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PARIS, a Remembrance

By
Real Estate Agent with Preferred Properties Key West

 

Our train from London pulled into Paris on a late afternoon in June 1963. I was traveling with 17 other teens and two chaperons from the western suburbs of Denver to do grand tour that many American teenagers get to do. We got our bags and checked into a small hotel on the Left Bank. It was a walk-up. I shared a room with Bill Roberts. I think we were on the third or fourth floor. I remember the windows opened out to the mansard roofs across the street and sky above. I had never seen a sight like this before. I loved the architecture and could not wait for our adventure to begin.

 

Our chaperons gave each of us a few French Francs and let us go in search of some Parisian cafe. Bill and I and a couple of girls walked around and found a little place on what I will call a "V corner". The building was like the Flatirons building in New York only much smaller in size. Our chaperons had written a note which we gave to the matrie de explaining that we had so much money to feed the four of us. He shook his head indicating "impossible". One of us pulled out the money and he brought us right inside and sat us down. I think we all ordered chicken.

 

My prior experiences with chicken was limited to eating my mother's incredible fried chicken with mashed potatoes and gravy which was a mainstay on most Sundays. When we would go out to eat I would usually have chicken, spaghetti, or shrimp. Back in the 1950s and early 1960s restaurant fare was pretty simple at least where I came from. So I was totally unprepared for the simple but utterly delicious roasted chicken and French fries I ate that night along with a glass of white wine. Yes I could order wine at age 16 and no I had never drank wine before that night. It was one of the best meals of my life. I remember it fondly.

 

We did all the things teen tourists do. We went to the Louve, Notre Dame, the Seine, the Arc de triomphe, the Opera, the Eiffel Tower, Montmarte, Sacré Cœur, and Versailles. One night we went to the Moulin Rouge where we had another chicken dinner (they must sell a lot of those in Paris), but this time I drank champagne for the first time. In fact I drank quite a bit of it. I got to see nearly naked women for the first time in my life. They wore tiny little bikinis and pasties as they performed onstage. There was some young muscle guy performing with them. His privates were barely covered. I had never seen anything like this in my little life Lakewood, Colorado. The next day the girls said I behaved badly the night before. All I can say is that I didn't get arrested unlike one of the three other boys who did get a ticket for being a disorderly drunk a couple of weeks later in Vienna. I had many great experiences that summer. Paris will always be a treasured memory of my youth.

 

I returned to Paris twice since my trip in 1963. In the late 1990s I stayed at the Hotel Lancaster and Meurice for a week and made up for inexpensive roasted chicken dinner of my youth by trying to spend as much money on dining as I could. A few years later I returned for my third-times'-a-charm in this wonderful city. On my later trips I went back to the Louve and other tourist spots. But my best memories of  Paris is the early morning and late afternoon walks I would take walking through the neighborhoods where I would see how the people lead their lives.

 

And then last night all hell broke loose. If you have read my blog for some time you know I often go back to moments in my youth to tell little tales about how a simple little nerd kid who grew up in the America of the 1950s ended up in Key West. I look back on my youth with mostly fond memories. Life was so much simpler then. We got by on so much less. We all did because we did not have all of the "stuff" that exist today. We did not suffer. We did not miss anything. When our copy of the Saturday Evening Post arrived and I saw a Norman Rockwell picture, it was a picture of the way we really lived. Now I know I lived a lot better than a lot of people in this county. We weren't rich, but we were not poor. We were middle class people. My mom and dad both worked. The pictures I saw on that magazine and in LIFE and LOOK magazine were the way we all lived. And that way of life is now gone forever. What happened last night would have never happened in the 1950s. I don't know what has happened to people to make them act so inhumanely.

 

I live on a little island out in the middle of the ocean. I feel safe. People are nice here. We are far removed from the insanity of the rest of our world.

 

Pray for Paris.

Susan Laxson CRS
Palm Properties - La Quinta, CA
Realtor in San Diego, CA & Naples, FL

Oh Gary, what a wonderful reflection on the way life was when you visited Paris. The terrorists that struck Paris last night, struck all of us who love Paris, the French and who love humanity and civility.  There is a foreboding that things will never be the same and your island will be for you, as Naples, Florida will be for me and my family... our sanctuary.

Nov 13, 2015 10:37 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Gary- you have shared a wonderful memory with us, and I thank you.  I am happy that I grew up in the simpler times of the 50s.  Today's world  is moving so fast I don't think there is time for people to appreciate what there is.  There is so much anger in the world.  

Nov 14, 2015 01:26 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

 

                    thanks Gary Thomas for my Ah-ha moment. 

Nov 14, 2015 10:17 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Gary. I live in Norman Rockwell's home and understand your thinking. I too pray for better.

Nov 14, 2015 09:08 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Gary. This post really touched me... I lived in Paris in the 1990's and consider it my second home-town. I was an adult when I first visited Paris, but it was an experience never to be forgotten. This weekend I am truly tres desolee.

I, too, grew up in the 1950's, but in New York City... no not quite Norman Rockwell... but times were simpler, for sure, and I miss them sometimes.

Nov 14, 2015 10:36 PM
Gary Thomas

Nina, How fortunate you were to actually live in Paris.   


Gary

Nov 15, 2015 05:07 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Thank you for such a sweet read. Amid the horror, this was a nice remembrance of a easy time. 

Nov 15, 2015 08:55 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Gary, you have a beautiful memory of Paris and you are so lucky to have lived in a world that was so peaceful and quiet, nestled between our two coasts.  Life was certainly simpler in the 1950's because we were not a global society.  But history has been filled with horror and indignity, the 20th century in particular.  In 1938, Kristallnacht happened in beautiful cities across Germany (Berlin in particular) and in 1945 we dropped the Atom Bomb on Hiroshima and Nagasaki.    As a New Yorker who was born in 1955, I know that the city always felt safe to me and I walked to and from school and took the subways alone at the age of 9.  But since 2001 and the attack on the twin towers while I worked at 60 Broad Street in lower Manhattan, I always look over my shoulder.  Those of us living in big cities have all been on our guard.  There really is no where to run and no where to hide.

Nov 15, 2015 09:23 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Gary, like you, I met Paris in the 60's.  It was love at first sight, and it's a romance that's lasted my entire life.  I get back as often as I can, and it's never quite enough.  Loved your post.

Nov 15, 2015 10:33 AM
Gary Thomas
Preferred Properties Key West - Key West, FL
Realtor to the Dreamers

Joanna,  New York is the big target.  I understand your looking over your shoulder. That's why I finished my blog by saying how far removed Key West is from the rest of the world.  

Gary

Nov 15, 2015 05:10 PM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Your memories of Paris remind me of my first trip - much later in 1975.  I was captivated and made it my mission to live there.  Never happened - I found out Americans couldn't just up and move there and take jobs.  I made up for it by visiting a dozen times.

Looking at the recent videos and photos makes me realize how much we've lost in the intervening years.

Nov 16, 2015 12:49 AM