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Happiness is crab cakes with AR friends and liking what you do

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Real Estate Agent with Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 MD594797

Maryland has the best crab cakes! One of the best places to eat Maryland crab cakes is at G & M Restaurant in Linthicum Heights. And the best people to enjoy those crab cakes with are my ActiveRain friends!

ActiveRain Meet-Up Baltimore G&M RestaurantThis was the second time that we held our ActiveRain Meet-Up at G & M Restaurant and I suspect, it wasn't the last. Meet-ups are always so much fun! We spend a couple hours (at least) chatting about our listings, family, marketing ideas, personal goals and blogging, of course ... and we laugh and hug a lot, too! Today I also had my brain picked by a future Real Estate Rock Star and future blogger (we hope!).

It was my pleasure to share some of my successes, happy endings and challenges. The best advice I can give however, popped into my head after leaving the meet-up:

You have to be passionate about Real Estate in order to survive and thrive!

No 2 days are ever alike for a REALTOR® (one of the reasons why I love it so much), you have to be quick on your feet, be able to multitask and to listen .. between the lines. You have to wear many different hats, constantly learn, develop and grow and know when to take the high road. You have to be OK with trading some a lot of quiet time for touring multiple homes or negotiation marathons. You have to want to help, persistently search for solutions when others throw in the towel. You have to feel that excitement when a new opportunity or challenge presents itself. You have to genuinely LIKE it. 

If you do, then your passion will show and infect others. You will not only survive but thrive.

Happiness is ...

Happiness is crab cakes with AR friends and liking what you do!

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Andrea Bedard
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Comments(51)

Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

It sounds like fun, and only 30ish miles away; I do hope I can make the next one.

Feb 03, 2016 12:26 PM
Andrea Bedard

It was fun Claude Labbe . 30 miles is practically around the corner. We'll see you next time.

Feb 03, 2016 10:29 PM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

I am happy you had a meetup. I went to two one in San Jose and other in Gilroy both in SF South Bay, Northern CA.

Feb 03, 2016 12:54 PM
Andrea Bedard

I love meet-ups Sam Shueh .. just wish I could travel around the country and join them all.

Feb 03, 2016 10:30 PM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Andrea, thanks for sharing about your AR meetup in Maryland. Happiness is liking what we do...

Feb 03, 2016 02:20 PM
Andrea Bedard

Thanks for stopping by Pamela!

Feb 03, 2016 10:30 PM
Marco Giancola
Beachfront Realty - Miami Beach, FL
Realtor (305)608-1922, Miami Beach Florida

Hello Andrea-I sure wouldn't pass on an invite to a fun AR meet up or crab cakes! Looks like a great afternoon.

Feb 03, 2016 06:58 PM
Andrea Bedard

We'll see you next time Marco Giancola, consider yourself invited!

Feb 03, 2016 10:31 PM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

There is the key to happiness, Andrea!!!

You have to be passionate about Real Estate in order to survive and thrive!

Feb 03, 2016 08:04 PM
Andrea Bedard

I very much believe that Sham. Thank you!

Feb 03, 2016 10:32 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Whoever invented the crab cake, I want to thank profusely. On Rainers getting together, a gathering of eagles...no less

Feb 03, 2016 10:55 PM
Andrea Bedard

Me, too, Richie Alan Naggar. We would have to travel way back in time though! According to The Food Timeline, "crab cake-type dishes were introduced to the colonies by English settlers".

Feb 05, 2016 05:08 AM
Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

Andrea - I like your definition of happiness. Sounds like it was an event not to miss, especially with crab cakes on the menu.

Feb 03, 2016 11:01 PM
Andrea Bedard

I would never miss a Meet-Up organized by Margaret Rome, Olga Simoncelli!

Feb 05, 2016 05:09 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Congratulations on your successful MeetUp. Thanks so much for sharing your positive experience.

Feb 04, 2016 12:53 AM
Andrea Bedard

Thank you Roy. It's always good to see Margaret and to chat with old and new friends.. the crab cakes made it one delicious meet-up!

