What's my wallpaper? and what it means to me and says about me

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

First of all I'm a creature of habit and resist change MOST of the time. But not when it comes to my wallpaper. And in the history of my being at ActiveRain three times I've been so inspired by a photo taken and posted by a friend here that I asked them for a copy of it.  Once it was Susan Mangigian  's neighbor's tree.  It was lovely.  And I know that tree has been gone for a while now, but Susan knows I loved it and appreciate it and it was my computer wall paper for about a year. Another time it was Steve Loynd  and he'd taken the sweetest photos from his window of bear cubs and I just loved them. I left him a comment that I really loved that photo and he sent me a good resolution one via email and that was my wall paper for a few months. The last time it was the amazing photography work of Melissa McKinney. It was a lighthouse she took an amazing HD shot of and I said, wow, I'd love to have that turned into a puzzle for my mom and she uploaded an amazingly high resolution copy to dropbox for me so I could do just that. That photo was my wall paper for a while too.

So as you can tell my wall paper is not so much a connection to that photo as it it is a connection to the people behind that photo. I'm very happy to say that I truly consider all three of those people among my circle of friends.

That brings me to the "new kids in town my life". It was a smiggin more than a year ago that my daughter had told me about a friend from church.  Abigail was involved in a "small group" Bible study and mentioned that one of the couples sometimes had babysitting issues. They have 5 children which is challenging in itself, but one of their, at the time 2 year old, twins has cerebral palsy. So finding a baby sitter for them was sometimes beyond something they could do.

Well my Abigail knows me well and she just said, "my mom will do it" because she knew I love babies and of course I would. So one Saturday we got the call. And we totally fell in love with those babies that night.  As many of you remember we had lost our Christmas decorations in a fire in January of 2014. When we went to babysit that night they had been shopping to buy us some ornaments. Those children were so happy to give us those gifts. The girls in the back and Braley and Makala, the boys in the front are Laston, James and Jonah. I'd love for you to take just a moment out of your day to click over to facebook to see James talking. This time last year that wasn't happening. He has made so much progress in the past year and it makes my heart sing with joy to see.  Recently Donald and I went to Grandparents day at school with Braley who is 4 years old. That was both fun and heartbreaking.  Her tears when it was time for us to leave after breakfast just tugged at me for days.  We love to go and visit. We take over pizza sometimes and the kids just love that. I just love those kids.  I love their parents too. Tasha and Kevin are wonderful parents. 

Then there is my phone.  Until recently I had a nice Donald photo there, but then a family event happened. It's an annual tradition to go to the Georgia National Fair in October and while there Abigail got my phone and of course changed the wallpaper from Donald to her. She did at least make it nice face this time. And the photo includes Michael and I don't know when I'll get around to changing it back to Donald, but it will happen and that wall paper photo looks like this. 

 

This photo of Donald will stay on my phone until the next time I'm with my daughter and she notices it's NOT HER again and then I'll get something typical from her like this one.

Also taken by her this year at the fair, yet somehow didn't make it to my wall paper. However, she did edit my contacts so this is what I get to see pop up on the screen when she calls. Oh and she set my ring tone for when she calls to this. Hey, she's got a great sense of humor, like her mama.

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Roger D. Mucci
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All great and wonderful memories behind each of your wallpapers.

Nov 12, 2015 08:37 AM #6
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Beautiful! I love family and loved reading about your memories. 

Nov 12, 2015 08:43 AM #7
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Thanks for sharing these wonderful memories, Tammy.  It's great to be able to see them everyday - even if it is just on your wallpaper.

Nov 12, 2015 08:55 AM #8
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I love this Tammy. And I love you.

Nov 12, 2015 09:44 AM #9
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Hello Tammy,  There is a lot of warmth and love behind all your pics and stories.  Thank you for sharing.  Mark

Nov 12, 2015 10:54 AM #10
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Awesome!  I love the funny fair pose and that your daughter is always surprising you!

Nov 12, 2015 11:31 AM #11
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What a multi-dimensional saint you are! And Donald...ahem...quite the looker, missy! All fun, all family, related or not. 

Nov 12, 2015 11:58 AM #12
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Tammy - You have some great reasons for the wallpapers you are using, and yes, it sure seems your daughter takes after you.

Nov 12, 2015 12:23 PM #13
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I enjoyed reading your post and seeing  the photos of the different wallpapers. 

Nov 12, 2015 08:28 PM #14
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Steve Loynd
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My Camera is always at the ready, and I am lucky enough to have great "landscape" subject matter. Thanks Tammy.

Nov 12, 2015 10:15 PM #15
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5 at once, you caught up to me in the blink of an eye.

Nov 12, 2015 10:24 PM #16
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Your wallpaper reflects a life lived with joy!  You have brought a smile to me this morning.  Thank you.  

Have a great day.

Nov 12, 2015 10:59 PM #17
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Hi Tammy - You have a great understanding of how to use wallpaper to its best. Thanks for sharing your story!

Nov 13, 2015 03:04 AM #18
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Great post Tammy! I wish I had some great pictures of my dad before he passed. In any case I love these memories too.

Nov 13, 2015 05:52 AM #19
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Hi Tammy Lankford , Thanks for sharing the stories behind your wallpaper.  You have a great family!

Nov 13, 2015 09:20 AM #20
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Oh Tammy Lankford  you are the best . You crack me up . I laughed so hard I thought I would wet my pants ..Love it

Nov 13, 2015 01:09 PM #21
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Abigail is Awesome!  LOVE her attitude and sense of humor!

That family is so precious and the fact that you have made them your own is so beautiful!  I watched the video and it brought tears to my eyes!

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I see LOVE  all around Tammy Lankford and that says a lot about who you are.

Nov 14, 2015 09:04 AM #23
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Always nice to see family on the desktop, a reminder of what's truly important and motivation to really put our best into our work.

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Tammy, You've got a lot of connections out there, and seems like I've gotten to meet a bunch of them, or at least feel like I know them because of what you've shared about them.

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