New Day = New You

By
Real Estate Agent with William Raveis Legends Realty Group 30PA1082583

 

Happy New Year!  Are you on of the many that made a new year resolution?  Statistics show that new year resolutions are typically abandoned within the first two weeks of the year.  I used to make them and like others, either forgot about it or lost interest.  Could it be that some are avoiding the commitment? Maybe too much pressure?  Probably, and the fact that "most people cannot keep up with their good intentions".  

I was in an airport waiting for a flight back in 1999 and decided to browse through books in a store.  Unfortunately, I can't remember the book or the author but the above quote "most people cannot keep up with their good intentions" jumped off the page and embedded itself in my memory.  To this day I reference it and most important, remember it when making future plans.  

I've found that the pressure of living in the future is unneccessary and not practical.  We only have today!  If I focus on personal changes each day the weight is much less and a lot easiere to manage.

Rather then making a resolution practice living in the moment and focus your efforts on being the best you can be for that one day.  When tomorrow comes, do it again.  We all know the future is unknown and today I am ok with that.

 Planning is part of life and important in many lines of work, the key for me is being ok with plans changing or not playing out the way I wanted them to.  

Comments (5)

Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Christopher Pagli one day at a time is the best way to stay the course.... no new years resolutions for me....

Jan 03, 2016 09:06 PM
Brenda Mayette
Miranda Real Estate Group, Inc. - Glenville, NY
Getting results w/ knowledge & know-how!

And if you focus on being the best you can be today... and tomorrow... and the next day, it sounds like you'll end the year being in a better place than you started.  Sounds like a great plan and a healthy approach.  Enjoy the day!

Jan 03, 2016 09:57 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Christopher. I like your thinking and agree. Today isall we have now. Well framed.

Jan 03, 2016 10:15 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Last week some time I wrote a post about new year's resolutions.  I don't make them, never have.  I wrote that I know what needs to be done.....sometimes I do the right thing, sometimes I don't.  The End.

Best wishes to you and yours for a happy, healthy and prosperous 2016.

Jan 03, 2016 10:33 PM
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

Hi Christopher Pagli , That is a great philosophy to have.  It is more manageable.

Jan 05, 2016 10:29 AM

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