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Why My House Isn't For Sale

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Why My House Isn't For Sale

This year, my house celebrates it's 100th birthday.  For too many reasons to count, it makes complete sense for me to sell and downsize.  In fact, is ought to be on the market right now.  But it isn't.  And this has gotten me thinking about what I may have in common with all of the other baby boomers who are sitting in big old houses that are no longer optimal.

Here are a few things that could move me along:

The first is a change in the capital gains taxes.  I am not married.  I bought my house in 1983 for something around $120,000.  It's now worth something in the $900's.  So unless I can pull together a marriage of convenience, I'll only be able to get the $250,000 deduction from my gains.  If Congress put back the 1-time exception for people over 55, my guess is I'd quickly join the rest of the AARP membership in making a sensible move. 

The second is getting rid of my excess stuff:  While I'm not a hoarder, I am far from a Zen minimalist.  I've been going through my house a room at a time on a de-cluttering crusade, and it is slow and steady.

More like slow. 

Less like steady.

Like many of my sellers, I probably need professional help emptying out.  It's going to be hard enough to deal with my own stuff, and then I seem to have become the repository for my family's archives.  

Finally, my home has been updated during the 30-some years I've owned it. The roof is only a couple of years old, and the bathrooms were beautifully restored after an elusive leak in the old galvanized plumbing, and now the systems are all thoroughly modern.  But the kitchen is aging, the front porch, rear verandas, and gutters all need work.  It needs paint and refinished floors.  And the back yard?  Well, that's been Willie's territory and will require professionals to come in to clean up and do a bit of remedial landscaping. 

And speaking of Willie the Labradoodle, he's left his mark.  The house is his territory and, I am embarrassed to say that it doesn't quite pass the "sniff test".  

It's almost bad enough that I'm able to understand why people respond to those "We buy ugly houses" ads!  Most important, though, is that it's helping me empathize with my clients who are in the same position that I am.  I get them!

Oh, and the photo is what the block looked like in 1915!  Since then, they've paved the street and we have lovely "mature" landscaping.  

 

Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

Good for you Patricia, we have vintage , 100 year old property too and do not want to sell for similar reasons. If you do, you have to find something else to call home and nothing compares.

Oct 03, 2015 12:51 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Noah, I don't think I could live in new or even new-ish construction, but I am really getting sick of having some renovation project someplace in the house most of the time!  

Oct 03, 2015 12:56 PM
Noah Seidenberg

We have spent $250k on the home about 8 years ago, windows, central AC etc.

Oct 03, 2015 01:20 PM
Aimee Schmitt
Lebanon, PA
Investor/Realtor

I love this post.  There is something that makes me yearn for 19th century properties...and I am in constant mental battle with the pros and cons of a 15 yr old home vs. the sandstone farmhouse I continue to crave. 

Oct 03, 2015 01:44 PM
Andrzej Niemyjski
Realty One Group - Sun City West, AZ

Thank you for sharing.  It looks like lovely home and I totally agree with you on that one time tax exemption

Oct 03, 2015 01:56 PM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

We have a small home compared to the average sized home in our market and it is packed to the brim. I need to start decluttering and get lean.

Oct 03, 2015 02:52 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Like many boomers, it doesn't sound like you have any urgency to sell, so haven't. Four years ago we sold my home of 35 years because we wanted a completely different life style - it was the right thing for us, but had we not wanted to move to San Francisco, whether I would have sold for a smaller house in the same suburban town is questionable. I think lethargy would have kept me in place.

Oct 03, 2015 03:20 PM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

You have to do what works for you....downsizing may make sense...but feels like shoes on the wrong feet...be comfortable and enjoy !

Oct 03, 2015 06:15 PM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Still, all in all, I like the place!  Creaks and pops are part of the charm.

The needed updates you can do!  The new cap gain laws are awful.  Good luck if you can swing it.

Oct 03, 2015 06:46 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Oh yes, you are not alone.  I see this often w/ my customers.  It seems to lead to a 2 year delay or so.

BTW, all those capital improvements you have made (e.g. bathrooms) will reduce your capital gains.  Not sure if the roof counts.

Oct 03, 2015 08:01 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Pat.  900,000 - 120,000 = 780,000 X 18% =  $639,600.  That's a pretty nice hunk of change.  Stop procrastinating.  If Clinton gets in capital gains will be 35%.

Oct 03, 2015 09:47 PM
Rob D. Shepherd
RETIRED - Florence, OR
RETIRED

I am in a simlar quandry. I have a plan to make decluttering easy. I can come over and throw your stuff away pretty easy and you could come to my home and do the same. LOL

Oct 03, 2015 10:03 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Pat -- this post shows you have empathy and a greater understanding of why many people are choosing to stay put rather than place a For Sale sign in their front yard.   You don't see enough reason to do so --- as Lottie Kendall commented --- when you do, you will make that decison or as we often hear in real estate ---  "they'll have to take me out in a pine box before I sell this place".   

Oct 04, 2015 01:27 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Pat - Mary and I are thinking along pretty much the same lines, although without the capital gains tax concerns. We may pull the trigger someday, but we're too happy here in spite of the fact that it's more work than we'd prefer to keep it in great shape.

Oct 04, 2015 05:31 AM
David Gibson CNE, 719-304-4684 ~ Colorado Springs Relocation
Colorado Real Estate Advisers LLC - Colorado Springs, CO
Relocation, Luxury & Lifestyle residential

Patricia,

 

Your wonderful house probably means more to you than you can even comprehend. Hang on to it until you have a clear and compelling reason to move to something even better. There is no place like home!

Oct 04, 2015 08:35 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I am not even part of the 55+ crowd yet and already get the want for one level, smaller homes.  I also get all the reasons I will probably proscrastinate and not do it.  

Oct 04, 2015 10:16 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Let's have a birthday party for your house!  I'm struggling with sorting out stuff so I can figure out my next move.  Mountains of NC or beach in DE?  By the time I figure it out I might just be moving to Greenspring Village 

Oct 04, 2015 11:25 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Patricia Kennedy You are living in a piece of history!  Conversely, in Phoenix, most homes are post 1980s.

Oct 05, 2015 03:01 AM
DEANNA C. SMITH CERTIFIED MOBILE NOTARY
Certified Mobile Notary Signing Agent - Smith Mountain Lake, VA
Highest Ranked Certified Mobile Notary in Virginia

Capital gains are holding a lot of our older generations from upgrading or downsizing.   Remember when building home equity was an important part of retirement planning

Oct 05, 2015 03:23 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

You may need to stay right there. It sounds like your investment will continue to grow and you are in the right, desirable spot though it may take more investment to keep it up.

Oct 05, 2015 11:17 AM