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Is Bullying Covered by the Realtors’ Code of Ethics?

Reblogger Winston Heverly
Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Access Realty 433494

Olga Simoncelli, consistently has so many great posts and most importantly is terrific about sharing it to us Rainers and beyond. This article is such an exciting new way of presenting information I'm anxious to learn from it! So many times I just write the data and really don't think that it gets the impact that it should. Thanks again for sharing.

Original content by Olga Simoncelli CT, NY, FL

Is Bullying Covered by the Realtors’ Code of Ethics?

 

 

The Good Realtor

 

During a recent Real Estate Continuing Education class on the subject of the Realtors’ Code of Ethics, the following situation came to light: a newer agent from an independent firm called the local association executive, to complain about the behavior of another agent.

 

Apparently, the agent in question was trying to present an offer from her buyer client to the listing agent, who happened to be a “high producer”. The latter reportedly proceeded to abuse the buyer agent profusely, emphasizing strongly that she had sold millions upon millions in real estate, which meant she knew what she was doing and the deal was to be done her way. The buyer agent was told she did not have the same experience, did not know what she was doing and if she didn’t like the way things were to be done, she could take her buyer elsewhere.

 

The belittled agent called the association, in tears, looking for “justice”, to see if any complaint could be lodged against the abusive agent. Regrettably, DEMEANING another agent is not specifically in the Code. The unspoken answer was “we have to stand up for ourselves”, there is no “official” remedy or even reprimand to address the blatant bullying.

 

The Code is primarily intended for the protection of the consumers. Real estate licenses are generally issued by a Department of Consumer Protection or similar government agency. In a more transparent forum, such as Active Rain, for example, there is some “self-policing”, where the Ambassadors might chide or reprimand the writer of an occasional snarky or otherwise inappropriate comment. In a one-on-one humiliating situation, you are evidently on your own.

 

To be fair, in the Code there are some oblique references to expectations that real estate practitioners will act civilly toward each other: the Preamble to the Code of Ethics and Standards of Practice makes mention of “obligations to clients, customers, the public, and EACH OTHER”, further suggests eliminating practices “which might discredit or bring dishonor to the real estate profession” and recommends that we “refrain from making unsolicited comments about other practitioners”. Even those quotes, when viewed in context, pertain mostly to how we behave vis a vis the “outside” world. At best, it is left to the practitioners’ moral judgment to behave appropriately.

 

So what is the remedy for bullying, or is this an age-old unresolved question? Somehow, this sort of unprofessional behavior needs to come to light and be stamped out. The Code of Ethics should not have to address it, it should be understood.

 

 

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Bob Betel
Allstar Home Mortgage, Inc. - Sweetwater, TN
President, Allstar Home Mortgage, Inc

In this case, the buying agent needs to stand up for themselves. Any offer made on a home, must be presented to the buyer, so write the offer. Have the buyer agent, ignore what the selling agent is saying, and just do you job the right way

Feb 12, 2016 09:58 PM
Bill Roberts
Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate - Oceanside, CA
"Baby Boomer" Retirement Planner

Winston Heverly Another good choice for a re-blog.

Bill Roberts

Feb 12, 2016 10:37 PM
Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

Winston, thank you for rev logging and for the kind words. It's good to get the word out!

Feb 12, 2016 10:42 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Great choice for a reblog, Winston, as I missed the original post by Olga Simoncelli . I suppose there will always be bullies in life. Coming out of decades in the corporate world, I can fight with the best of them and don't believe in taking prisoners after I win the battle and the war. So this bullying would never have worked on me. But I know not everyone is quite the tough cookie I am. Bullies back down when you stand up to them is my experience. 

Feb 13, 2016 12:35 AM
Donald Hester
NCW Home Inspections, LLC - Wenatchee, WA
NCW Home Inspections, LLC

Winston Heverly Great reblog, unfortunately, this type of mentality and treatment of others is not isolated. Some are born teachers and some need a lesson or two! 

Feb 13, 2016 11:02 PM