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Who Am I To Judge?

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Who Am I To Judge?

 

Who Am I To JudgeI admit it.   

 

I’ve been known to be more than a bit sarcastic.   

 

If the word “snarky” had been around when I was a child growing up, I’m sure my Mother would have used it often to describe my behavior instead of some of the other choice things she said to me.  

 

I also admit to being a little judgy at times.  One such moment came this weekend as I saw a pink Christmas tree out by the curb waiting for disposal pick up.   A lightbulb went off over my head as if I was channeling Kathy Streib -- wow --- it could be a Speechless Sunday post or maybe something a bit longer.   My mind raced.  I’m glad it slow downed before my fingers hit the keyboard.

 

On Sunday, as I was looking through the Arts & Books section of the Los Angeles Times in search of a bit of cultcha I saw some reviews of exhibits at some of our local museums.   Through the magic of careful editing -- I will remove names but you’ll soon get my point or at least I should say it caused me to think…

 

One review included:

 

...The installation summons creaky Hollywood cliches, cliches about creaky Hollywood cliches.  And so it goes throughout the seven-month exhibition of shallow mixed-media works….

 

And another:

 

It isn’t that “artist” is bad.  He’s good -- just not that good.

 

And still another:

 

Let’s stipulate at the outside “exhibit name” will be a popular hit. Brainless amusement often is.  

 

Will these rather unkind reviews change my outlook on snarky comments and sarcastic quips?   Well, I make no guarantees in that regard except there will be no commentary on that Christmas tree I saw at the side of the curb.    I think my Mother and Kathy might agree. Maybe we all need to stop to think before hitting that submit or send key.

 

Who Am I to Judge?

 

 

Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

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Jon Quist
REALTY EXECUTIVES ARIZONA TERRITORY - Tucson, AZ
Tucson's BUYERS ONLY Realtor since 1996

In the dictionary under "Snarky" they posted my photo. And also under "Shallow", according to my younger brother.

Dec 29, 2015 03:58 AM
Michael Jacobs

Very funny Jon Quist.   Sounds like you have some good sibling rivlary.   

Dec 29, 2015 06:28 AM
David Alan Baker | Laveen & South Phoenix Realtor
Keller Williams Realty Phoenix - Laveen, AZ
Your local Expert

agreed, sometimes some good thought first goes a long way

Dec 29, 2015 04:04 AM
Michael Jacobs

Thanks for the comment David Baker Realtor - Laveen Homes for sale -- I appreciate it.   

Dec 29, 2015 06:29 AM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Michael.  You can't have an opinion about a pink Christmas tree.  Yuck!

Dec 29, 2015 06:37 AM
Michael Jacobs

Conrad Allen - as we know, some things are best left unsaid.

Dec 29, 2015 06:46 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Took me long enough to get here.  Loved your post and your words reminded me of Jean Kerr's "Please Don't Eat the Daisies." David Niven became a theatre critic and wrote reviews that became more sarcastic and pithy.  I think there are some critics who feel they have to be critical lest we think they're not doing their job. Well done!!!

 

Dec 29, 2015 10:18 AM
Michael Jacobs

Thanks, Kathy Streib -- I kinda remember Please Don't Eat The Daisies but not the details.   

Jan 01, 2016 12:31 AM
Janis Borgueta
Newburgh, NY
Retired RE Salesperson

Pink, purple or otherwise, a painted tree curbside is fuel for sparking comments. The creative side of a few is always up for commentary. Think of how boring life would be without artistic expression that foster the snarky remarks! 

Dec 29, 2015 10:23 AM
Michael Jacobs

That's another way of looking at it Janis Borgueta --- snarky comments and artistic expression are more companions than enemies.  

Jan 01, 2016 12:37 AM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Hi Michael...Sometimes things are said to be funny and/or clever but are received as snarky. Best saved for those that understand the intent. Safety first! Always!

Thanks for the photo of the pink tree. Glad I didn't have one.

Kate

Dec 29, 2015 12:59 PM
Michael Jacobs

Making sure the message is understood is important to remember Kate Elim 

Jan 01, 2016 12:38 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Oh we do have some snarky ones floating around. Just pausing to think can make the difference but frankly I think some people don't care. It is all about them.

