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Oh No! Not Another "Customer Service" Post ... Yep! (Thanks to Joel Spolsky)

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Real Estate Agent with The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty

Real Estate is a PEOPLE business and Customer Service is KEY to not only my success as a Realtor®, but more importantly, KEY to my buyers and sellers having an excellent experience when buying and selling a home with me. I am certain that every one of you agree, right?

I really was trying to "work" today - no blogging until I completed my To-Do's for the day. Well, so much for that... I glanced at my Google Homepage and caught a post by one of my favorite non-RE bloggers - Seth Godin. So, of course, all my morning plans go out the window and I follow his link to another post:

Seven Steps to Remarkable Customer Service  by Joel Spolsky of Fog Creek Software

Joel brings up 7 Spectacular Ideas (Steps) that anyone in the Customer Service Business needs to read and embrace. Go ahead... Click on the link, read it and then come back here. I'm patient; I will wait...

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Ok. You back? Wasn't that a great post? I sure thought so. Of course, not all of it can apply directly to Real Estate, but there were a few that really stood out that I would like to touch on three of them:

1. Make customers into fans. Joel tells about a wonderful experience he has with Land's End, where they really go the extra mile to provide remarkable customer service. Why was it remarkable? Well, their customer service caused him to remark about it.

"When customers have a problem and you fix it, they're actually going to be even more satisfied than if they never had a problem in the first place." This comes from the fact that we are conditioned to expect crappy customer service, so "crappy" has become "average." If we, as Customer Service Providers are given the opportunity to make "good" of a situation, then we now have the potential of having a "fanatically devoted customer, one who will prattle on and on about what a great job you did."

We, as real estate professionals, are given the opportunity to make "good" of a situation EVERY DAY. Out of all Customer Service Providers, we have one of the worst reputations out there. This is a gold mine of opportunity to exceed your customers' expectations, by being friendly, knowledgeable and truly caring and by doing what really needs to be done to serve our clients. I have a big issue with the reputation of real estate agents. Unfortunately, I believe that our industry earned that negative reputation, so now it is our DUTY to reverse it by really providing excellent customer service and making our customers into fans.

2. Take the Blame. Yes. Do it. Stop blaming the other agent. Stop blaming the loan officer. Stop blaming the market. Stop blaming the neighbors. Stop blaming your parents. Stop blaming your kids. Stop blaming traffic. JUST STOP IT, ALREADY!

Of course you are not perfect. No one is and no one expects that anyone else is. So, pleeeeease, apologize and take the blame - even if it is only a little bit your fault. If the closing does not go as hoped for, I'm sure that there was something that you could have done or not done to make it go a bit easier? If the house does not sell, maybe there was some market research, seller counseling, marketing efforts... that you could have done a wee bit more of? If you are late, I bet you could have left early enough accommodate any unexpected traffic mishaps? I'm not saying that you should make everything ALL your fault, but own up to anything that you could have done better. People respect that, WAY more than finger pointing. It shows honesty and integrity - 2 things that are absolutely crucial in our business.

3. Practice Puppetry. People will get mad at you for whatever reason. It WILL happen, whether you "did anything wrong" or not. So, please repeat after me:

I will not take angry people personally. I will not get defensive.
I will not take angry people personally. I will not get defensive.
I will not take angry people personally. I will not get defensive.

Joel says it best: "You can never win these arguments, and if you take them personally, it's going to be a million times worse... There is only one way to survive angry customers emotionally: you have to realize that they're not angry at you; they're angry at your business, and you just happen to be a convenient representative of that business."

You are now the puppeteer of the puppet that they are mad at. They have given you that title. So run with it! You are in control of what that puppet has to do to make that customer happy. You are a rational 3rd party to this situation. Maybe say, "I'm sorry. It's my fault." Then all you have to do is, "Figure out what to make the puppet do that will make them happy and stop taking it so dang personally." Even if it means that you need to refer a seller to a different agent. We have had rare situations where there is an unavoidable personality or business practice conflict that no apologies could mend. I cannot be all things to all people, and I am ok with that. In those cases, we have sat down with our clients and said, "We obviously have a situation where neither one of us are getting the results that we were hoping for. You deserve the kind of service that you are looking for, and it appears as though we are not meeting those needs. I would love to refer you to an agent that we know and trust that may fit your needs a bit better. Would you like their name and number?" The tension leaves the room and this always turns the situation into a pleasant one. We have now gained the respect of a client that wasn't happy before. We did not take their disgruntled-ness personally and did not get defensive. Now everyone is happy.

Customer Service goes hand-in-hand with all the experience and education that marks us a PROFESIONALS. We need to embrace it and make it a part of all we do.

Thank you Joel for all of your wonderful insight.

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       Posted By: Derek and Mariana Wagner - Springs Top Agents

Keller Williams Premier
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Derek and Mariana Wagner
The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
The Artisan Group - Colorado Springs REALTORS®

Alex- Life experience is more valuable than classroom instruction for many, many things. You are right.

Jennifer - Thank you!

