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4 Ways to Work With Stubborn Clients

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Real Estate Technology with CityBlast

Typically, I love the social aspect of being a real estate agent. I have the pleasure of working with so many different people. However, and I’m sure you can relate, you do get the occasional tough cookie.

 

Some people can be very opinionated and stubborn -- and I completely understand. Buying and/or selling your home is a big decision. But at the same time, I know what I’m doing and I know how to get the best deal for my clients. You’ve just got to make them aware, you have their best interests in mind.

 

1. Be the Real Estate Authority

You are the real estate expert in this relationship and you know the ins and outs of the industry -- your client doesn’t. If you’re client is being stubborn out of unintentional ignorance, it’s your job to fill in the blind spots for them and educate them. Speak confidently and thoroughly explain your reasons for recommending option A rather than B. They might not know everything, but you can shed some light and allow them to see what you see.

 

2. Listen & Try to Understand

While you are the expert here, it’s still your client’s money and ultimately their house. Make sure to listen to what your client is saying and understand where they’re coming from.

 

If they’re not being clear as to why they disagree with your recommendations, ask questions. As much as it’s important for them to understand your position, you need to understand theirs to work with them effectively. Show them that you care about their concerns, and that you will work with their best interests in mind.

 

3. Meet Face-to-Face

Sure, email and texts are convenient. But when you both have conflicting opinions, email is not the greatest medium to persuade each other.

 

There is a lot of nuances in face-to-face conversation that email misses -- things like facial expression, tone, and body language -- and that might skew the meanings of your words. If you meet face-to-face, you can both explain your respective positions a lot quicker and without ambiguity.

 

4. Suggest Solutions to the Problems

Whereas you may be able to look past the surface of a fixer-upper to see value and potential, all your client sees is an outdated kitchen or a bad paint job. They can’t imagine themselves living in a place so unappealing.

 

Remember: paint is cheap, and new appliances are easy solutions. As an agent, you have seen a lot of properties and a lot of different homes. Use your expertise to see the solutions and quick-fixes that your client cannot.

 

Takeaway

Tough cookies and stubborn clients are simply people who are very concerned. As their agent, be their rock and reassure them that you will work to get the best deal for them, whatever the problem is.

 


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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is very good advice to share.

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Jun 10, 2016 06:31 AM
Joe Jackson
Keller Williams Capital Partners Realty - Columbus, OH
Clintonville and Central Ohio Real Estate Expert

Excellent tips - I find meeting face to face periodically if possible is a great way to ensure clear communication through the entire process.

Jun 10, 2016 06:58 AM
Jennifer Mackay
Counts Real Estate Group, Inc. - Panama City, FL
Your Bay County Florida Realtor 850.774.6582

The face to face meeting is a must have to communicate clearly - thanks for sharing

Jun 10, 2016 09:48 PM
Mike & Cindy Jones
Florida Homes Realty & Mortgage - Jacksonville, FL
Real Estate - (904) 874-0422 - Jacksonville, Fl

Great post.... and true. Face to face is always best when possible.

Jun 10, 2016 10:09 PM
Macy Babb ... North Georgia Realtor
Re/Max Around Atlanta Realtor - 404-234-6166 - Cartersville, GA
Realtor, SFR, HUD/REO Certified

Great Tips... and yes face to face can help you both get on the same page faster.

Jun 10, 2016 10:17 PM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

There is a difference between stubborn vs biased.  I work with a brother and sister.  Brother is very negative and over cautious. He called me asking me to get his son a condo. When I mentioned the going price he says it is a lot more than I told him a few years ago.  I said you stated the same when the home prices tanked to 30% of today's price.  He will never get real.

His sister is a high risk taker she can take maximum risk buying notes as an investor.  

Both persons are very different but I can work with them.  Brother I will introduce him to my grandson by then he will kick himself.

Most people use you for information and they do crazy RE things and forget your contribution. 

Jun 10, 2016 11:40 PM
Harry F. D'Elia III
WEDO Real Estate and Beyond, LLC - Phoenix, AZ
Investor , Mentor, GRI, Radio, CIPS, REOs, ABR

Real estate is a people business. I recommend a book called Personality Plus written by Florence Littauer. This is a wealth of information on how to deal with the 4 different personality traits. Good luck

Jun 10, 2016 11:50 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Shaun Nilsson as much as we want to work with them, the golden rule is - if it becomes too much - set them free in open market!

Jun 11, 2016 12:58 AM
Michael Scruggs
UTR Texas-Realtors - Houston, TX
ABR, CNE, TAHS

A great post Shaun!  You stated some wonderful reminders for us when working with any client.  Thank you!

Jun 11, 2016 12:59 AM
Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

Shaun, I agree with your take-away: most bravado usually comes from fear of making a bad mistake when the stakes are high.

Jun 11, 2016 02:55 AM
James (Jim) Lawson, DBA
DomainRealty.com LLC - Bonita Springs, FL
Broker Associate, RSPS, BPOR, HI & PE

Excellent advice Shaun. Success in RE demands that we work well with many different people including clients, colleagues and third parties.

Jun 11, 2016 04:28 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Hello Shaun. Love your blog. So many helpful strategies. I'm following!

#2 is an aha moment for me:

While you are the expert here, it’s still your client’s money and ultimately their house. Make sure to listen to what your client is saying and understand where they’re coming from.

Aug 25, 2016 04:35 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

HI Shaun Nilsson - the toughest sellers to deal with are those who may have to bring money to the closing table.  However there is always a solution to any dilemma.

Sep 10, 2016 09:05 AM