Respect my Relationships

Reblogger Lynn B. Friedman
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty Call/Text 404-939-2727 Buckhead - Midtown - Westside -- and more ...

Dear Readers -

John Meussner's very thorough explanation of what to expect on Closing Day related to a Mortgage presents all the necessary details.


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Original content by John Meussner NMLS #138061 MMCD #1141

Respect my Relationships



     When doing a real estate transaction, my top priority is my borrower.  Nearly as important is their agent.  Also important to me is my relationship with the listing agent on a purchase transaction.  When everyone is on the same team, communicating, and working toward the same goal, things just go better, and business is much more pleasant than when one party is trying to steal the show or is hostile toward other sides.

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     While I try to accommodate listing agents because I know they've got anxious sellers and sometimes not knowing what's going on with the other side can drive a person cuckoo, sometimes we approach what I call "the line".  You don't cross the line.  Or I will call you out, albeit kindly.  One way a listing agent can cross the line is calling while in negotiation with my borrowers and their agents to ask "can they afford more?".  



     I don't say yes.  I don't say no.  I simpl
y ask, "if I were working with a buyer that you represented, how would you want me to answer this question?".  100% of the time they've understood and not pressed further.  I understand the different scenarios where a buyers purchasing power is important to understand - perhaps you're trying to put a deal together and the numbers are close based on the preapproval letter but not quite where they need to be.  Perhaps you're prying, trying to squeeze some info to strengthen your seller's position?  It's not my position to decide which it is, so please respect my relationship and speak with the buyer's agent to negotiate.



     Recently, I've had the seller's side reach out to ask me about an application in process, to - not generic "how are things going" type questions.  Instead, loan specific questions like "what are the conditions on the approval?".  My response was a simple "please contact the buyer's agent with any questions related to the buyer or their loan application as I'm providing updates to them along the way". Seriously folks, respect my relationship with the borrower & their agent.    



     If an agent is being unresponsive or hostile, sure, pick up the phone and give me a call.  But bypassing the buyer's agent and coming straight to me on buyer details and updates?  Give me a break.  Respect my relationships, and let's go to settlement.

John Meussner

NMLS# 138061

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Harry F. D'Elia
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I very much appreciate the reblog today.

Sep 14, 2016 11:15 PM #1
John Meussner
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Thanks so much for the reblog, Lynn!  Appreciate it, along with all of your help : )

Sep 15, 2016 04:51 AM #2
Beth Atalay
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Hi Lynn B. Friedman, great choice of re-blog. So much love, care and sharing in the rain.

Sep 15, 2016 06:21 AM #3
Gita Bantwal
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This is a good post to reblog. Thanks for sharing. Have a good day.

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Good choice for a reblog. John Meussner adds quality to AR.

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