Dec 29, 2015 10:03 PM
Michael Jacobs

Thinking first...always helps Debbie Reynolds.

Jan 01, 2016 12:40 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I think it's quite interesting and may have been gorgeous all decorated. Who knows. I've never seen a pink (live) tree. I'm assuming it was a fresh tree, not an artificial one. You don't leave artificial trees on the curb, do you?

Too many questions. How did they color it. Why did they color it? What color were the decorations? What is the decor of the room it was in?

I think you should go back there and knock on the door and get me some answers. LOL

Dec 29, 2015 10:20 PM
Michael Jacobs

Ahh, of course you would take this point of exploring the reasons behind the choice of tree color Sharon Tara --- in this condo building -- it would take some detective work to solve the mystery of the pink tree.  

Jan 01, 2016 12:42 AM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

Judgment - just look at some reviews on Trip Advisor or Yelp.  Some people go beyond "review", and get downright snarky!

Jan 03, 2016 01:51 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Fred Griffin -- in my opinion the quasi-anonymity of the Internet has made many people a lot more critical than they would be if they were speaking face-to-face.

Jan 03, 2016 02:14 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Michael!

I included this post in today's summary of Last Week's Favorites on ActiveRain. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Jan 03, 2016 02:40 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Thanks very much for including my post in your "Last Week's Favorites on ActiveRain".   I appreciate it very much.

Jan 03, 2016 02:51 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Well, a pink tree wouldn't be my choice. But I also wouldn't choose a tree that was so artfully decorated that it looked like it belonged in a departments store. (When they used to do that.) I've had friends who buy new, color-coordinated decorations every year... NOT my style, but they enjoy it. 

Meanwhile... I know the tree is starting to dry out and needs to go before long, but I sure don't want to part with it! 

Jan 03, 2016 05:20 AM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

Enjoyed this. Especially the pink Christmas tree. 

My parents used to have a silver foil tree which they stood on top of the closed grand piano and put a spotlight on it with lenses that changed from red to green to blue to... well, you get the idea. I thought it was the stupidist thing I ever saw and vowed to stick to the traditional look when I grew up.

Jan 03, 2016 05:30 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Michael, The tree color reminds me very much of Pepto-Bismol, which I liked the taste of very much when I was a kid until I got sick because of drinking too much of it. Too much of a good thing can be bad, eh?

Jan 03, 2016 09:44 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

That color isn't much different than the silver trees that were popular in the 60's and the colored wheel light that would shine on them.  As for snarky, I once worked for a company that had an abrasives division, and I worked in another division.  They would say there was the manager of abrasives and when referring to me, the abrasive manager.

Jan 03, 2016 12:01 PM
Nancy Robinson Ranked #6 in MI
Century 21 Town and Country - Royal Oak, MI
#11 Century21 Realtor in the US, #16 in the World

I loved our silver tree growing up.  My brothers and I  would stare at it for hours at night, the way it sparkled and danced with the  gorgeous 1920=1960 "s ornamentation on it. was a celebration of joy.  I felt sorry for the friends of mine who had a dull green tree that they had to spend hours putting the tinsel on just right before they could enjoy it.  THAT'S how I felt as a Child.

PINK trees, Blue trees,,,, Green or Silver trees...It does not matter it is not important and not worth commenting on. How a family or individual celebrates Christmas is a bit sacred, Right????  Let us just be grateful some people do celebrate Christmas. 

 

 

Jan 03, 2016 08:37 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Michael, I thought your post was going in a different direction but, loved it nonetheless!  

I thought that you later found out someone in the pink tree family was battling breast cancer and the family decorated/painted their tree in the "Think Pink" mindset.  

Goes to show that thankfully, we all think independently!  Happy New Year, Michael!

Jan 03, 2016 10:05 PM
Jim West
Real Estate Technology Partners - Marysville, OH
Our Passion Is Helping 1st Time Home Sellers

I would guess that they are a cancer survivor and you may want to drive by next year to see if they have another pink tree. I would guess they will. Good for you in giving it more thought before you put words in writing.

Jan 04, 2016 03:17 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

I love how it picks up the hues of the winter cabbage colors in the background...maybe they should just leave it there....and if you believe that I have a WONDERFUL exhibition to tell you about. 

Jan 05, 2016 02:01 AM