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The Open House Visitor Who Stayed Too Long

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Industry Observer CalDRE #01165532

The Open House Visitor Who Stayed Too Long



Open House VisitorsI have been reading a lot about safety in our business.

 

This is not one of those stories.

 

Recently, I was helping an agent in my office with an open house at her new listing.   It was the first day available for showing and as is typical in our low-inventory times, activity was predicted to be well-attended.  She didn’t feel comfortable being there alone for the two hour event and I agreed to help.  I like open houses, especially when they are new-to-the-market -- lots of opportunities to meet and hear first hand impressions of the property.  I’ve often described open houses as a cocktail party(without the libations, of course) where you make sure people are greeted and made to feel welcome.   

 

Visitors were waiting in advance of the start time and traffic was steady.  This is a good thing.

 

Later, a gentleman walked in.

His eyes showed he had intent.

Do you know what I mean?

After a while in business, you can tell...you can sense it..

Without much of a conversation, I averted his glance and directed him to the listing agent.  

Yes, he was not a typical open house visitor.

He was a vendor.

 

Believe me, I have no issue with an escrow officer, a lender, a title rep, an inspector, a stager or anyone else coming to an open house event and quickly introducing his or her business to me.     

 

In fact, I give them a lot of credit for taking time out of their day to seek out business. Especially on a Sunday afternoon.

 

This was not one of those visits.

 

He lingered when there was a rare lull in the people flowing through the house.   

 

Thankfully after about ten minutes(it seemed much longer) visitors once again entered the home.   He eventually got the clue -- it was time to wrap up. But it was a slow exit even as he was being ignored. Even after a goodbye and a handshake occurred.

 

My message to vendors dropping  by --- be quick...it’s okay to send a follow-up email but don’t overstay your welcome.  

 

You really do want to be invited back to the next party, right?

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Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

CalBRE # 01165532

P. O. Box 587

Pasadena, CA 91102

Call/Text:  818.516.4393

mtj916@gmail.com

 

 

Comments(106)

Shanna Day Team Leader AZ & UT - Call 480-415-7616
Keller Williams Realty EV (AZ) & Keller Williams SLC (UT) - Mesa, AZ
Top 0.33 of 1% of 79,000 AZ Realtors

I can think of three instances where someone stayed and made me feel uncomfortable... 1)  A guy who I discounted as not being able to afford my home (who bought it!)  2)  A mortgage lender who I've become really good friends with and use all the time & 3) a group of 5 Jehovah's Witnesses who were way to touchy feely.  It's all I could do to get away!   

May 03, 2016 06:15 AM
Nancy Chenevey
The Chenevey Group - Ann Arbor, MI
"Showing You the Way Home"

Agreed, straight to the point and then we can all get back to business.

May 03, 2016 07:19 AM
John Dotson
Preferred Properties of Highlands, Inc. - Highlands, NC - Highlands, NC
The experience to get you to the other side!

I think I can safely say that I have never had a vendor of any sort showing up at an open house.  That would be strange in our market.

May 03, 2016 07:27 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Thanks very much for stopping by and your comments.  I appreciate it.  

May 03, 2016 08:11 AM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

I have had Lenders and Title Agents stop in to my Open Houses. They were great about quickly identifying themselves and did not intrude into time for visitors.

It was good to personally meet some vendors that I was not previously acquainted with.

May 03, 2016 12:43 PM
Michelle Grunberg
eXp Realty - Ijamsville, MD
When Honesty, Integrity and Loyalty Matters!

Wow I thought I was the only one who gets these uninvited guests. 

I had a lender once come to my open house all prepared with their info on the listing. 

May 03, 2016 01:41 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

That new agent is lucky you were there! Who knows what could have happened without you. Thanks for looking out for new agents and being so keen on open house visitors.

May 03, 2016 04:07 PM
Laura Allen, Lake Tahoe - Truckee Real Estate for Sale TahoeLauraRealEstate.com
Coldwell Banker Realty, Tahoe City, CA (530) 414-1260 - Tahoe City, CA
Tahoe Real Estate Agent Helping Buyers and Sellers

Michael Jacobs - I missed this post yesterday, but glad I saw it today.  Timing is everything and knowing when to go is just as important as knowing when to drop by!

May 03, 2016 04:18 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Hi Michael.  What irritates me about vendors at open houses is when they try to drum up business with other customers.  I then will ask them to leave.

May 03, 2016 09:25 PM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

If I had a vendor at an open house I did not notice them. Great post!

May 03, 2016 09:39 PM
Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

Michael - I like the way you developed a sixth sense to "sniff out" the intruders.

May 04, 2016 09:45 AM
Theresa Akin
CORPUS CHRISTI REALTY GROUP - Corpus Christi, TX

I hosted an open house and invited a lender for as long as they wanted to stay. It was to be a 2-5 but lasted til 6:30. We had potential new buyers and they helped immensely. They acquired clients and check for pre-approval. We actually wrote up an offer with a pre-approval. But of course this venfor was invited. We also put possible pre-approval at open house.  The buyer lived down the road and was able to email their information to the liendor. We sold that house that day; right down to getting the contract signed and executed. best open house I ever had. But again they were invited and answered many questions for many people.

May 04, 2016 09:49 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Creepers, that's what I call them. They seem to lack the normal social skills to know when to exit - stage left. Argh. Congrats on the well read feature. Lots of action on this one, Michael. You hit a nerve. 

May 05, 2016 03:09 AM
Robert Havana
Park and Protect- Alberta Real Estate License Parking - Calgary, AB
Alberta Real Estate License Parking

oh my goodness, i sat an open house  last weekend from 2 to 4 pm and had one couple who stayed the entire 2 hours. 

May 05, 2016 04:27 PM
Robert Havana
Park and Protect- Alberta Real Estate License Parking - Calgary, AB
Alberta Real Estate License Parking

I suppose if they become clients it will not be so bad, but it was torture with them standing in the kitchen the entire time wanting to ask random questions.  I really should have hurried them out, but I kept getting the impression they were leaving, lol.  I really could have handled it better.

May 05, 2016 04:28 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I would have been uneasy and wonder what his agenda was. Was he trying to stake out new business? Whatever it was it wasn't his turf and he needed to move on quickly.

May 06, 2016 12:01 PM
Jeff Stevens
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New Mexico Properties - Las Cruces, NM
Jeff Stevens, Associate Broker/REALTOR

Interesting. Never had that happen but I can see where someone might do that. Personally, I think it is a bit tacky. Why not introduce yourself to the agents and set something up for the next open house? Thanks for sharing.

May 07, 2016 12:38 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Safety..first of all. We have a plan in our office if things get uncomfortable..

Better Safe than sorry..

May 09, 2016 12:08 PM
Joan Valverde
HomeSmart - Colorado Springs, CO
GRI,CDPE,CNE,MRP,SRES Colo Sprgs, Blk Forest, Monu

I agree, nice to stop by and introduce your self.... BUT Please do not keep talking to me and make me miss visitors to the Open House that may have questions, or possibly are looking to BUY!  How can your business serve me, if I have NO BUSINESS!  lol

May 09, 2016 03:10 PM
Daniel Dominguez
Realty Connect USA - Hauppauge, NY
I'm an RE agent serving Nassau & Suffolk County

Great topic and post

Apr 27, 2018 09:01 AM