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BE DO HAVE (life recipe)

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

There is no formula for living life. However, there are lots of recipes for it and I am going to introduce one to you that helps the traveler (you) to have a quality about you based on intimacy and honesty starting with the self. You see we are only satisfied by what we find satisfying and we would be wise to respect the dynamics of reward and closure as we travel from moment to moment

STATE OF BEING

What we think is not the same as who you are or think you are. You are who you are called BE for this lesson. Whatever your BE is, that is who you are. It is your curent state of innocent reality & transparency without effort that when people see a person in their BE, they in effect accept that BE for what it is

BE DEFINED:  A effortless state of innocence, free of will , guile or agenda with a complete self- acceptance with portrayal of same of ones actual self in the moment regardless of circumstances as presented.  A natural state

 NATURE ALL (natural)

You see the BE in Nature who never lies and how it is itself even though it is in a constant state of change while navigating. It remains and maintains its identity allowing others clarity and perspective. We also see this in little children who have no guile, thought process or planning as they unfold.

SPONTANEOUS

The BE of everyone or thing is described further as an open, natural and uninhibited behavior or stance with a obvious reality driven by the truth of the moment it is in. The BE is a constant state needing no support, approval, permission or explanation as it is self-evident. Think: What you see is what you get

DO DEFINED: The act of action or performance that comes about by deliberate activity for a reason or purpose or by a natural occurrence or by-product from living, traveling and preferred state of BEing

DO

The Doing is commanded by the doer and causes one to have or not depending what is or is not done by the doing or not doing. It is closely related to risk for gain and activating a result or hunt for same. DO must be directed or it does not account or perform as expected but instead as it chooses to randomly DO

HAVE

This dynamic is the return for ones spending of energy, resource, beliefs driven by action or inaction that feeds closure or activates the "wanting" depending on how the HAVE is directed or misdirected too. It must occupy a place of service or it can easily extend past its prime & preferred function

HAVE DEFINED: The direct result of ones actions, thoughts and beliefs manifested and brought about by desire, deliberate action and pursuit. Often considered a destination or arrival dynamic that if not directed will gather unto itself all things instead of specifics.

HAVE AT IT?

Having is what comes from DOING quite naturally. You can HAVE anything but how does it prosper you is always the good question to be asked and answered. Does it function, have purpose & does it allow freedom or confinement for the HAVING of it? Having must be directed or has no true purpose or end

BE DO HAVE

When a person is in their BE mode whatever or whoever that is, then the DOING from the BEING in that mode guarantees a simple available reward outcome without any effort. It is the natural preferred state of receiving mode called HAVE. This is the correct and natural order and when practiced fits like a glove

LET'S MIX IT UP

To help you better understand the recipe, lets mix it up and see it at work from different points of view and approaches. These all work, but do not pay-off optimum and require more effort giving less return. They also rob one of the true and rewarding life of living care free and light hearted as intended

THESE WORK BUT FOR WHOM?

DO HAVE BE...Notice we are directing the will to an outcome here and reward ourselves for doing so. This recipe is selfish in nature and makes for a false self ending. Your BE is from your DO and cannot sustain itself. Performing for living without any reward-able time-out exhausts and leads to self-defeat

HAVE BE DO...Possessing an item or a "want" thus creating a instant gratifying response that requires constant DO to promote the HAVE. Exhausting and self-defeating at some point offering no rest. You are not your car, clothes, home or wealth but HAVE says you are. No fulfillment here but fool-filment

LINE-UP IN PREFERRED ORDER

BE...yourself whatever that is. Remain loyal to this truth and refine it as instructed as you are living it. It produces a genuineness, honesty and credible character definition from which all find favor with.

DO...what comes natural from BEING yourself at any given time. This innocence factor then becomes an effective signal to all opening doors and opportunities without keys or connections.

HAVE...Results follow naturally and life bonuses are thrown in that were not known or planned for. It is the horn of plenty (for you) and the cup running over because it is constantly filling itself as it goes

Closing note: Everyone is living out a type of this recipe but in what order? Visit with this, examine your approaches to the different life subjects and choose the one order that never needs to be chosen again and live the life intended from it

Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Richie, very interesting. It may be close to what I (try) to live by. Getting rid of that pesky ego, letting go of emotions as they arise, just being who I am, no separation from anything. The do and the have's come naturally. And sometimes there is no doing, just being. 

As I said, try, as that ego is a persistant thing, determined to get me involved in a head on crash. 

Sep 01, 2016 02:52 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Andrea Swiedler ...I like the way you put it. This concept belongs to you methinks as it summoned you here and you did respond to that call. Thank you

Sep 01, 2016 02:54 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for sharing your life recipe. 

Have a great day and a most productive week.

 

Sep 06, 2016 11:51 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

How good of you to join me Roy Kelley ...best to you in all you do

Sep 06, 2016 11:56 PM