Lessons From The Dirt

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

Lessons From The Dirt

 

Most of the year, if you were to wander my garden, you’d see grape vines with big leaves and bunches of Zinfandel grapes, Hibiscus, Plumeria, Roses, Jade, Ficus Trees and other tropical beauties. Then, you’d come across my pot of dirt. You’d naturally assume something was about to be planted or recently died and needed replacing. Ah but you’d be fooled my friend, for beneath that soil, which I care for all year, lies a mostly dormant, annual visitor to my garden.

 

 

When we finally bought our home in San Diego, after renting initially when we relocated here in 2003, I was finally able to return to one of my passions- gardening. 

 

One day while visiting our world famous Carlsbad Flower Fields, I bought the seeds to those flowers and planted them, unbeknownst to her. See, they are my bride's favorite flower (and they are very pricey in florist shops), so I wanted to be able to give her up to a dozen per year without the fee. She used to ask me, why do you keep that pot of dirt out there? I told her it was where I kept all the worms for our garden. The following year, in July, and every year since, we get this explosion of pinks & fuchsias from these gorgeous summer visitors. They only come once per year and they bloom for maybe, up to 2 weeks if we’re lucky, then they’re gone for another year. They are The Stargazer Lily.

 

That may seem like a lot of fuss and waiting for such a short blooming season, but when we see the Stargazers in full bloom in our yard, outside our kitchen window, well-it even makes doing the dishes a pleasure. Raising Stargazers also served me as a reminder for my business:

 

Not everything we do in our day to day to work days to generate leads, serve our clients, work our escrow and practice our personal disciplines of success are sexy.  We have days of few results in fact. Yet, if we were to stop doing what it is we do to grow our businesses, close deals and create advocates, we’d go out of business. If I didn’t water, fertilize, pull weeds and fend off the garden pests that like to eat the flower stalks, I’d never be blessed with the blooms, eg. the reward.

 

It takes being faithful to the little, to be given a lot.

 

30 weeks per year I care for a pot of dirt. 15 weeks per year I care for green, leafy stalks. 5 weeks per year I care for green, leafy stalks with bulbs. 2 weeks per year, we get these beauties...

First bloom of 2016

stargazer lily

Previous Seasons:

stargazer

 

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Kathleen Daniels
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I love the analogy in your post. Seeds. Patience. The reward. 

On another note ... what you did for your wife is so darn sweet!

Jul 11, 2016 12:38 AM #14
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We got the strangest gift from littering. A water melon plant on the side walk. I even find a $10 bill on our tree.

Jul 11, 2016 03:53 AM #15
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Beautiful stargazers! Planting them because they are your wife's fave is touching. Then, the analogy to business>>  seed+patience = Reward.  

Jul 11, 2016 05:25 AM #16
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Jul 11, 2016 05:35 AM #17
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Thomas

This is really a good analogy - seeds, patience, results... using your personal experience and penchant for growing star gazer lilies, a favorite of mine as well. A most enjoyable, and colorful read!

Jeff

Jul 11, 2016 06:10 AM #18
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Lyn Sims
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Awesome, they are my favorites. 

Jul 11, 2016 06:43 AM #19
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Thomas J. Nelson, Realtor - great analogy!!!

We must keep on doing what is right for our business - whether we see results on day one or not!

Jul 11, 2016 01:39 PM #20
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Beautiful Flowers and a great analology of patience and gaining the reward of the payoff from investing time.  Thanks for sharing! You have a blessed wife to have you and your devotion to growing your relationship.

Jul 11, 2016 02:35 PM #21
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Thanks for sharing that unique perspective Thomas J. Nelson, Realtor and the importance of cultivating our own businesses and customers over time - well done!

Jul 12, 2016 12:16 AM #22
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Hi Thomas - I love your analogy, and it's so true. Perfect. Thanks. And--your stargazers are gorgeous.

Jul 12, 2016 12:18 AM #23
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You are a blooming genius!    I love the analogy as I too find the value in dirt.

Jul 12, 2016 01:17 AM #24
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Congratulations on the feature!  Well deserving post.

Jul 12, 2016 01:18 AM #25
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Great point.  Sometimes things we do years ago all of a sudden pay off, just by our being patient and helpful.

Jul 12, 2016 03:41 AM #26
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Your flowers are beautiful and so is your analogy. 

I'm jealous - I had lillies in my flower borders (not these, but pretty none the less) but underground critters came along and munched - so I don't have them any more. 

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I love the post and the photos. Congratulations on  the featured post.

Jul 12, 2016 09:09 AM #28
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Hi Thomas J. Nelson, Realtor!  A good parable for Realtors.

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Beautiful!  You are very lucky to have that talent.  Others don't invest the time or learn how.  In Arizona, our flowers are indoors this time of year!

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Those are beautiful flowers!  Can't you plant them in the ground somewhere where they can really spread their wings and expand?

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Hello Thomas

Great post, story, photos and your post has been featured to the group:

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Sometimes the rewards we value the most are those rare beauties that we wait the longest for.

Nice surprise for your bride Thomas!

Jul 14, 2016 08:38 PM #33
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