Feb 28, 2007 08:33 AM
Irina Netchaev
Pasadena Views Real Estate Team, Inc. - Pasadena, CA
Pasadena CA Real Estate

Congratulations on the 2nd place!!!

Irina

Feb 28, 2007 10:41 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

I left my thoughts on Mark's post. I didn't see this one go up.

Those glasses they gave me don't work that great on my laptop. Go figure...

Still love this post...

Banana. Cool. SVW...

TLW...ROAR!

Feb 28, 2007 10:54 AM
Derek and Mariana Wagner
The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
The Artisan Group - Colorado Springs REALTORS®
(Cherry - AGAIN...5 times today!) Thanks TLW!
Feb 28, 2007 10:56 AM
Edite Liepina-Lawrence
ERA Tradewind Real Estate - Longmont, CO
What TLW stands for?? Just curious :)
Feb 28, 2007 11:27 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Edite...

TLW = The Lovely Wife = Broker Bryant's Wife = Billie Tutas = Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.

Cantaloupe. Okay. I can live with it I think :)

ROAR!

Feb 28, 2007 11:31 AM
Lysa Napolitano
Daytona Beach, FL
Congratulations Mariana! Great topic! All points are great points, but like alot before me, I agree #2 is a good one too. When we are ready to own up to a mistake (be it ours or someone else's) and fix it, people think better of us. We are not perfect, we are not God's. We're only human..  
Feb 28, 2007 12:31 PM
Dena Stevens
Rocky Mountain Realty - Canon City, CO
Putting The Real Into Realtor Since 2004
I worked in department stores for yyyyyeeeeeaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrssssss. I learned if I took the blame for everything it left people dumbfounded. Try telling people it was your fault they got a flat today. They don't know what to say, and sometimes they laugh.
Feb 28, 2007 01:04 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

This is my favorite: ''you have to realize that they're not angry at you; they're angry at your business, and you just happen to be a convenient representative of that business." 

And I really liked your link. Thanks for the good read! Conratulations on a well deserved gold star!!

Feb 28, 2007 01:05 PM
Derek and Mariana Wagner
The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
The Artisan Group - Colorado Springs REALTORS®

Lysa- Thanks! ... and anyone who would think that we were MORE than hims, well, that is a whole dofferent post...

Dena- Laughter is a great way to dissipate tension. :oD

Margaret- You know, I use that line of reasoning in other areas of my life as well. It works!

(Cherry - again! #6 today!)

Feb 28, 2007 01:39 PM
Tom Giansante
The Title Company of Jersey - Wildwood, NJ

I totally agree about taking the blame.  It really has the ability to turn the tables in your favor....especially if you weren't really at fault!

Nice job!

 

Feb 28, 2007 01:49 PM
Aziz Abdur-Raoof
RE/MAX Rewards - Columbia, MD
Howard Co. Real Estate Scoop
Wow --very well done.  Seth G --a must read.
Congrats!
Feb 28, 2007 02:36 PM
Derek and Mariana Wagner
The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
The Artisan Group - Colorado Springs REALTORS®

Tom- If you have the ability to turn the tables productively, you have the ability to make great of any situation.

Aziz- One day I was at Barnes and Noble and impulse grabbed me and I bought Small is the New Big by Seth Godin. I read it - not really understanding what a blog was, but I loved the book. THEN, I found AR and my 1st post was a review on this book - and I got a gold star... I was hooked ever since - both to Seth and AR!

Feb 28, 2007 02:47 PM
Dan Allred
Allred Realty - Thousand Oaks, CA
DRE#01761967

Marianna,

There is one simple thing I have always said in business there is no such thing as problems..just opportunities to show your client why you are the best at what you do!

Feb 28, 2007 04:03 PM
Kaushik Sirkar
Call Realty, Inc. - Chandler, AZ
I especially like the part about taking the blame.  Even if its 99% the other (insert)'s fault, you, as their agent have to share some of the blame!!!
Feb 28, 2007 05:13 PM
Laurie Manny
Long Beach CA Real Estate - Long Beach, CA

Congratulations on a well earned win.  This really was a wonderful post.gold star

laurie

Feb 28, 2007 07:25 PM
Derek and Mariana Wagner
The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
The Artisan Group - Colorado Springs REALTORS®

Thank you!

In the world of 20/20 Hindsight, we all can see ways of improvement and ways to do things better. Acknowledging this to our clients/ customers is not "weak" - but a sign of real confidence and strength of character.

Mar 01, 2007 12:25 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area
Congratulations Mariana...2nd place way cool! Very nice past...exceptional service is the way to go.
Mar 01, 2007 12:57 PM
Derek and Mariana Wagner
The Artisan Group- Keller Williams Premier Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
The Artisan Group - Colorado Springs REALTORS®
Thank you Monika!
Mar 01, 2007 02:59 PM
Pete & Rebecca Tocco
Weichert Realtors Excel - Macomb Township, MI

Nice post ,looks like you hit it right on the head, you have to keep the customers happy  ,  referrals , referrals, referrals

Mar 07, 2007 04:25 PM