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I had posted a blog the other evening and the next day found the following comments were left. What should I do about this? This isn't the first time that something like this has happened on my blogs. Can someone please help me? 2 Comments on Summer Friends how about i stop in your bed room and see you sometime when i go home! 04/25/2008 12:36 AM by Delete Report as Spam -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- i miss you! i hate south georgia and cant wait to get home and see you! 04/25/2008 12:37 AM by Delete Report as Spam
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Mary Strang
Viroqua, WI

Most likely it is spam you should report it to AR

Apr 27, 2008 03:39 AM
Sharon Hampton
Re/Max Around The Mountains - Blue Ridge, GA

I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU TO ALL WHO RESPONDED WITH HELPFUL ADVICE. I THINK I CAN GO BACK TO WHERE I RECIEVE MY MAIL AND GET THEIR IP ADDRESS AND HAVE THEM BLOCKED.

Apr 27, 2008 10:09 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Sharon, if you have a valid concern, you should make your posts "members only".   Go to visibility right under your blog entry box and check "members only"; that way you will not receive any such weird messages.

Problem solved.  When can we see a picture of you? 

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Apr 28, 2008 10:31 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate
If some weirdo has joined AR under some false pretext, just delete his/her messages every time he makes a comment.  If you shut him up often enough, he'll get the message.  People only torment us if we let them. 
Apr 28, 2008 10:34 AM
Rob Muller
ReMax Town & Country - Canton, GA
Cherokee County Real Estate
Maybe we let her deal with the cyber stalker weirdo before we ask her for pictures?? Just a thought
Apr 28, 2008 02:09 PM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Rob, you might be right.  My attitude has always been "in your face"; it's kept me out of a lot of trouble...  I once attacked my attacker and he fled.  I learnt that sometimes the best way to deal with it is in "in your face".  Perhaps by posting a picture and showing that she is NOT intimidated, she stands up to him and forces him DOWN & OUT!  Just a thought...

Apr 28, 2008 03:40 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info
That's creepy - I hope they can find the perp for you.
Apr 28, 2008 03:57 PM
Sharon Hampton
Re/Max Around The Mountains - Blue Ridge, GA

Thanks guys, I have been trying to upload my picture and everytime, I attempt my computer says its not connected! any suggestions on help with that? I am a person who does not hide and will take on any challange. Lets be real, I am a middle age soccer mom. I have a teenage daughter and a 6 year old son and yes I am marriedfor the past 20 years. I don't live in any drama other than myteenage daughters!

Apr 29, 2008 12:24 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate
Sorry that you have encountered some jerk. They will always be out there. Report it to AR and let them try to deal with it. I hope the situation gets resolved for you soon.
Apr 29, 2008 02:29 AM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate
Hi Sharon:  I see that you are pretty new here on Active Rain, and also that no one has welcomed you.  So... Sharon... Welcome To Active Rain.  I am sure you will really find this is a great place to learn much and meet some really great people.  Here is a link that I share with folks who are new to Active Rain.  Blog - NEW MEMBERS - Start Here  I hope you find some helpful links and posts.  Once again... Welcome !
Apr 29, 2008 05:06 PM
Roland Woodworth
Blue Cord Realty - Clarksville, TN
Benchmark Realty
Oh my Sharon: I would hope it is not a Active Rain member. I'm sure it is not. Just as Keishia said... Prob just passers by from the general public. Sorry this happened to you.
Apr 29, 2008 05:54 PM
Denise Allen
Resh Realty Group - Chesapeake, VA
Realtor@ Chesapeake, Hampton Roads
Yes welcome to AR and to all the craziness the web brings to our lives.  The stuff I get in my inbox makes me blush just by it being there.
Apr 30, 2008 09:59 AM
Makea Turner
Simply Vegas - Las Vegas, NV
Wow I have never heard of anything like that before I would not go as far as reporting them right away I would let it ride awhile and see if it happens again then I would take action I m not really sure who to report too
Apr 30, 2008 11:47 AM
Sharon Hampton
Re/Max Around The Mountains - Blue Ridge, GA

Makea-I did report this to ar and it wasn't spam. I have a friend that is a computer geek and he is tracking it back with ip address. Boy, I have learned alot about a computer and what to look for when you get your email.

 

I would like to Thank Everyone for there commets and support. This is now getting the proper attention it needs.

Apr 30, 2008 12:35 PM
Elizabeth Cooper-Golden
Huntsville Alabama Real Estate, (@ Homes Realty Group) - Huntsville, AL
Huntsville AL MLS
Sharon, I"m glad you got your answer. How creepy is that? I hope they stop now. Best of luck!
Apr 30, 2008 12:57 PM
Bob Cumiskey
A1 Connection Realty, Inc. - Sun City Center, FL
US Army Retired, Your Sun City Center, Florida ~ Realtor
Sharon, Sorry to hear that something like this happens even here in the Rain.  Guess you got enough answers, so I'll just wish you good luck.  Don't let them intimidate you or scare you away.
Apr 30, 2008 01:29 PM
Sharon Hampton
Re/Max Around The Mountains - Blue Ridge, GA
Karen- Thank you for the new members blog page. I enjoyed reading Brad's blog. I am looking around and trying to find new tools on ar and I enjoy finding new tips.
May 01, 2008 03:17 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I'm sorry that this happened to you.  I would report it to Active Rain.  That's really about all you can do. 

May 01, 2008 03:28 PM
Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate

That's crazy....report it to AR Rich Jacobson or Bob Stewart or Nicole Ray...send the link and the email address or IP...they will report it. On a lighter note...I never received anything like that. More like how ugly I am.:)
May 07, 2008 01:04 AM
Sharon Hampton
Re/Max Around The Mountains - Blue Ridge, GA

Cynthia- Thank you for your concern.

Neal- Maybe next time they will hit your page!!! lol

Seriously I did report  this incident. It wasn't a member of active rain. Thanks to all.

May 08, 2008 11:02 AM