David Alan Baker Laveen & South Phoenix Realtor
Keller Williams Realty Phoenix - Laveen, AZ
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You can be the richest, youngest person, and it still sucks to be alone.

Jan 28, 2016 05:30 AM
Rebecca Foresee
Alain Pinel Realtors - Morgan Hill, CA
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Very true David.  You can also be in a room full of people and still feel lonely.  We need to deal with those feelings in order to continue the life we're meant to live. 

Jan 28, 2016 05:36 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
Good Company Real Estate - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

Rebecca - Loneliness tends to occur often with the elderly, especially if they lose their significant other, and can no longer fend for themselves. It seems as though they can be forgotten by other family members at times.

Jan 28, 2016 06:24 AM
Rebecca Foresee
Alain Pinel Realtors - Morgan Hill, CA
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You are so right Troy!  Although his body is now ragged, it was encouraging to see him out taking care of things and not resigned to sitting . . .

Jan 28, 2016 06:36 AM
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

My mother passed away in 2007 and  can understand what your blog is all about.  My mon and dad were married 66 years.  He was miserable until his death in 2011.

Jan 28, 2016 12:01 PM
Rebecca Foresee
Alain Pinel Realtors - Morgan Hill, CA
Let's foresee the possibilities . and get results!

I'm sorry Larry.  Sadly, I believe the situation is more common than we really know.  Thank you for sharing.

Jan 28, 2016 01:51 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Rebecca,

What a heart breaking story.  Loneliness exists at all ages.  Even Saturdays when I go to the Farmers Market, I noticed it among the vendors.  We often take a few minutes to chat and listen to some of their latest tales.  A

Jan 28, 2016 11:04 PM
Rebecca Foresee
Alain Pinel Realtors - Morgan Hill, CA
Let's foresee the possibilities . and get results!

So glad to hear you take the extra time to visit with people Alexandra.  Oftentimes the simple act of chatting is the highlight of someones day.

Jan 29, 2016 03:17 AM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Rebecca- I see a lot of that here... seniors who spend their days at the market just to have some social time and to be able to talk to someone, even if only the cashier. 

Jan 30, 2016 04:46 AM
Rebecca Foresee

Kathy, I'm always encouraged when I see the golden members of society out and about.  Now, if only the younger generations would listen!  There's so much to learn. 

Jan 30, 2016 05:45 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • Green • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I agree that elder people should not live alone. I had a client like this man. I worried about him being alone in his house. One day I visited him and was covered with blood since he tried to trim a tree and fell down......he could not get out for hours. I was checking on him till he became very sick and could not respond anymore. No, his family did not hire me to sell his house....but it is ok. Sometimes kindness is just kindness. 

Dec 12, 2017 10:52 PM