Feb 05, 2016 05:10 AM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

Sounds yummy, Real Estate Agent Andrea Bedard at (301) 384-9177 to Silver Spring, MD with Thompson Company.

Feb 04, 2016 04:54 AM
Andrea Bedard

Those crab cakes were simply delicious Will.

Feb 05, 2016 05:10 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Grab Cakes!  That is almost enough to get me to drive 3000 miles to join you!

Feb 04, 2016 06:21 AM
Andrea Bedard

We'll let you know Gene Riemenschneider when we plan our next Maryland meet-up at G&M!

Feb 05, 2016 05:11 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Crab cakes and a meetup - my kind of meetup!  And you are so right - you have to really like and enjoy this business and so many of us really do! Like you!!

Feb 04, 2016 07:14 AM
Andrea Bedard

I gave Margaret your special hug Anna Banana Kruchten

Feb 04, 2016 01:36 PM
David Alan Baker | Laveen & South Phoenix Realtor
Keller Williams Realty Phoenix - Laveen, AZ
Your local Expert

What a great idea, sounds like a new tradition is made.

Feb 04, 2016 10:10 AM
Andrea Bedard

The meet-ups David? We've been doing those for a few years now but I do believe that we should make a yearly meet-up at G&M a tradition.

Feb 05, 2016 05:12 AM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

It's always nice to hear about these meet ups that bring us closer together!

Feb 04, 2016 01:19 PM
Andrea Bedard

I've made a few good friends because of AR meet-ups Georgie!

Feb 05, 2016 05:12 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

I adore AR meet ups and wish more would show up in my area.  So fun to meet our AR friends in person.

Feb 04, 2016 09:41 PM
Andrea Bedard

I couldn't agree more Paula! I dream of traveling around the country to meet AR friends all over.

Feb 05, 2016 05:13 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

The only meet-ups I've ever been to are the ones I've created myself when traveling.....I did have the pleasure of a meet-up with Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland that lasted 3 1/2 hours.....

Feb 05, 2016 02:38 AM
Roger D. Mucci

Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland is also one of my favorite people two  and those hours did fly by.....

Feb 05, 2016 12:24 PM
Andrea Bedard

I remember reading about that one Roger D. Mucci. Margaret is one of my favorite people!

Feb 05, 2016 05:13 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Roger D. Mucci That was one wonderful MeetUp before you had your knees done. So much fun and those hours flew by!!

Feb 05, 2016 08:47 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Andrea- you hit the target on this one. For those who truly love what they do... they have found the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. 

Feb 06, 2016 01:59 AM
Andrea Bedard

Thank you Kathy!

Feb 08, 2016 11:06 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Just like kathy said above, spot on!  I think it shows when we speak to others that we like what we do.  It's truly thrilling to help solve others problems, getting from Point A to Point B!

Feb 08, 2016 06:51 AM
Andrea Bedard

.. and the most challenging transactions turn into the most rewarding. That feeling at the closing table, after you mastered all those hurdles, is priceless. Thanks Jan!

Feb 08, 2016 11:06 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I was sorry to have missed that one.  Maybe you can join a small group of us, me and Martha Brown on the 24th this month at McCormick and Schmick's at Washington Harbor.

Feb 08, 2016 10:45 AM
Andrea Bedard

Oh, that sounds like fun Chris Ann Cleland! It's on my calendar and I'll try my best to be there. What time are you meeting? Martha Brown!

Feb 08, 2016 11:07 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Great times with friends and a sampling of tasty crab cakes, sounds like a delight!

 

Feb 20, 2016 05:03 AM
Andrea Bedard

It was Bob and time always flies by, we could sit there for hours .. if we didn't have business to attend to that is.

Feb 20, 2016 09:38 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Andrea - in short, what you are saying is if you are passionate about what you do it is not work.  The meetups are fun because it brings together people that love what they do and love sharing.

Feb 20, 2016 10:17 PM