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Is Everything in Balance and Do You Know When it's Not?

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

Is Everything in Balance

and Do You Know When it's Not?

 

Sometimes the idea for a post comes first.

 

Other times my musings flow from the viewing of an interesting photo.

 

Rock sculpture "All In Balance" on the beach in Cardiff

It's pretty easy to tell that things are in balance, from the bottom to the top, in this rock sculpture at the beach in Cardiff by the Sea. And we would clearly know when an inbalance has occurred - it's pretty obvious.

 

My musings upon seeing this photo made me think about the balance, or perhaps inbalance, in our personal and business lives.

 

We often talk about the importance, indeed the necessity, of balancing one's personal life with business. It's not always easy, and some of us no doubt are better practitioners than others, for a host of reasons. Having a strong foundation, as in this rock sculpture, is key.

 

It occurs to me that often we know when things are out of balance - we are spending too much time working, health is an issue, we feel particularly stressed or uneasy, our finances are not where we would like or need them to be, personal relationships are strained, spiritually we feel out of sync. It might not disrupt everything, yet one inbalance may, as it would in this sculpture, lead to the whole thing tumbling down, although the foundation might remain intact.

 

I don't have an answer as to how to avoid this from happening. But being aware of those things that are the most important components in our lives to maintain a balance, whatever they might be, can help monitor how things are going. Being honest with yourself about the status of finances, health, your real estate business, and other matters is important - playing ostrich won't make the problem go away!

 

Setting expectations, for ourselves and for others, can help keep the balance of personal and business from getting out of kilter. And putting things on your calendar, especially those personal things, makes it easy to keep commitments and not let other less important things interfere and offset the balance.

 

For me this balance is always work in progress.  But I find that thinking about it, having it as part of my business plan, talking about it with the people who are important to me, and using my calender judiciously all help me be more balanced.

 

I think this photo needs a prominent place on my wall to help remind me.

 

Any thoughts?

 

You may wonder where this photo came from. I had a moment of inspiration at the beach the other day in Cardiff and created it. Then took a bunch of photos, with no plan in mind...it was just fun to do. Who knew where it would lead?

 

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Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

I see them as the rocks of my life, the way I choose to live. The biggest one is my underlying home and family. The second one, the work life I have created. The other 3 are for health activities, spending time with friends, and travel.

Feb 03, 2016 07:13 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor® 

That's a healthy way of looking at it, and it sounds pretty balanced to me.

Hope all is well with you!

Jeff

Feb 04, 2016 01:17 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Jeff, I feel that your subconscious mind may have known where it would lead.  Balance is a daily act ... there are times I just need to shut out the world and spend the entire day reading. I also love to go to the beach for some real grounding. 

Feb 04, 2016 01:22 AM
Rosemarie Heindel
Harry Norman Realtors - Big Canoe, GA
Rosemarie Heindel

Great idea and great picture for this post. I think we could all use a picture like this to hang on our walls to remind us of the importance of balance!

Feb 04, 2016 01:49 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Kathleen Buckley 

I think you may be right. Taking a few minutes for photos on the beach was part of balancing things, too. As you say it's good for grounding - whenever we are there we always comment that we don't do this often enough

Jeff

Feb 04, 2016 01:52 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks for the nice compliment Rosemarie Heindel 

I hope things are well balanced for you!

Jeff

Feb 04, 2016 01:53 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Your words "a work in progress" stuck home most with me. I'm a continuous work in progress!

Feb 04, 2016 04:36 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Sharon Tara 

But the good thing is it IS work in progress rather than ignoring or pretending everything is balanced when it's not. Usually the inbalance is minor, TG

Jeff

Feb 04, 2016 04:40 AM
David Jones
BuyersAsk.com - Aliso Viejo, CA
BuyersAsk.com

Jeff, you may be more in balance than you think. First, anyone who is  walking at the beach, is on a good path; then if they let a small stack of rocks catch their attention and motivate them to take a photo; followed by time to reflect on their own life and the balance of it - probably has life in good perspective.  Dave

Feb 04, 2016 08:51 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

David Jones 

Well, it certainly felt that way to me. And the beach was calling to me when I drove by!

Jeff

Feb 04, 2016 12:53 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Hi Jeff.  Something that is difficult for me to determine.  I tend to be out of balance a lot of the time.

Feb 07, 2016 07:41 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Gabe

I suspect that's true for many, but hopefully the inbalance is manageable!

Jeff

Feb 07, 2016 08:00 PM