Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

Every once in a while, I will run across an agent who thinks bullying the other agent and insulting the property is the way to negotiate a sale.  I just don't understand we cannot all remain professional and proceed accordingly;  I also ask the offending agent why, if the property is so horrid, why his or her clients are sooo interested.  ;-) 

Apr 14, 2016 03:29 AM
Mary Stewart
HomeTrust Real Estate, LLC, Homes for Everyone - Wilsonville, OR
Wilsonville and Surrounding Portland Metro Areas

I agree.  It seems the buyers really wanted the property but the agent they chose was not professional with me at all and acted as though she was the smartest person in the room.  I shuddered at the thought of working with her.  Sad for her.

Apr 14, 2016 05:42 AM
Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, CRB, Phoenix Broker
HomeSmart Real Estate BR030809000 - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Mary - in one word. Ridiculous. What smart agent thinks that bullying the listing agent is the right path to take? Faulty thinking and reasoning by a long shot. I'm with Susan - if the property is that bad why on earth are they pursuing it. And we all know until this type of agent is ready to learn a better way of doing business nothing will change. Next.

Apr 14, 2016 07:05 AM
Mary Stewart

Hi Anna, You so correct.  The agent looks young, that is not an excuse, and was very haughty the way she worded her emails and phone calls.  After the first one and on the counters I made sure every thing was detailed like if a price change I put the line and page on which their proposal appeared, like page 1 of 10, line XXX section X.  I did this with everything.  Also in each email in which I replied I was very care to word careful so she would have no comeback.  When I let her know we would not be answering the counter and told her that the last counter was essentially the same as the last counter they gave to us,  the numbers were manulipated but the net was just several hundred  dollars different.  She emailed me back and said my math was wrong, but no big deal.  I emailed her back and showed her the difference $458 from one counter to the other.  I could not help myself and I can say that I will not probably show any of her listings if she has any, unless my buyer is set on it.  I do not want to experience her again and do not want any clients to either.  Unless of course the listing is really great.  We were in the $500,000 price range, one would think.


 


Thanks again Anna.

Apr 15, 2016 03:10 AM
JM Padron, CCIM, CCP
THE JMTEAM NETWORK - Tampa, FL
CCIM, CCP, International Commercial Broker

Great blog, thanks for sharing, we have to learn to breath and keep our mouth shut 

Apr 14, 2016 10:50 PM
Mary Stewart

You are so correct!  I always try to measure my words before I let them come out of my mouth..  Once they are out,there is no going back regardless of how good you are.

Apr 15, 2016 02:59 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Mary. This is so good and absolutely true. Your title is wonderful and the post even better.

Apr 15, 2016 12:23 AM
Mary Stewart

Thank you Sheila.  You are appreciated and thank you for taking the time to read it.

Apr 15, 2016 02:59 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

Your title line says it all, Mary!  I can't imagine reducing a buyer's chances more in making an offer, than offending the listing agent!

Apr 25, 2016 01:34 PM
Mary Stewart
HomeTrust Real Estate, LLC, Homes for Everyone - Wilsonville, OR
Wilsonville and Surrounding Portland Metro Areas

Thanks Myrl,

I am with you.  Regardless of how the other agent is acting or what they say, I try always to not offend.  One never knows when they will run across them again.  Common sense to me.

Apr 26, 2016 02:03 AM