Serious about safety!

By
Real Estate Agent with Broker Associate PenFed Realty 0496522

I live in Texas and have been practicing real estate for over seven years.  I have admittedly put myself in some really stupid situations.  Trying to learn from my mistakes, I try to check all bases to consider safety first.  I let everyone know where I am at all times.  I try to not work open houses alone.  I do not take buyers out without doing a DNA test first (well maybe that is not exactly true).

Point is- I am paranoid and rightly so.  In this day in age we have to be careful not to jump and run without taking precautions.  I would like to hear what other realtors are doing to stay safe.  Maybe by posting you could help me and others stay a little safer.

Survivor stories would be nice to hear as well.  Perhaps you will write a post?  All links to previous posts are welcome!

Comments (26)

Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
Julie- you are right.  Everyone should read that.  BTW- Why did he ask her that anyway?
Apr 23, 2008 11:16 AM
Wendy Montoya, REALTOR® Broker Associate, 254-315-4906
Towne Adams REALTORS - Waco, TX

Good idea about the HUD homes.  The home this happened in was a very nice upper priced home in a nice neighborhood, so it can happen anywhere.  Also, had a person here making obscene phone calls to female agents. Luckily he was caught.

LOL about the DNA.

Apr 23, 2008 11:18 AM
Julie Chapman
DR Horton - Ormond Beach, FL
New Homes Sales Ormond, New Smyrna, Daytona Be

Melody,

Apparently that goes in the report......what a day......(if you saw my monkey zoo ad now it is all making sense.......)

Apr 23, 2008 11:19 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best

Wendy- The HUD homes in our area are getting nicer and more expensive all the time.  They are still a deal but...

Julie- I read it and understand it 100%.

Apr 23, 2008 11:22 AM
Amanda Evans
DFW Living - Fort Worth, TX
Real Estate Broker - Fort Worth Texas

Safety first above all else and absolutely NO reason to take additional risk.  I've gone as far as to ask for a faxed copy of the driver's license and a utility bill prior to meeting at a property where I wait in my car until I can call my secret trusted source to run tags.  All because I had a weird feeling.  As it turned out, the buyer was fine and I was not in danger.   

Still, I don't pretend it can't happen to me.  It's better to be safe than sorry...or dead.

Apr 23, 2008 12:10 PM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
Amanda- I want your source.  What is it worth to you.
Apr 23, 2008 12:35 PM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
And Amanda- Listen to those 'weird feelings'.  They are usually right on.  You never can be to careful.
Apr 23, 2008 01:07 PM
Amanda Evans
DFW Living - Fort Worth, TX
Real Estate Broker - Fort Worth Texas
Mel,my source is worth keeping and if I give up my "connection" they won't be a source.  Call me when you need tags run, dahling.  ::wink, wink::
Apr 23, 2008 01:18 PM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Melody,

When I had a real estate office in urban Atlanta, I required my agents to meet clients at the office, and to get a copy of their driver's license before taking them out to see property.

Once the reason was explained, nobody really protested. That might not work now, due to high incidences of identity theft, but in the late 90's that worked for us!

Apr 24, 2008 12:38 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
That is a good tip.  Thank you.
Apr 24, 2008 01:27 AM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Melody,

I think the hard side to this question and one that is not always addressed is the fact that we are taught form the time we come into the business that we need to build "relationships".  We need to stay alert to this because those that  seek to do us, both men & women, harm have done their homework and know what they are going to do.  I would always trust my instincts and err on the side of caution and take someone with me or have someone call me every 15 minutes until I give them the all clear.

Don R.

Apr 24, 2008 02:16 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
Don you are right.  More than once I have gotten that 'feeling' something could be wrong.  I listened and I am still here to tell you about it.
Apr 24, 2008 02:20 AM
Becky Respess
Broker/Associate Century 21 Judge Fite Co - Cedar Hill, TX
ABR, CRB, CRS

Melody, I am a survivor and you can't be too safe. I promise you. I posted a blog when I first joined AR about my story of survival. Go there and read it. I won't take your space to tell the whole story again. I will tell you now there is no way you can be too paranoid.

Don, there was a realtor in Coppell several years ago that had been showing the same man houses for over a year when he nearly killed her. I don't think you can ever let down your guard completely. I did have someone with me when we were assaulted in the person's house.

Apr 24, 2008 02:35 AM
Becky Respess
Broker/Associate Century 21 Judge Fite Co - Cedar Hill, TX
ABR, CRB, CRS
Apr 24, 2008 02:38 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
Becky- Thank you.  I will read it later today.  I have to get some work done.
Apr 24, 2008 02:40 AM
Maria Fernandez
Farmers Insurance - Irving, TX
I read Becky's story it's a must read!  It just reminds us that we must always be very cautious with people and never put our guard down with new prospects. 
Apr 24, 2008 05:15 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
Becky- It is a story every Realtor should read.  Thank you for sharing.
Apr 25, 2008 02:08 AM
Becky Respess
Broker/Associate Century 21 Judge Fite Co - Cedar Hill, TX
ABR, CRB, CRS
Not a problem. I decided when this happened to me that I should share the incident with others to keep our awareness up.
Apr 26, 2008 01:52 AM
Wendy Massagee
Covington Investment Properties, Inc. - Hamlet, NC

If I have to go to a vacant home I call the police/sherrifs dept and they will send someone out to meet me there. The police chief told me to never hesitate to call and ask.

I have also had someone from the office call me at specific times on an ppointment. I tell my client I must take this call. We act like it is something important like an offer on another property.

I had one case where the customer wanted to meet me at the house. It was 20 miles from my office and near his work/ home. As we scheduled the appointment He wanted to verify the home was vacant. The hair stood up on the back of my neck. I got his name and number in case we had any problems( the number he called from wa private) He then asked if I would be the one to show him the home. For some odd reason I was thinking quick and replied that it would likely be my parter and I both since we like to both meet our new clients.

The day of the appointment I called the number and it was to a tire stor. They had never heard of anyone withthat name. He never called back.

Apr 26, 2008 12:04 PM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best
Wendy- you are a smart woman.  We need to be cery careful!
Apr 26, 2008 12:54 PM