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Only Get Upset When It Can Help

Reblogger Praful Thakkar
Real Estate Agent with LAER Realty Partners

What should you do when you cannot control the situation?

Keep Calm!

No matter what the situation is.

Great advice in this re-blog from Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland .

Original content by Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 311291

 

 

Only Get Upset When It Can Help

 

When a situation  is out of our  control, getting upset is a total waste and...

I don't do upset.

 

 

 

 

Upset faces

 

 

Here's an example:

 

 A closing has to be delayed. The buyer and seller have arranged time off from work. It's the end of the month. Everyone is inconvenienced... from the lender to the title company to the agents to the clients and to all the others who are working on a transaction. That includes movers, family members, baby sitters, employers and  bosses who schedules are disrupted.

 

When it is out of our control, such as the person who is responsible for a grant approval is just not available, there is nothing to do. 

Sorry but closing cannot  and will not happen at the planned time.

 

We as agents can not make it close!

No matter how angry, sarcastic and kindness impaired an agent becomes...the closing is still not going to happen!

 

What do you do when this happens?

Keep your buyers and sellers fully informed. Do not promise a settlement date until you have a final 'clear to close'.

 

 Yes, you can set a time and date but it is not written in stone.

There are last minute delays with funding, that one extra piece of paper that is needed, an employee verification, a missing certificate or a last minute change in almost anything.

Delays do happen!

 

Handle it with kindness, handle it with full explanation and handle as soon as you know there might be a problem. And then

 

Only Get Upset When It Can Help

 

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Praful. Margaret offers some sage advice and it takes constant practice. Enjoy your day!

May 05, 2016 10:35 PM
Rick Frissell
HomeXpress Realty - Valrico, FL
aka "The Red Baron of Real Estate"

Containing our own emotions will make a big difference on how the clients respond.  It took me a while to fiugre that out.  I mistakingly would think I was the white knight to protect my clients from disappointment.  When a cloisng is out of contraol, time is better spent containing damage control with the cient and let the professionals get the cloisng to the table.

May 06, 2016 12:24 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

It is not often that getting upset does any good at all

May 06, 2016 12:20 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Thanks for stopping by at this post and your comments.

May 13, 2016 02:54 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Isnt it so true - we should control what we can do - not others.

May 13, 2016 02:55 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

You are on dot - Wayne. This is a grear advice from Margaret.

May 13, 2016 02:55 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Makes sense to keep check on our emotions - to win the game.

May 13, 2016 02:55 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Rick - you got it - it's a quality of a good realtor on how  to 'react'.

May 13, 2016 02:56 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

We all have been there and done that.

And sooner we realize it's better, Rick.

May 13, 2016 02:57 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

The ultimate goal for all of us is - go to closing table. So true, Rick.

May 13, 2016 02:57 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Thanks for stopping by at this post and your comments.

Really appreciate it.

May 13, 2016 02:59 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

William Feela - you are right - we all want to go to closing table. Simple.

May 13, 2016 03:04 PM