One "Rung" At a Time

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Services for Real Estate Pros with CMG Financial and Expansion Marketing Services FA100050874

One "Rung" At a Time

 

Some days are tough, they get us down.
Sometimes a challenge arises that seems unsurmountable.
And we get emotional. And we lose touch with our balance. 

Guess what ... that is AOK! 

What defines us in life is not THE challenges we face, but HOW we face them. 

So you find yourself in a situation that makes you want to throw your hands up in the air or you feeling like having a good cry (it's OK) ... But what next?

Well, my beautiful AR friends, you take it ONE RUNG AT A TIME.

 

Below you will find a chart that outlines the "vibrational frequency"
(or we can simply say the overall sensations) of your FEELINGS.

The "highest" feelings (#1) are Joy/Knowledge/Empowerment/Freedom/Love/Apprecation. 

 

The "lowest" feelings (#22) are
Fear/Grief/Depression/Powerlessness/Victim

EMOTIONAL GUIDANCE SCALE

 

How to USE This Chart:

Let's say you are feeling Fear...
accept that and know that you are where you are.

Now committ to making a change, 
but know that you do NOT have to immediately jump to Joy ...

you simply have to take it ONE RUNG AT A TIME.


Consider moving through the Fear (#22) into Worry (#14), or Doubt (#13).
Once you have arrived here, consider (hopefully quickly) moving through the Worry and Doubt to the UPWARD SPIRAL where the "high feelings" live! 

Now you have ARRIVED at Contentment (#7)!!!

Settle into this Contentment and feel at home here. 

By using your "hapiness tools"
(going outside, calling a friend, reading a good book, etc) ,
move into hopefulness (#6), to optimisim (#5), to positive beliefs (#4),
to enthusiasm (#3), to passion (#2), to JOY (#1)!!!! 

 

JOY! KNOWLEDGE! EMPOWERMENT! FREEDOM! LOVE! APPRECIATION!

 

You can use this chart, and use this practice, each and every day
(or whenever you need it) to help RAISE your Feelings
ONE RUNG AT A TIME!

 

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Rainmaker
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
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Erin, I do a lot of energy work ... I am also into tapping the meridians ... It works.  We just need to take some time out and do it.  We are in control of what we choose to feel.

Mar 10, 2016 12:55 AM #1
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Michael Jacobs
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Good morning, Erin --- this is so true:

What defines us in life is not THE challenges we face, but HOW we face them

Mar 10, 2016 01:08 AM #2
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Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
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A little bit like eating the elephant one bite at a time. It can be overwhelming to try to swallow the thing whole...break it down and breathe. 

Mar 10, 2016 01:23 AM #3
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Chris Ann Cleland
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Love this!  Thank you so much for sharing with us.  Despite the challenges life throws at me, I try to be on that upward spiral.

Mar 10, 2016 01:42 AM #4
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Absolutely nothing wrong with feeling the less positive emotions, Erin Bates ... but you can't let them swallow you and you can't wallow in them longterm.  I like the visuals you provide here ... and the message too!

Gene 

Mar 10, 2016 02:09 AM #5
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Erin one rung at a time is a good idea! I rarely have an off day - but on occasion I many have off moments or thoughts. My practice is to go - general - think of what makes me happy and grateful and les viola - back in alignment again!

Mar 10, 2016 02:32 AM #6
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Very positive Erin, I like your words.

Mar 10, 2016 03:04 AM #7
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Belinda Spillman
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I like the idea of one rung at a time.  What happens if someone triees to knock you off the ladder......   Then I guess I would spiral down to number 17!

Mar 10, 2016 05:07 AM #8
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Dick Greenberg
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Hi Erin - Nice! Just staying positive will provide a lot of bouyancy to float upward.

Mar 10, 2016 05:22 AM #9
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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The "Guidance Scale" graphic is a powerful tool, Erin!  I like the idea of one rung at a time!

Mar 10, 2016 07:44 AM #10
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Interesting tool Erin, I will start practicing a few of these techniques, I am sure they will help.

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I really enjoyed your post with this helpful information. Also glad I came across it in the archives.

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