD information. ALWAYS ... always emphasize to your clients that the closing date is NOT written in stone. Some (unfortunately, will still show up on closing day with a full U-haul and no place to go, they will proceed to give you a run down on the inconvenience ...etc ) as much as we'd like to make it better sometimes it isn't possible and it isn't anyone's fault ... it is on them for not heeding the advice.
I cannot even stress this point enough. GREAT POST and SPOT -ON.
Only Get Upset When It Can Help
When a situation is out of our control, getting upset is a total waste and...
Here's an example:
A closing has to be delayed. The buyer and seller have arranged time off from work. It's the end of the month. Everyone is inconvenienced... from the lender to the title company to the agents to the clients and to all the others who are working on a transaction. That includes movers, family members, baby sitters, employers and bosses who schedules are disrupted.
When it is out of our control, such as the person who is responsible for a grant approval is just not available, there is nothing to do.
Sorry but closing cannot and will not happen at the planned time.
We as agents can not make it close!
No matter how angry, sarcastic and kindness impaired an agent becomes...the closing is still not going to happen!
What do you do when this happens?
Keep your buyers and sellers fully informed. Do not promise a settlement date until you have a final 'clear to close'.
Yes, you can set a time and date but it is not written in stone.
There are last minute delays with funding, that one extra piece of paper that is needed, an employee verification, a missing certificate or a last minute change in almost anything.
Delays do happen!
Handle it with kindness, handle it with full explanation and handle as soon as you know there might be a problem. And then
Only Get Upset When It Can Help
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