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“I Should Have Told You Years Ago”

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Mortgage and Lending with Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 NMLS # 6869

“I Should Have Told You Years Ago”

 

 

This weekend was my 50th high school reunion, the photo is the evidence. To say it was an amazing experience was an understatement but it was topped off by something one of my classmates shared with me that happened over a half century ago. The truth is, I didn’t remember.

 

Stuart was a scrawny kid and was picked on sometimes so he relayed a story that I did not remember. Here is the short version. Near the school at the time there was a shooting range. We both happened to be there and some bully grabbed his glasses and through them out into the range. He told me that he was too embarrassed and scared to retrieve them, so I walked into the range to get them. Once I handed them to him I walked over to the bully not saying a word, just hauled off and gave him something to remember.

 

The bully was knocked out cold but was finally brought back by his buddies, who poured water on their friend. It’s not smart to mess with a farm boy that didn’t know his own strength. None of them seemed to be tough guys any longer. Stuart said I wish I had told you years ago but am not sure I could have conveyed it very well. “Let me share with you what you really did for me that day. First, no one ever picked on me again and for that I was grateful and second and the most important is there hasn’t been the day, that when someone needed a helping hand that I didn’t reach out my hand to help. It is always time for me to repay your kindness.”

 

I was literally in tears, as it was one of the most heartfelt gifts that I have ever received. It tells me it is all recorded in the book of life. You just don’t know the impact you will make in the life of another human being.

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Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Holy crap, Joe, that made my eyes water and I slapped my heart. I love stories like this. It's true that you do often never know how much you touch another person. Every so often I will get an email from some person I don't even know to say how much I affected them by my writings, and I don't want to say that makes my day because it's much more than one day . . . as you have illustrated. It fills us with purpose.

Oct 13, 2015 12:01 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Joe

That's a great story . . . . Congratulations on the gold star.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Oct 13, 2015 03:02 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Good morning Joe. Thank you for sharing the inspirational story. 

Oct 13, 2015 09:09 PM
Scott Seaton Jr. SLS Home Insp
SLS Home Inspections-Kankakee Will Iroquois Grundy Counties - Bourbonnais, IL
The Home Inspector With a Heart!

Now this is why I love getting on AR every day. Very nice story. 

Oct 13, 2015 09:09 PM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Oh Joe, sorry I am late here but it is a mindful moment that we all may touch someone by doing the right thing...don't hold back...it is wonderful he shared that with you.

Oct 13, 2015 09:40 PM
Brigita McKelvie, Associate Broker
Cindy Stys Equestrian and Country Properties, Ltd. - Lehigh Valley, PA
The Broker with horse sense and no horsing around

Joe,

It took a lot of courage for you to stand up to the bully.  Thank you for sharing this inspirational story.  This one act touched so many people.

Brigita

Oct 13, 2015 09:50 PM
Mark Piscitelli & Theresa Ziebro
Remax Trinity - Brecksville, OH

You're a fine man, Joe!  I loved this post.

Oct 13, 2015 09:51 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Good Morning Joe Petrowsky - Your story gave me goosebumps! What I appreciate the most, was the moral of the story. You didn't do what you did for that boy to get rewarded, or your picture in the newspaper; nor were you trying to impress a girl or show off your strength. Unbeknown to you, you did it all to change the course of that boy's life and you gave him back his dignity. 

It doesn't get any better than that Joe. I am very thankful just to hear this story and even more blessed to know there are people like you. Thank you Joe for sharing with us the gift of who you are.

Oct 13, 2015 11:39 PM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Good Morning Joe:

You always have a heart for the underdogs. I would not want to mess with Joe.

That moment.. when you ran to Stuart's rescue, I would bet in my lifetime that he will never ever forget this.

And he will never.

Oct 13, 2015 11:46 PM
Scott Thompson
Columbia Mortgage Plus - Blue Springs, MO
Commerical Finance - Blue Springs, MO

A little Onion Warning on these things if you don't mind please I need to function over here.

 

Thanks.

Make it a Great Day.

Oct 14, 2015 02:08 AM
Doyle Davison
Hawaiian Beaches Hawaii - 714-968-6767 - Huntington Beach, CA
30 years as your Concierge services listing broker

glad you showed us some of your past...

have a great week Joe.... 

Oct 14, 2015 03:53 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is a wonderful story to share. Real estate professionals are lucky in that that they can reach out every day and help meet the needs of others.

Oct 14, 2015 10:01 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Joe Petrowsky you make me emotional sometimes.....

I remember Andy Andrew narrated a story with the similar message - you never know what you did for others and how that has helped them! Keep doing what is right, at every opportunity.

Oct 16, 2015 02:57 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning again Joe. Wow.....what a wonderful story. I am moved but not surprised. You are the best.

Oct 17, 2015 11:02 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Joe!

I included this post in today's "Last Week's Favorites".  Enjoy the rest of your weekend.

Oct 17, 2015 11:18 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I am glad I didnt miss your post, thanks to Patricia!  Happy Sunday!~

Oct 18, 2015 12:09 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

What a gift you were given when he shared his story with you.  We all have impacted other peoples lives, hopefully in memorable ways.

Oct 18, 2015 11:12 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Ah, Joe, so like you! One of the many reasons you are a "powerhouse" in my book and how truly magnificent that umpteen years later, this man shared a monumental moment with you. Closure!

Oct 19, 2015 01:48 PM
Fred Cope
Reliant Realty in Nashville, TN - Nashville, TN
Looking For Homes With A Smile

Joe, My High School Class celebrated our 50th on September 19, 2015.  That day, I got to be Stuart, as I finally had the opportunity to say to two very special ladies what I should have said long ago.  One was a beautiful brunette cheerleader, and the other a beautiful teacher.  Their greatest beauty remains: the capacity to CARE AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!  I got to hug each, and in the presence of both, tell them that they changed my foolishness and slothfulness into discipline and purpose.  My reward was getting to see them in good health and filled with happiness.  There are a couple other people I hope to find and tell them the impact they have had on my life 

 

Truthfully, that momement with Helen and Mrs. Reidel holds more value in my life than any monetary reward or RECOGNITION I have ever received.  Yes, I wish I could have done it long ago.

Oct 20, 2015 01:32 AM
Janice Zaltman
United Realty Group - Boca Raton, FL
Energy Efficient And Eco-Friendly Homes in Florida

Wow great share. It's almost making me want to go to mine next year......have a ways to go before 50. One never knows the difference we can make in someone's life. That's why we are in Real Estate

Oct 20, 2015 05:51 AM