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Do you try to educate prospects, or simply decline to work with them?

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As agents, you no doubt run into sellers who have definite ideas about how their homes should be priced, what they do or do not need to do to get ready to sell, and whether they should stay or go when buyers come by.

You may also come across buyers who refuse to get pre-approved because they "know" what they can or can't buy – and those who refuse an inspection because they're "perfectly capable" of checking out the house themselves.

These people already know it all…

Do you try to educate them, or do you just let them go find a different agent?pass or fail buttons

As a copywriter I ran into something similar this week, and after some thought decided that it wasn't up to me to provide an education - and this client would be more trouble than he was worth.

In the note I sent him I was soooo tempted to point out a few things. For instance, the fact that it is always a poor idea to begin an email with "I'm so-and-so and I sell…"

People really don't care who you are! (Well, maybe they'd care if you said you were the sibling they didn't know existed, but…) They care about what you can do for them. An email always has to begin with something of interest to them.

And then, the drip campaign he wanted. His first assumption was way off base – that it takes far less time to write a 4 or 5 sentence email than a page. Phooey! It takes way longer to refine the words into a brief message than it does to write a few paragraphs. If you've tried to condense your message to fit on a small postcard, you know exactly what I mean.

And next, he seemed to assume that each message could build upon the last as if the prospect had read every one.  The reason we use drip campaigns is that people are likely NOT to read every message. So yes, each message does need to build upon the last, but it also needs to stand alone, just in case it's the first one the prospect has read. Could you do that in 4 or 5 sentences? Maybe, but in this case I think not, because he's not selling his service. He's selling a product with benefits that need to be explained.

I didn't relay any of that to this gentleman.

For starters, I don't think he would have paid attention. He might have wanted to argue the points instead, and I don't have time for that. And then… It really isn't up to me to teach someone who already knows it all. If someone wants to learn, I'm always willing to share what I know – and to point them to others who know more.

So – I just wrote and told him that we weren't a good fit - and wished him well. He has an interesting product that should sell well if he gives it the right presentation. I hope he figures it out. 

Sometimes, it feels really good to just say no. Do you agree?

 

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Comments(66)

Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Olga Simoncelli I sure don't. He had already said it would only take an hour or so on the phone for him to explain how I should write his letters.

Paul McFadden Sometimes - even in dealing with our families.

Chris Ann Cleland Doesn't it feel good not to need the business so much that you'll put up with anything. 

Nov 11, 2015 08:43 AM
Chris Ann Cleland

Yes it does.

Nov 11, 2015 08:43 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

I don't try to educate them unless it's someone I think I WANT to work with.  My biggest challenge was overcoming my competitive spirit.  I sometimes tried to get the business (whether I really wantedit or not) just to prove I could... but I got over that!  LOL

Nov 11, 2015 09:54 AM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Marte Cliff you are right about drip campaign. It's there just for TOMA. I do not read myself the drip from some marketer. Why should I assume that my clients will read each and every email I sent as a drip?

And when frequency don't match, it's better to part ways!

Nov 11, 2015 02:24 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Carol Williams That's a very good impulse to overcome!

Praful Thakkar Yes, they might not even bother reading until they've seen your name 3 or 4 times. 

Nov 11, 2015 02:35 PM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

I have taken Corinne Guest, Managing Broker approach, only to have similar results. Now, I realize it takes too much time and effort to try to educate everyone and choose to work with clients who are a better match.

Nov 11, 2015 10:26 PM
Paul McFadden
Responsive Pest Control - Seattle, WA
Pest Control, Seattle, WA.

True. That's the great unknown. Families are always with us and often unpredictable!

Nov 12, 2015 12:22 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Pat Starnes Sometimes there's a little voice telling you "Don't do this" - and when you ignore it, you're sorry later. 

Paul McFadden They are. 

Nov 12, 2015 12:55 AM
Tina Parker
EXP Realty Canada Inc. - Halifax, NS
Managing Associate Broker

I'm one of those people that have learned the hard way of not listening to that little voice and regretted it. I hope I do the right thing next time and refer them. 

Nov 12, 2015 05:11 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Tina Parker I think we've all ignored that little voice and lived to regret it. Seems like we'd learn to trust it every time instead of only once in a while. 

Nov 12, 2015 05:27 AM
Paul McFadden
Responsive Pest Control - Seattle, WA
Pest Control, Seattle, WA.

Amen to that. I love my family and its idiosyncrasies! It just occurred to me I don't know how to spell that  last word. It could be with a y although it is plural!

Nov 12, 2015 08:58 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Paul McFadden If word is telling the truth, you spelled that word perfectly. 

Nov 12, 2015 12:31 PM
Paul McFadden
Responsive Pest Control - Seattle, WA
Pest Control, Seattle, WA.

Thank you! I still have it. Lol!

Nov 12, 2015 10:00 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

You're welcome Paul McFadden 

Nov 13, 2015 01:20 AM
Aaron Robertson
Authority Property Management - Redding, CA
We Make Renting Simple.

In http://www.authoritypm.com/owner/management-services/Property Management we see this all the time. 

 

Authority Property Management Inc. 

Redding, CA

Nov 13, 2015 10:28 AM
Cathy Roesch 618-233-1000
Palatium Auctions Moving, Downsizing, Liquidation Auctions, Estate Sales. 314-690-1978 Certified Personal Property A... - Town and Country, MO
St Louis MO Auctioneer, Estate Appraiser & Auction

I educate and then lead the prospect or client to the solution and challenge them along the way. Good topic Marte

Nov 16, 2015 12:23 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Cathy Roesch Hopefully, your financial reward is worth the effort. In the instance I wrote about, the client not only intended to tell me how to do my work, he wanted me to do it for him at a reduced fee. 

Nov 16, 2015 01:55 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

I agree with Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner - I will work with any client - until I can't!  I have found out of state "investors" which may include brokers, to be very tough to deal with. I now lock them in to a buyer-broker or let them go.  They tend to suck your area and state reg. knowledge and try to do it themselves....Why ...because they know more than you!

Nov 17, 2015 03:13 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Sheri Sperry Most of my clients are really good, but every now and then I run into someone who has never done any marketing, but knows exactly how his (usually it's a him) copy should be written. Those are almost always the ones who want a cut rate because with their help, it won't take me long to write their copy. Those are the ones I turn down. 

Nov 17, 2015 05:18 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Great post Marte, I should walk away from people like this, but we usually find a way to work through it.

Sep 05, 2016 10:31 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Donna Foerster You are to be commended for having patience! 

Sep 05, 2016 01:10 PM