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It happens a lot and is seldom discussed, just often complained about. Oh you know it, it may be called just one more thing or it could be, will you do me a favor, or even do you have just a minute for me. All of these expressions generally lead to piling on: a practice of expanding the tasks of one person to suit another who is usually unaware of just what the first person deals with day to day. In work, it happens often in top down organizations. It happens where I work (both places) and every time it does I remember why I was self employed for most of my life. Be careful. If you pile on too much you may just lose someone you rely upon who has had just one more task than they can or will handle.

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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Pat.        Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 10:26 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Paul. I'll live but there is a point of no return and I may be there. TY     Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 10:27 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Understood Chris Ann. TY     Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 10:27 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Hi Sheila, it is so true that people try to pile things on us, if they need a favor or a minute, etc.

Jul 21, 2016 10:45 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Sybil. Indeed.     Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 10:50 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Sheila unfortunately there is a temptation to pile on when some one is know for doing a good job when they take on a task.  What is forgotten is if you pile on too much the quality goes down.

Jul 21, 2016 10:57 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you George. Exactly.         Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 11:03 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Sheila, I totally get it... my other half Diane works for a Law firm and they keep piling on thing on top of her because she is good... needless to say I hear the pain and the complaints... trying to motivate her... I can see one more task might push her over...Endre

Jul 21, 2016 03:00 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Unfortunately this does happen far too often Sheila, yet every manager knows the old saying, "if you want to get something done, give it to a busy person".

Jul 21, 2016 04:31 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Endre. I wish Diane well. This may have been prophetic for me too. TY     Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 08:23 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello Bob. There can be truth in that but after a point in time......Bye  Bye. TY    Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 08:24 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Sheri. I hadn't thought about that in years but I read it and agree. TY   Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 08:31 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning Sheila.  Yes ma'am I've seen it happen.  The more work that gets piled on the lower the quality of the job.

Jul 21, 2016 08:39 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you James.      Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 08:40 PM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Sheila, it happens in the corporate environment all the time as I so sadly remember ... and in regular life I now know how to say no when it is needed.

Jul 21, 2016 08:49 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Ginny. Me too. TY      Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 08:50 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I need to dig out of some of my pile. I spend too much time on ActiveRain. 

Jul 21, 2016 09:51 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Me too Roy. TY       Sheila

Jul 21, 2016 09:55 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

It is important to learn when to say no and mean it. I know eactly what you are saying. It creates burn out.

Jul 21, 2016 11:37 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Debbie.        Sheila

Jul 22, 2016 12:02 AM