This isn't easy. Try cutting your hours, splitting your deals and still spending much the same for your real estate costs!
Nevertheless, it is working! I am able to maintain the level I want most of the time and work a lot less (although yes I am in the office on a Sunday afternoon writing this ..lol).
I have to constantly remind myself that this is by design. I am competitive in anything where I have a chance to do well (this leaves out most sports right there) . We are doing awards again at our local year end banquet and it will be hard not to be in the top ten. I did love being able to achieve recognized success doing what I want and like, dealing mostly at the lower end of the market.
My priorities have changed. Now I want the time to travel with my husband while we are able to get around. I enjoy spending time at home more than I did.
The big issue is hobbies. I don't have any specific ones- quilting crafting etc. I like to volunteer with young people but dont' want to be locked in to anything. I may dabble in an obscure area of antiques. I enjoyed my time in that profession. We'll see, in my life things sort of happen.
I know lots of us are dealing with this - this blog series is sort of group therapy.
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